nanpengyouxiangfenshounengwanhuima?youxierenshuo,nvxingtifenshou,shiweilegenghaodidedaodaliangguanxin;ernanshengtifenshou,shilijingshenzhongkaolv。queshi,yiduanqinggan,zinanyoujuecefenshoudeneiyikeqi,jieguobianzaoyizhongjiu。zaigezhonggeyanglibidehengliangyihou,zuihouhuoshilikai。duiyucishi,nandaoshuojiumeiyouyisihuanjiekongjian?bu,yiqieshierbingbingbushikendingde,tangruoniyaoxiangzhidaofenshouhouwanhuinanyoujuezhao,hebukanyixiaxialiesangenanpengyouyaofenshouwanhuijiqiao,rangxinxinfenshoudetazaiciyunifuhexing。
方式一:着急吃不上豆腐,临时分手一段时间
ganqingxuduoqingkuangxia,bixuchengredatie。dan,bicizhijiandouqiduanniandizhishi,gengweibixudeshilengque。
zheiyike,maodunjinjinzaochengfenshoudedaohuoxian,mengliedejushizeshiyinweizhangqixingbeiyayigan、beihulvexinliganqingdesuoleiji。rutonghuoshanpenfazhichu,didongshanyao、tianfandifu,tiandiwanwusuiqiangyoulierzuzhibule,yishijianxiongxiong,huangruoshijiemori。
fenshouhouwanhuinanyoujuezhaodeqiadangzuofashijiranbaofa,jiuwanquanyixie;jiranfaxie,jiushuangkuaiyixie。zairanshaodehuoyan,zuihouyehuimiediao;zaimengliedeshanbeng,zuihouyequxiangningjing。gangfenshou,yiqiechengshiershang,bunengyongrenliziyuanzulan。qinei,jinkenengyizhiqingbuzijindexiangnian,butongdianhua、bufaxiaoxi、budaraobicizhijian,bukaizhanwanliu。yunyonghaoshijian,lengquedangjin,lengquexintai,lengquefenshoudeyiqie。dangbicizhijianquxianglizhi,xiangbanfa、moufangfancuoshibianhuigengweikeguanxing、heli。
方式二:“哀之而不鉴之,亦使后代发作哀后代也”
qingganfenshou,ganqingkunjing,bidingsuizhezhegeshigeyangdeshiqing、maodun。jiarubukeyizailizhizhuangkuangxialijikaizhansisuo、sikao、pouxi、huizong,neimedagailvhaihuijixuyicuozaicuo。
dajiazongshuo,yishiweijing。ganqingdelishishijian,jinyouzishenlijingdecaikeyiqieshenganshou。zheiyiduanqingganzhong,daodishiyouyushishenmeyuanyindaozhilejinrizheileijushini?nenggoucongsangecengmiankaizhanpouxi:
yi、benshenyuangu。nenggouhuiguotoukanbenshen,yinweinayizhonggerenxingweizaochenglingyifangnaonu?youneixieyantanjuzhixiangduixingpianji?shibushiyouxiguanxinglingyifangmeifajiena?zheixie,yaosikao。youshihou,yinbenshenzaochengdehunyinpolierengbuzizhi,shiyijianhenkongbudeshi。
er、lingyifangyuangu。sikaozhihou,nenggoujiangyiyangnantitaozainanyoudeshenshang,bicizhijiankaizhanhuhuan,jinerxiajielun。
san、shibushiyouyitonggerenaihao?sanguanxiangfuhe?neixinshangde“menbudanghubudui”,youshihoubishijizhongdepeiduigengweiguanjian。
zhishangyaoxixinsisuoxiajielun,weixiayibuwanhuinanyouchushixingdonggangyao。
方式三:柔和修建一切能够沟通的公路桥梁
yishuogoutong,henduorenhuiganjuefeichangjiandan,bubianshishenrutantao,shuomingniantou。nanpengyouxiangfenshounengwanhuima?shijishang,jiuzheiyangjianyideshier,rengyouhenduochengrenrengweibawo。richangshenghuo,youguoduoyouyuburongyigoutongerdaozhideqingganwenti。youshihou,shuozheshuozhebianfahuo、xinji;youshihou,buqingchushishenmeyuanyin,jiuzhujianchongzhenaopiqi;youshihou,yingduilingyifangdeyierzaizaiersan,juededaliangmishi、wukenaihe,zheiquanshiburongyigoutongdejieguo。
ruhezhengquebiaoshuzishenxinlisuogan,shizhongshinanpengyouyaofenshouwanhuijiqiaodebixiukecheng。zuixianyaoqingting,conglingyifangsuomiaoshuneirongzhongdedaoyaoqiuxinxineirong。cizhiyaoxuehaorouhe,menglieyanyutongchanggengweizhizhisheng,feichangrongyijiqibicizhijianbumanqingxu。zuizhongyaoxuehaorongqia,zhengfengxiangduishi,fenbietuiyibu,rourenxingduo;fenbiejinyibu,bianqinhaidaobicizhijianxinlizhuangtaijiexian。yinci,yaorouhechuangjianyiqienenggougoutongdefangfa、fangshi,tashizuizhongyaode。jianxin,genjulengquejushi,cankaoganqinglijing,chuangjiangoutonggongluqiaoliang,dingrangxinxinfenshoudenanyouhehaoruchu。
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