出轨的女人还能继续生活吗

　　chuguidenvrenhainengjixushenghuoma，“pojingnanyuannanzhongyuan，fushuinanzaishou。”hunyinshenghuo，zuoweirenshenglutuzhongdeyiduanguanjianlvtu，yidanzaoyuwaiyudeshijian，bianhaosipingjingdehubeizijintouruleyikedashitou，jifazhucengjingtaohailang。neiyang，chuguizhihoudehunyinshenghuo，hainengbunengzaici?zaizoufangleshubaiweijinglilezheijianshideyoujingyanrenhou，womenbunanfaxian，zheizhonghunyinshenghuo，daduoshutaobuchuyixiasanzhongjieguo。

　　一、裂缝久治不愈，各奔东西

　　duiyuhenduofufulaijiang，waiyuhaosihunyinlideyibajiandao，shenshendicitongleduifangdexin。xinrenganyidantanta，bianhaosishangwudashaqingtui，wufafujian。jiusuanbicichangshiwanliu，danxinlideliefenghaosigengububiandebahen，shiketixingzijizhecongqiandepanbian。zaiyiciyouyicidezhengzhiyulengzhanzhong，fuqiliangrenmanmanxiaohaolebicizhijiandenaixinyuqingyi，zuihouxuanzelegebendongxi。“yishizuchengqianguhen，zaizhonglaiyibainianshen。”henduorenzaijingliwaiyudefengbohou，caishenkeganshoudaozheijuhuahouzhonghewunai。

　　二、表层调解，心里疏远

　　chuguidenvrenhainengjixushenghuoma，youxiefuqi，zaichuguishijianbeipiluhou，chuziyugezhongyuanyin，xuanlezaicihunyinshenghuo。tamenhuoxushiweilexiaohai，yexushichuziyushengcunyali，yihuoshichuziyuduiweilaibuquedingxingyukongju。danshi，zheileidiaojie，wangwangzhishibiaomiande。jinguanbicibuhuizaitanjijiushi，danshineixindelengmoyujiediquewufaqingchu。zairichangdexiangchuguochengzhong，tamenyuelaiyuetixindiaodan，haipachujidaoduifangminganqu，zheiyangdeganqing，haosimeiyoulinghundeshenqu，liefengerkuzao。“xiangzhixiangxi，haiburuyujunbieyujianghu。”yexu，duiyuzheizhongfufulaijiang，fangkaishou，jiushiduibicizhijianbijiaohaodemanzu。

　　三、重建信任，重圆

　　ziran，bingbushisuoyoudechuguihunyindouzhongjiumaixiangliekai。zaijieshoumeiticaifangshi，dajiayemianlinzhejizufufu，tamenjingliguowaiyudefengbohou，fandaozhenxiduifang。taxuanzetanchengxiangdai，yiqimianduinanti，genjuxinlifudao、hunyinfudaodengxingshi，qinfenxiubupoliedexinlai。zaizheiguochengzhong，tamendongdelegengjiashenrudilejielingyifang，dongdelebaoronghekuanrong。suiranguochengjianxin，danshitamenzuizhongshixianlezhongyuan，zhongshilehunyinshenghuodexingfuhetianmei。“langzihuitoujinbuhuan。”duizhenzhenzhengzhengxiangyaogenggaibingfuzhunulidefufulaijiang，waiyudeshijian，huoxuhuichengweitamenhunyinlideyicizaisheng。

　　hunyinshenghuo，shiyichangmanzhangxiuxi。waiyu，keweishizheiyichangxiuxizhongdeyicizhongdamolian。mianduichugui，meigerendexuanzeyutaidudoubuyiyang，danbuguanjieguoruhe，dajiadouyinggaizunzhongduifangdetiaoxuan，dongdecongzheidangzhongfazhanyufansi。rutongguyuyun：“zhicuojiugai，renfeishengxian。”yuanmeiyiduiqinshenjinglichuguifengbodefufu，doukeyizhaodaozijidehuida，wulunxuanzeshenmeyangdefangshi，doukeyiyonggandequmianduijianglai，xiangzhexingfuqianjin。