分手后的黄金挽回时间段是哪个时间段？

 enaiyizhilaidehenrongyi，jiaowangqueyizhiyouguoduodebaoqian。youhenduolianrenmeiyouchengdandezhuzaiyiqidekankankekejiugebendongxi。youxieqinglvzailianaizhongjingchangjiaozongmanheng，fenshouhoucaizhiqingrenzhong，yizhilingrenhouhuibuyi。neimezuosixingfenshouzenmewanhui？fenshouhouwanhuigaizenmezuo？fenshouhoudehuangjinwanhuishijianshishenmeshihou？zheixiewentirangwozhuyiconggegefangmianpouxi。

一、问一问自身，你掌握另一方吗

 henduorenfenshoudouhulihutu，chukaizhiqian，baoqian，bianshiyoukuyounao。keshiquegaobudongweihelingyifanghuihezishenfenshou。yinci，dangfenshoushi，gengbixudeshiqulvxinghuoshiqingjingdidiqu，rangzishendeneixinpingjingyijing，haohaoxiangyixianggairuhechulizheiyiduanqinggan。ruoshiganjueshizishenbushihelingyifang，neimezishennengbunengdiaojiegaishanni？ruoshiyiweidiganjuequanshilingyifangdeguoshi，neimejiumeiyouwanhuidebixu。zuizhongyaodeshi，nizhangwolingyifangma？jiarunizhangwolingyifang，nijiuzhidaolingyifangdeaihao，lejielingyifangdexingzihexingqing，lejieheshicaikeyihaiyoujihuiwanhuilingyifang，yifanggongkuiyikui，huoshilaoerwugong。

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二、关心另一方的动态性，把握机会

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 youshidajiaqueshihenqinpeizheixielianggedifangdelianren，yigerenweilegenghaodizhuiqiuwanmeizishenxinaiderenhenjinwanshuiqianshan，yincineiyangdeganqingyizhilingrenlingrenqinpei。zheilibiandeyuangubianshiganxinqingyuanditouru。zhongjiuganqinglailinshixingdaduoshuquanshizaizhongjiqiangdianrandesuiyue，nianqingshibuzhetengyaonianqingganshenmeni？ziran，meiyigerendezhuangkuangbuyiyang，keshibiewangjiguanxinlingyifangdedongtaixing，youyujinyouguanxinlingyifangdedongtaixing，caikeyifajuelingyifangdeaihao，caikeyitoujixingsuohao。huoshizailingyifangzuimingandeqingkuangxiashidudizhanchuqujiyukuanweiheshiyong。zhengsuoweihuannanjianzhenqing，renleidoudongde。bingqienixuyaoxiangzaiduxiyinzhulingyifang，neimeercixiyinzuixianyaotigaozijidegecengmian，yaoburannimeiyouyiqiedegenggai，lingyifangyebuhuizaipeizainishenbiande。

三、在另一方必须解释的情况下竭尽全力

 youshixuduolianrenwangwangfenshou，bianshiyouyukanbushunyanlingyifangdeyixiezuowei，huoshixiangyaonijiqiyouxiaodejieshi。zheigeshihouqianwanbiezhuyaobiaoxiannidelengdanhewudongyuzhong。youyuneiyangzuozongshidebuchangshi。danglingyifanghaixiangyaonijieshideqingkuangxia，biaominglingyifangneixinhaiyounide。jiarulingyifangliannidehuadoubuxiangtingdeqingkuangxia，biaominglingyifangyagenjiubuzaiyinini。yinci，jiarulingyifangxiangyaonidejieshi，neimejiuzhenxinchengyiqujieshi，jibianfancuowu，haiyaomingjitanbaicongkuandebiaozhun。rendoushiyoulixingdeyimian，bixujieshishiyouyuzaiyi，manbujianglishiyouyuqidaihuodenideguanxin。yincizheigeshihou，niyidingyaoyouchongzudexixin，bubifangdanzheiyifenqinggan。youyuxuduoshieryidanfangxialehenyoukenengjiuqueshifangxiale，yaoxiangzhuihuijiunanyi。

 xuduonanyiwanghuaideganqinghaowujieguo，bianshiyouyubicizhongjianyouyuyixiewujie，youyubicijuedelingyifangbuzaiyizishen，meiyoujilingyifangyigefeichanghaodejieshi。yaobushijieshidetaichi，erdaozhiwufawanhuidequehan。huayanqiaoyuhuoxuwuxuguoduo，keshiyikezhenxinshiyidexinjiukanqilaishifenguanjian。yinci，danglingyifangbixujieshideqingkuangxia，bianshiniwanhuilingyifangdezuihaoshijianfanwei，bubicuoguolezheiyishijianerweizijidaozhiyishengdequehan。

四、在另一方又生自身气的情况下

 bicifenshou，jiarulingyifangrengzaishengzishendeqi，biaominglingyifangneixinhuoshiyoulenide。youyurujinshehuifazhanshenghuodejiezoutaikuai，zuizhenguidebianshishijian。yigerenhuazainideshenshangdeshijianyueduo，zhengshilingyifangjiuyouduoaini。jiarulingyifangneixinmeiyouni，lianfahuodeshijiandoubuxianghua。lianaizhongderendefahuodoushiyouyutaizaiyilingyifang。zheigeshihouzuibixudebianshilingyifangdekuanwei，yinciyoushizhanxiandefangfahenyoukenengbuyiyang，yaobushimaiyuan，chize，baoyuan。keshizhixubingbushilengdan，neimenidoushiyoujiyuwanhuilingyifang。yincizheigeshihounixuyaohuashijianhaohaohonghonglingyifang。buguanninyouduomedemang，nixuyaolejie，qianmeiyoulenenggouzaizhuan，gongzuozhongdiushinenggouzaizhao。

 keshiyidanlingyifangmeile，neimehuoxunijiangshizhongsangshilingyifang。renyizhizaiqiongkunliaodaodeqingkuangxiazuibaochiqingxing。quanbudezheixiefenqi，jiufenanjian，youlvhaoxiangdouzaoyiyuelaiyuewuzuqingzhong。youshinaizhiganjuenengzaiyiqichaozhengchaoquanshiyizhongxingfukuaile。shuobaile“dangjuzhemi，pangguanzheqing”jiushizheigedadaoli。yinci，yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，jiuxuyaogaoqingchutuiyibukaikuotiankongdedadaoli。lingyifangfahuoshizishenqianwanbiefahuo，lingyifangdongnushizishenjiuxuyaodangxiaofangmiehuoqi，zongeryanzhi，yaoxiangwanhuidajiadeganqing，jiuxuyaoxuehaoqianrang，kuanyidairen，xuehaohonglingyifanggaoxing，xuehuizunzhonglingyifang，lijielingyifang，jinyouneiyang，caikeyiranglingyifangyulaiyuyikaoni，caikeyichuangjianbicizhongjiandexinlai。

 qingganlimeiyousheiduidaodishisheidecuo，youyuqingganlishizuibunengyunxujiangmingbaidadaolidediqu。henduorenyizhiyouyuzaiqingganlitaibaochiqingxing，yinciyizhizhaobuzhemanzugan。rujindequanqiuzhuanbiantaikuai，rendegerenxinlisuzhidouyuelaiyueminganhebukanyiji。xingfukuailezaoyidelaibuyi，yinciruoshihaodeqinggan，qingxuehaohuxiangaixi。fenshouhouwanhuiduifang，qingcongrujinxueqi，gaibianxianzhuang，caikeyizaojiurenshengdaolu，qudechenggongwanhuisangshideganqing。niyaocaozongletaren，zuixianjiuxuyaojianguanhaozishen。xiangzuorishuoyishengzaijian，jintianxindeyitian！zhixuyongxinquganshou，zhixuyeyouxingdong，neime，yiqiehaiyoujihui！