一般家庭中夫妻吵架多吗？

 fuqizong chaojia ma？fuqizhijianyouyigemoheguocheng，yidianbuchaoyeweibikeneng。danjingchangdongbudongjiuzhengchao，yourunisuoyan“feidanyingxiangqingxu，yehuishanghaiganqing”。yinci，nimenshuangfangyaolengjingxialai，haohaotantan，kankanwentijiujingchuzainali。

 nishuo“womenbiciyehenxiangai”，erqiezhengchaozhihouyedouhouhui。kejian，nimenzhijiandaduobushiyuanzexinghuopoliexingdezhengchao，ershishuyuyinxingge、zhiqu、siweifangshidengbutongerchanshengdemoca。youyumeiyouxuehuikezhi，youzhengqianghaosheng，jiurongyi“caqiangzouhuo”。

其实，吵架是一种比较激烈的沟通方式,它的本质是希望对方了解自己的想法。夫妻总吵架吗？由于人的头脑容易在激动中发热，一不理性话就说偏、说过头。因此，基督徒夫妻如要避免争吵，就要：

一、同心祈祷是秘方

 zhengchaoshimianduiren，renyurenjiaojing，sheiyebufushei。fuqichaojiaduoma，danyidanqidaomianduishenshi，renquehuikandaozijibuzu，yenengxunqiushendemeiyiyijiyin“wanshihuxiangxiaoli”suodailaideyichu。gufuqirunengxiangyuemeitianyouyiciyitongzhenxinqidao，fuqiguanxibidingmeihao。

二、尊重差异不可忘

 suiranshengjingshuofuqi“liangrenchengweiyiti”，danzheibunengfourennannvjianyuanbencunzaidegezhongchayi，rusiweifangshishangdebutong：runanrenzhonglixing，nvrenzhongganxing；nanrenzhongqianjing，nvrenzhonghuiyi；nanrenzhongfazhan，nvrenzhongbaozhang；nanrenzhongdaju，nvrenzhongxijie；nanrenzhongjieguo，nvrenzhongguochengdengdeng，zheixiechayixuyaoshuangfangbicitiliang，huanweisikao，cainengjianshaochongtu。

三、少讲道理多讲爱

 changyanshuo：“qingguannanduanjiawushi”、“gongshuogongyouli、poshuopoyouli”。jiashiaidegongtongti，bushishuolidedifang。ruguoyouxiejiawusuoshifeiyao“shuogeqingchu”，kongpabuchaojiashinanle。fuqichaojiama?fuqibushishuangyingjiushishuangshu，buyaozhenggegaodi，neishihenbumingzhide。baoluoshuo：“weiyouainengzaojiuren！”

四、万一吵了要保持理智

 suowei“shetouyuyachi”yeyouwushangshihou，fuqichaojiama?fuqizhijiannanmianyouzhengchao，danyidingyaobaochilizhihejiezhi。jide“shuochuqudehuaxiangpochuqudeshuishoubuhuilaile”。liru：fuqizhengchaoyao“jiushilunshi”，buyaobayiqiandeshidoujiuchulai“suanzongzhang”；buzhunjieduifangdeduan；buzhunkouchuzhuoyan,qianlianduifangfumuhuojiaren；buyaodongbudongjiulijiachuzouhuohuiniangjia，buyaorangfumucanyunimendemaodun；fuqichaojiaduoma，chaoshijide“chache”，bazuihouyijurangduifangshuo；chaowanjiahoubuyaolengzhan，diyijuhuawoxianshuo，bukehannudaoriluo。