fuqizhijianzengjinganqingdeliaotianhuati,shiyigeshejishendugoutong、qingganfenxianghebicilijiedezhuyaohuati。fuqishuangfangzenmejiaoliugoutong?xialieshiyouliugeduanluoxiangxichanshudeliaotianjiqiao,xiezhufuqizhijianzengjinganqing。
一、维持积极倾听

zengjinfuqiaiqingdeliaotianshouxianyaoqiushuangfangkeyijijiqingtingduifangdeyanyu。zheibujinyiweizhetingjianduifangshuoleshenme,haibaokuolijieduifangdeqinggan、yaoqiuhekanfa。
jijiqingtingyaoqiufuqizaijiaoliushizhuanxinzhizhi,buqieduanduifang,bumashangtichuzijidexiangfa,ershixianrangduifangchongfenbiaoda。tongguolingting,fuqinenggougoujianqixinrengan,rangduifanggandaobeizunzhonghelijie。
二、分享日常生活
fenxiangrichangshenghuoshizengjinfuqiaiqingdeyouxiaofangshizhiyi。fuqikeyifenxianggezigongzuo、shenghuosuoshi、qingxudeng,rangduifanglejiezijideshenghuofangshi。
zaifenxiangshi,yaozhuzhongxijie,rangduifangganshoudaozijideshenghuoyuqinggan。tongshi,yeyaoguanzhuduifangdeshenghuo,tiwen、lingting,lejieduifangdexuqiuhekanfa。tongguofenxiangrichangshenghuo,fuqinenggoujiashenbicidelejie,zengjinganqing。
三、表述情感
zaifuqiliaotianzhong,biaoshuqingganshizengjinganqingdeguanjian。fuqiyaoganyubiaodazijideqinggan,baohanxinuaile、duibicideaiqingdeng。tongguobiaoshuqinggan,keyirangduifanglejiezijideneixinshijie,zengjinbicidelijieherenke。
tongshi,yeyaoxuehuijieshouduifangdeqingganbiaoshu,jiyuduifangzhichiheanwei。zaibiaodaqingganshi,yaozhuyiyuqihefangfa,bimianshanghaiduifangdeganqing。
四、尊重与理解

zunzhongyulijieshifuqixianliaodejibenyuanze。zailiaotianguochengzhong,fuqiyaozunzhongduifangdeguandian、xiangfaheganshou,buqingyifourenhuozhizeduifang。
tongshi,yeyaolijieduifangdejingdiheqinggan,jiyuduifangzhichihelijie。zaichanshengfenqishi,yaolixingfenxi,xunzhaogongshi,fangzhizhengchaohemaodun。tongguozunzhongyulijie,fuqinenggougoujianqihexiedeguanxi,zengjinganqing。
五、造就共同话题
fuqishuangfangzenmejiaoliugoutong?zaojiugongtonghuatishizengjinfuqiganqingdeyouyizhongyaofangfa。fuqikeyixunzhaogongtongdegerenaihao、yingpian、yinle、lvyoudenghuati,jinxingshenrutantaoyujiaoliu。
tongguogongtonghuati,fuqinenggouzengjinbicidelejiehexingqu,jiashenganqing。tongshi,yeyaozunzhongduifangdegerenaihao,jiyuduifangzhichiheguli。zaichuangzaogongtonghuatishi,yaozhongshiduoyangxingheduchuangxing,bimianzhongfuhedandiao。
六、维持开放和诚实
zuizhong,weichikaifanghechengshishifuqixianliaozhongbukehuoquedezhiliang。fuqiyaoganyubiaodazijidezhenshixiangfaheganshou,bupabeiduifangwuhuihuozhize。
tongshi,yeyaobaochikaifangdexintai,jieshouduifangfankuiyujianyi。zailiaotianguochengzhong,ruguochuxianwuhuihuomaodun,yaoyongganmiandui,jishigoutonghechuli。tongguoweichikaifanghechengshi,fuqinenggougoujianqiyichengxiangdai、huxiangxinrendeguanxi,jinerzengjinganqing。
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