gennanyoufenshouhou,jiaruzaimeiyoulianghaodegoutong,huidaozhihuxiangdeguanxikailie,zhangciyiwanglianggerenlidegengzhangyuan,wanliuyegengbuyile。yaoxiangyingyonggoutongjiaoliuquwanliuqiannanyou,yaozhuzhongyixietuixiaohuashu。nanpengyouyaofenshouwanhuijiqiaoyingyongyixieshidangdehuashu,nenggoufujiandajiazhongjiandexinlai,ranglingyifangxiangyaogennilaigoutongjiaoliu。xiamianlaifenxiangzheixiefenshouhouwanhuinanyoujuezhaojini,rangnibuzaiyouxinnanpengyouxiangfenshounengwanhuima。
一、建立相同之处
nvshuofenshoutongchangshiweilegenghaodijiechuanlingyifang,nanrentifenshoubianshiqueshiyaoxiangliqu。zheigeshihoubuyiburao,fandaohuirangnanyougengweiyanjuan,xiajuexinliqu。wuxutaiduodigentadaoqian,yewuxujitamentaiduodefuwuchengnuo,fuwuchengnuoguoduobianshiwusuoweile。
fenshouhouwanhuinanyoujuezhaoguanjianshiyaojianlibicizhijiandexiangtongzhichu。xiangtongzhichu,bianshilianggerendeganqingjichu,shilianggerenxianghuzhijianxiangyong、keyilaidaoyiqideyuanyin。xiangtongdianfeichangrongyizaochengbicidegongmingdian,zheigeshihou,ninengtijilianggerendeyitonggerenaihao、lianggerenyitongdezongtimubiaohefangan,bubiyouyuqitashierdadanaonao,erbaxiangtongdiandiuzaiyibian,zhujianzoupian。zhixupianyilexiangtongdian,lianggerenjiufeichangrongyichanshengmaodun。
二、明白聆听另一方
lianggerengaoshangfenshou,henzhongyaodeyigeyuangubianshigoutongjiaoliunanti。jiaruqianqueyouzhidegoutongjiaoliu,meiduoshaolianluo,qingganmeifasuzaoqilai。buyuanyitinglingyifangjianghua,changchanghushilingyifangganqinggoutongjiaoliudebixu,nanyouhaowuyiwenhuijuede:wojiniqinggandoububi,haiguaiwoya!
nanpengyouyaofenshouwanhuijiqiaoyaoxiangyaolingtinglingyifangdeniantou,yongxinqupinwei,gaoduzhongshinanyoudeguanlijuece。neiyangkeyijiangditaduinidefoudingxintai。xianglingyifangbiaoshunikeyilejielingyifangdeniantouhezuofa,jiusuantashuodaozheyixiekonghua,niyeyaopingxinjingqidiyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。aiqingjiushixiangyaotinglingyifangkonghuaburongyiyanjuan,jiarunimeimingbailingting,neimejiububijixiwangyunengwanhuinanyoule。
三、聊天内容积极主动
zaiwanhuinanyoushi,bieyizhibazijijiabanyifushouhairendeyangzi,xiguanxingxiangrenzhanxiannidebeijuhebiequ。niruguoyoufumianqingxu,zongshichuanranlingyifang,shiqingganqingkuanggengweiebian。xuehaozuoyigeleguanderen,jibianqueshipengdaoxuduocuobaihejiannan,yekeyiyikuweile,batongkubianweicaifu。
kaixinbianshiyizhongchuantongmeide,kuailederengengyoufengcai,sheidoushihuixiaizheiyangderen。meirenxiaiyitiandaowangenchoumeibuzhanderendaizaiyiqi,xiaorenchangqiqi,youshihoujihuitarenhuikuanweini,laoshineimoyangsheidoushihuibizhibuji。genlingyifangxiantanshi,yaomingbaizhengqueduidailingyifang,shuoyixieshenxinjiankangde、jiaoweikaixindehuati,neirongdouxuyaofenfaxiangshang,neiyanglingyifangcaixiangyaogenniliao。
四、应用搞笑幽默
nanpengyouxiangfenshounengwanhuima?wanhuinanyouzheiyiquanguocheng,jiaruniyaoqingqingsongsongkuailedian,zhongyaoyaobaifangbenshendexinlizhuangtai。huiyoumoderenyizhileguankailangde,nenggoushiduyingyongyixiegaoxiaoyoumo,laihuanjielianggerendemaodun,baxiaoshihuale,xiaoshihuawu。zaigoutongjiaoliushangshuoyiliangjuyoumodehua,jiangxierangrenpengfudaxiaodechaoxiao,bujinnengshirendaqijingshen,haiyouyiyuqingchuxianghuzhijiandewujiehemoca。youmodehuahuishirenhuorankailang,nenggouhuanjiexintaiqifen,yekeyishilingyifangdezhuanzhulihuodeqianyi,buhuizaidanxinyuzhiqianzheixiemafanshi。nvxingdefengquhuishinanrenzaochengzunjing,nanrendefengqunenggouzaochengganqing,xiangtaohuiqiannanyoulaiyidianfengqulequ,wanliujiubingbushinanti。
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