花镇：夫妻观点不和时怎么沟通

　　fuqizhijiandezhengchaoshixuduojiatingzhongnanyibimiandezhuangkuang。fuqiguandianbuheshizenmegoutong，tongguoyixiejiandandefangfa，keyiyouxiaodijianqingfuqijiandefenqi，zengjinshuangfangdeganqing。yixiashiliugezhidechangshidefangfa：

　　一、学会倾听与沟通

　　youxiaogoutongshijiejuewentidehexin。zaizhengchaoshi，shuangfangyingjinlianglengjingxialai，lingtingduifangdeguandianhetihui。shizhezhanzaiduifangdejiaodusikaowenti，lijieduifangdelichang。tongguoyouxiaodegoutong，nenggoujianshaowujiehemaodun。

　　二、尊重与包容

　　fuqijianyaoxianghuzunzhonghebaorongduifangdechabie。meigerenyoumeigerendexinggehexiguan，meiyoujueduiduicuo。zaizhengchaoshi，yaoxuehuikongzhiqingxu，fangzhigongjiduifangdepingehuozizun。zunzhonghebaorongnenggoujianshaomaodun，cujinganqing。

　　三、开设共同目标

　　kaishegongtongmubiaohesixiang，nengrangfuqigengjiatuanjie。shuangfangkeyiyiqiguihuaweilai，zhidingjiatingjihua，yiqiweijiatingdexingfuernuli。zaituijingongtongmubiaodeguochengzhong，fuqijiandeguanxihuigengjiajinmi。

　　四、互相支持和关心

　　fuqijianyaohuxiangzhichiheguanxinduifangdeshenghuohegongzuo。zaiduifangyudaokunnanshi，yingjiyujijidezhichiheguli。tongguohuxiangguanxinhezhichi，keyizengjinbicideganqing，jiangdizhengchao。

　　五、培养共同话题

　　gongtongdegerenaihaonengzengqiangfuqijiandemoqiheganqing。shuangfangkeyiyiqichangshixindehuodong，peiyanggongtongdeaihao。zaigongtonghuodongzhong，fuqijiandehudonghuizengjia，youliyuzengjinbicidelejieheganqing。

　　六、定期开展沟通交流

　　fuqiguandianbuheshizenmegoutong？dingqikaizhangoutongjiaoliushiweichifuqiguanxidezhongyaoyihuan。shuangfangkeyianshizuoxiatanxin，fenxiangbicideganshouhexiangfa。tongguogoutongjiaoliu，nenggoujishifaxianbingchuliyinxingdemaodunhewenti。