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一、开展一次优良的沟通
jiusuanjiaowangjiulezaoyiduilingyifangshifenzhangwo,shijianjiulebicidechengzhangduanyehuibuyiyang,neiyangjiuhuiduinimendeganqingjiuhuizaochengweihai,zheigeshihoujiubixushencengdegoutong。nanshenghenyoukenenghuibuyuanyiyongyuyansunhaini,yincizhiyouyonglengmodefangfalaijinkenengshengshuni。zheigeshihounikeyiganshoudaolingyifangdegenggai,yinciniyejiunenggoujijizhaolingyifangtanyitan,youyuganqingzhongyouhenduodongxishilingyifangburongyijijishuochulaide。zuixianyaogoujianyigeyouliangdegoutongziranhuanjing,zaiyouliangdeziranhuanjingqifenxia,lingyifanghenyoukenengjiuhuibataxiangshuodeneirongdoushuochuqu。duozhaojiyugenlingyifanggoutong,henyoukenengxuduoshierjiuhuiyuelaiyuegengweijianyi。
jiranshixiangjiejuekunnan,jiuyingdanglixingdetiaochulaiqinglvdeguanlian,yilingtingzhedeshijiaolaisisuonanpengyoushuodehua。henyoukenengninengfajuelingyifangshijishangxinliduiniyouhenduobumanyi,danyizhiyemeiyoubiaoxianchulai,yinweiaibuyuanyouyuzheizhongyunizaochenggehe,ruguonizhangwodaodeqingkuangxia,jiuxuyaojijijiuzheng。richangshenghuoheganqingyiyang,doubixuzishenquyunying,jinyouzijintouruledaliangdeqinfenyihou,caikeyihuodedaolixianghuazhongdeganqing。shizhongyongjijizhudongdexintaiquyingduiganqing,bubiganqingyongshi,bubishuaxiaopiqi。
二、思考2个人的情感相处模式
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