夫妻矛盾该怎么沟通

　　fuqimaodungaizenmegoutong？fuqizhijianchaojiashichangyoudeshi，danruhechulichaojiananti，fangzhiduiganqingzaochengweihai，shimeiduifuqidouxuyaomianduideketi。benwenjiangjidajiajieshaoqizhongchulifuqichaojiadefangfa，xiezhufuqizhonghuihexie。

　　一、学会换位思考

　　fuqizhijianyingxuehuihuanweisikao，bunengbazijideyiyuanqiangjiajiduifang。ruguozongshiyaoqiuduifanganzhaozijidesiweibanshi，yidanduifangdeyanxinghezijideqiwangbufu，biankaishishuluo，zheiyanghenrongyiyinfazhengchao。

　　jiejuezhengchaodeguanjianzaiyu，shuangfangdouyaodongdezunzhongduifang，xuehuizhanzaiduifangdejiaodusikaowenti。yaosuishixiangzheduifang，erbushizhikaolvziji。dangxinzhongchongmanduibicidelejieheguanhuaishi，zhengchaoziranjiubuhuichuxianle。

　　二、学会感恩互助

　　fuqibianchengyijiarenhou，biciyongyouzhaoliaoduifangdezerenheyiwu。danzaishenghuozhong，yidingyaodongdeganen，bingfuzhushijian。bunengrenweiduifangdefuchushilisuodangrande，zijiquebufuchu。

　　ruguoyifangfuchu，lingyifangbudongdeganen，fuchudeyifanghuijuedebubeiguanzhu，shijianzhangle，yayideqingxubianhuibaofa，zhengchaoyezaisuonanmian。fuqizhijianyaobicifuchu，gongtongfendou，cainengrangjiatinghexie。

　　三、学会反思检讨

　　meiyoubuchaojiadefuqi，xiaochaoyiqing，danruguozhengchaobuduan，jiuzhengmingfuqiguanxichulewenti。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，shuangfangdouxuyaolengjingxialai，fansizijideyanxing，jiantaozijidebuzuzhichu。jiaruzijizuocuole，yaoyonggandixiangduifangrencuo，erfeijiuzheduifangdecuowubufang。yaokandaoduifangdeyoudian，xuehuikongzhizijidebuliangqingxu，fangzhibeiqingxuzuoyou。

　　四、学会礼让宽容

　　fuqichangchangzhengchao，biaomingshuangfangdoubijiaoqiangshi，budongdelirangbaorongduifang。zongxiangzherangduifanggaibian，quebuyuanyigaibianziji。qishi，renfeishengxian，meigerendouyouquedian，fuqizhijianxuyaodeshikuanrong。zailirangkuanrongxia，xionghuaihuibiandekuanguang，buzaijijiao，zhengchaoyejiuziranxiaoshile。

　　五、学会欣赏赞扬

　　fuqimaodungaizenmegoutong？fuqizhijianshuxizhihou，wangwanghuihulveduifangdeyoudian，zhikandaoduifangdequedian，kaishikekehebuman。zheiyangdexintaihenrongyizaochengzhengchao。

　　yaozhidao，renshimeiyougaibiande，gaibiandeshizijidexintaiherenshi。fuqizhijianyaoyongxinshangdeyanguangkandaiduifang，duoguli、zanyangduifang，rangduifangganshoudaozijizaiduifangxinlidezhongyaoxing，zheiyangcaibuhuichaojiale。

　　六、学会改变适应

　　fuqizhijianchaojia，henduoshihoushiyinweixianggaibianduifang，jiangduifangbianweizijixinmuzhongdemoyang。danmeigerenyoumeigerendeshenghuohuanjing、xinggepiqideng，gaibianyigerenshihennande。yuqixiangzhegaibianduifang，burugaibianziji，xuehuishiyingduifangdexiguanyuxingwei。zheiyang，fuqizhijiandezhengchaoyehuijianshao。

　　七、学会提升修养

　　fuqichangchangchaojia，biaomingshuangfangdoushijixingzi，piqibaozao，rongyijidong。zheiyangdelianggerenzaiyiqi，ziranhuizhanhuobuduan。ruoxiangfangzhichaojia，fuqishuangfangpingshikeyiduoduyixiediaojieqingxufangmiandeshuji，yanghuazhongcao，xiuyangshenxin，tigaozijidehanyang。kongzhizijidechongdong，xintaipinghele，zhengchaoyejiushaole。