出轨的婚姻还能继续吗女方

　　chuguidehunyinhainengjixumanvfang，tongxuedaishangqinmeilaizixunlihun，zuizhonggenwoshuo：“manlushi，waiyuwandehunyinshenghuo，haizhidezaiciweichima?”

　　zheizhongqingkuangwotingdaohaoduobian，zaidiaojieshi、fatingshang、zaihuanyinglaidianzixunshi，youxierenhanleiwen，youxierenyaojinyawen，youxierenzhishiqingmiaodanxiediwendao。

　　danshiwozhidao，danfantichuzheixiewentide，neixinyijingzhiliposui。

　　zuoweiyiminglushi，wolejiezuixinhunyinfadetiaokuan，yejinglilexuduoqingxusipodeqingjing。danyueshizaizhihou，woyuefajuede：“waiyu”bushiyigefalvfengxian，tashouxianshiyige“ziworenshi”wenti。

　　jinri，wobuyuanyijiangli，buyuanjiangtiaokuan，zhixiangyaojiehewozhenzhengjingliguodeshiqinghaoduogeshili，heniyiqisisuo：hunyinshenghuobeibeipanzhihou，nideyisheng，douyounaxiegailv?

　　01 ❙liyi，shigupiaozhisun，gengshirangxingmingzhuanwei

　　wodailishangguoyigeanjian，33suibeigaofangxiaoxing，zailaogongdiercichuguizhihou，tiaoxuanjianjueliyi。tajiang：“tanenggoufancuowuyici，quebushidaiwo，yicuozaicuo。”

　　tadaihaizibanlijia，kaoniangjiarendedalizhichihezishenyifenxiaoshouyewujianchixiaqu。jiufenandadebingburongyi，nanxingbuduanguidingxieshang，yuanyinshi“haizitaixiaole，jiatingshenghuobixuxiangxi”。

　　wojidehenqingchu，xiaoxingzaifatingzuihouchenshuzhong，zhishuoleyijuhua：“wanzhengdejiating，bugaikaowoderenshouyuhaizidefangqicainengweichi。”

　　2nianhou，tazaishejiaopingtaifenxiangrichang：zijizuoshengyikaileyijiaxiaotiandiandian，qumingzi“weiweitian”，haixieleyiju：“zuikurizichuguolai，shengxialaide，gaiweiweitianle。”

　　nikankan，liyibingbushishu，ershijiangtongchuzhizaineiyike，barenshengzaicifangzhengfangwei。

　　02 ❙liuyou，shifujian，erfeirenshou

　　danbingbushisuoyourendoushiyongyu、huoshixianglihun。

　　wojiucengjianguoyiduifuqi，zailaogongchuguihou，quedingyitongxiubuzheiduanganqing。furenbingmeiyounuhou，bingmeiyoutongku，fanershizengtianleyifen“hunyinxiufuxieyishu”，libianzhumingshoujishangsuishisuidigongbu、meixingqicanjiayicihunyinzixun、jishihuijiquantouming、meiyigeyueyicijinjiaoqujiaotongchuxing……

　　laogongqiandingle，xieyishuzhujianzhixingshi，lianggerenjibenshangmeicizhengchao;yinianhou，tamendongdelelingting;sannianhou，zaijiehunershizhounianjinianri，laogongzaiciqiuhunle。

　　furenzhihougenwoshuo：“wobingbushikuanrongtale，ershizijibuyuanyizaishengcunzaishiwanghecaijili。neibantaihaorenla。”

　　feishiquanbufujiandounengchenggong，danwoyudaoguo，zhenzhenzhengzhengnengxiufudehunyinshenghuo，bingbushikaoduifangneijiu，fanershibicizhijiandetisheng。

　　03 ❙buxianglihun，yebuhehao，shilingyizhongbaochiqingxing

　　yeyouyiweinvxingbeigaofang，yingying，faxianzhangfuchuguihou，bingmeiyoutilihun，doumeiyoujiazhuangmeishirenyiyangshenghuoxiaqu。

　　tazhishiqiaoqiaodehuanleyigewofang，jiediaolelianggerenyiqiyingyongdemima，fenliyongchuxuka。richangshenghuo，gaixianghupeihexiaohaidediquxianghupeihe，gaifenlideqingxujiexianfenli。

　　tagenwoshuo：“wobuhuizaidengdaotachengrencuowu，bianbuzaixiaohaoliliangxiubunaxie。wozhishizaijizijitengkongjian。”

　　zheigebushilengdan，shiyizhongwanshandefangfanyishi。

　　youshi，“libuledoubuhe”zhuangtai，qishishiyizhonghuanchongqi，rangyigerenhaiyoujihuizaicirenqingziji、zhengzhirichangshenghuo、zhiyuxinli。

　　tabingbushiduobi，fanershijianjiandizhaodaozhudongquan。

　　04 ❙falvfaguinanyijiejueqingxu，danqingxutanranmianduitiaoxuan

　　zuoweilushi，dajiakeyigaosunizenyangqisu、fenshenmezichan、zenyangzhengduofuyangquan，danshiwomenyongyuanbunengweiniqueding：

　　ni，shihaiyaojixu，haishilikai?

　　wojianguohenduobeigaofang，barenshengdejuecejiaojibieren。dengshenpanzhangyijuhua，dengbabamamayigejianyi，naizhidengduifangyigezhiqian。

　　keniqingchuma?zhenzhengdechengshu，yaozaihunyinposuishi，keyizijibazheixiewentidachulai：

　　1. ruguowoliuxia，wojiushichuziyuhaipahuoshixinlai?

　　2. jiaruwolikaile，zijishifoudouzuohaoledanfuweilaishenghuodetiqianzhunbei?

　　3. buguanwozenmexuanze，nengfoubuzaiyonglingyifangzijidecuolaishanghaita?

　　ruguonikeyihuiyingqingxi，huoxunizaoyibuzaishineige“chuguishijian”shouhaizhe，fanershinirenshengdezhurenjia。

　　05 ❙wodesikao：hunyinshenghuobuyongzhengquedaan，danshixuyaodaodedixian

　　zuoweiyiminglushi，wohenqingchu：“waiyu”bingbushiquanzidongkaiqilihun“dixiantiaowen”，tashenzhibushifalvguidingbilideyuanyin。danshiwoyegengqingxi，zaixinlihezunyancengmianshang，tatongchangshijikuarendeneigenzuihouyigendaocao。

　　chuguidehunyinhainengjixumanvfang，youxierenzaizheierfenli，xiangrentonggeaiduanbeiqiusheng;youxierenzaizheierjianchibuxie，jiuxiangzaizhenggu，teng，danshikenengxiufu;haiyourenbujizhekaidao，ershijiangrichangshenghuobianhuan，denghouyigexindehuidashanguo。

　　buguanshinayizhong，bushiruanruo，douzaizhenshiziwo。

　　06 ❙waiyuwandehunyinshenghuo，haikeyijixuma?

　　yingpian《hunyingushi》liyouyijuhualingwoyinxiangshenke：“xingshibianhulvshijiandaoerenzuihaodeyimian，hunyinlvshijiandaoshanrenzuihuaideyimian。”

　　erwojuedebuyiju：“lushiyekandao，henduojueranshenhou，yinzangzheduomedeshenwenwan。”

　　waiyuwandehunyinshenghuo，haikeyijixuma?bingbushifalvfaguinengyichuidingyinwenti，bingbushitanengweinizuochujuedingdeshiqing。

　　huidazangdaonideneixinzuirouruandedifang、yeshizuidudingdeneigejiaoluo——zainiyuanbuyuanyi，jiziji，zhongxinqihang。