出轨的感情会变好吗：如何维系出轨的婚姻

 dangliangrenxianghushenshendienaishi，douqidaikeyimeifendouhuiyikuaier?gangkaishiwoyijingxiangyouzheileijuede，shicongxinlingshenchufajuezaoyibukehuoquexianghu。chuguideganqinghuibianhaoma?ruheweixi ☞chugui dehunyin?

一、出轨的感情会变好吗：如何维系出轨的婚姻

1.当另一方沒有联络你时，不死缠

 chuguideganqinghuibianhaoma?ruheweixichuguidehunyin?jiarulingyifanghuranmeiyouyuninlianluoguoduanshijian，ninyeburongyijiedaotadeyiqiexinxi，bubiguodusichan。

 zheishihou，yingdanglizhisisuo。huoxulingyifangbutaiaini。youyutameiyoulianluoni，bixushiyouyuangude，qingbieguzhidequdenghuoshiquwen。zhinengneiyang，dajiaxianghuguanxicaihuichihuanxiaotui，buyongguoduobiaoshu。zheiyixiachangbingbushihenhaome?

2.产生矛盾，当断则断

 duiyuqingganchangyouyiyangdexintai：dangliangrenyiqihenzhangguoduanshijianshi，ninanyibimianhuifajuemouxiechabie。jiaruwobuqidaizheileiguanlianjianchixiaqu，zheici，niwubizuochuquelidechanshu。

 renmenhaipadejiushishuojiuchanbuqing，liangrenbenlaimeishenmejuede，zishenquemeibanfashulizheixieguanlian，feidezaizishenduiyigerendeshihou，yuanyiqulianluozheiyibuyaolianluoderen。neiyangdebuliangyingxiangzongshijinishebudewanbizheixieqinggan。yinci，bubiguoduodechiyi，dangduanzeduan。

3.分散化集中注意力

 dangniqueshibukeyifangkaishou，shizheqianyinidejizhongzhuyili，zuodaliangzuixihuandeshier，bingyudaliangderengoutongjiaoliuyigaijin。lijinghenzhangguoduanshijian，lingyifangbingmeiyouneimaguanjianbingqiejianjiandisheqile。zheixiexiangmutouziyutamenqingganderendaoxianghupengmianshihoufeichangguanjian，burongyikaolvdaowaibianquanqiudeshanjierenyi。nijianghuibuquedingxing，youyuneiyangdeguanlianhuoren，nicuoguodalianghaoshier。

4.再次创建婚姻生活的基石

 zhangfuheqizizhongjiandepanbianhuichanshengbijiaoyanzhongdeganqingwaishang，danchuguibuyidingdaibiaohunyinshenghuozaoyiwanbi。lejiezenyangyuduifangbingshiqianxian，cishibiankanqilaizhiguanzhongyaole。

 chuguideganqinghuibianhaoma?ruheweixichuguidehunyin?hunlianwentifeichangshao，duichuguineiyangdejuedejianghuishipohuaixingdeyanlidaji。rentichengdanheyuxiaohaidemaodunhuishiguanlianyuelaiyuejiaolvbuan，danchuguihuihuihuaihunyinshenghuode“jiben”。

5.学会放下

 benzhijiuzheiyang：jiaruyoushan，zongyouxiee，jiaruyouxie，jiubixuyouyouliangdezhenya。dajiabixuyiwu，erqieyouyiwu，tamenzaitiqianzhunbeibanxinjiashihoushouxianzhi，burongyizaicifashengyiyangdebuzhengque。youxuduorendaofancuowuyihouxuehaolebianchengyigechengdanzerenderen。dangnidouhaimeixuede，neimaniwubisheqi。cixiangyiwubudanshiyongnanshi，yeshiyongnvshi。

 chuguideganqinghuibianhaoma?ruheweixichuguidehunyin?youxuduoren，zaifancuowuyihoufandaoxuehaolechengcaiweiyigeyouyiwudenansheng。erjiarutadouhaimeixuehao，neimawoyegaisheqile。neifenyiwubuzhinengnanshenggaiyou，nvxingyeyiyangguanjian。