nanrenbeipanlehunyinhaikeyijixuxiaquma,hunyinjiushiliangrengenjuganqingherenkechuangjiandehetong,erchuguizheiyeshiduizheiyifenhetongzuiyanzhonghuihuaizhiyi。dangyifangfajueairenchuguizhihou,neileibeibeipandekuchu、naonuhemimangwangwanghuirangbeigaofangshenxian"hunyinshenghuohainengbunengzaici"delinghunfawen。genjuguojia《minfadian》di1079tiaodeguiding,fuqiyifangyutarentongjuhuozhonghunzuide,xieshangshixiaoliyingzhunyulihun。danshishenghuozhong,chuguizhihoudehunyinshenghuobingbushizhiyouliyizheiyitiaolu,meigejiatingsuomianlindejingyuhepanduandougebuxiangtong。
### 一、外遇对感情的致命打击

xinliyanjiushuoming,waiyusuodailaidewaishangbuxunyuzaoshouziranzaihaihuoqinrenqushi。beibeipandeyifangyibanhuiqinshenjinglifouding、naonu、yijia、yiyuzhenghelijiewugexinlizhuangtaihuanjie。nanjingshimouxinlizixunzhongxin2024niandelizishujuxianshi,85%dewaiyushouhairenhuiyoushimianzheng、shiyubuzhendengqutihuazhengzhuang,60%huichanshengyanzhongdexiaojibeiguan。zheizhongshanghaiwangwangshenru,shiyinweiqiyucitongshihuidiaolehunyinshenghuodesangezhicheng:xinlaigan、anquanganzizungan。
beijingmouqufayuan2023nianshoulidelihunsusongbiaoming,yinwaiyusuodaozhidelihunsuzhuangzhong,you72%deyuangaobiaoming"wufazaixiangxinduifangjiangderenhehua"。zheizhongxinrentantatongchangtixianwei:zixijianchaairenshoujishang、zaochengxinliniuqucaiji、shenzhihuichuxianchuangshanghouyingjizhangai(ptsd)。gengjishoudewentishi,chuguishijianrutongdapodeshuijingbolibei,jiusuancouhenianhe,liefenghaihuiyizhicunzai。
### 二、确定婚姻生活能不能存续期的重要因素
1. **waiyutexingchabie**:wuyideroutichuguiyuzhangqideqingxuwaiyuyoubenzhiqubie。shanghaimousirenzhentanzuzhiziliaoxianshi,shejidaoqinggantourudechuguihunyinwanliutongguolvbugou20%,eryiyeqingleichuguidehunyinyou45%tongguozhuanyexieshangkeyifujian。beijingmoufalvshiwusuojiejuedeanlizhong,lingyibanweidisanzhegouzhifangchanhuoshengyuzinvde,97%zuizhongzouxiangliyi。
2. **huiguotaiduyuxingwei**:zhenzhengyiyishangdehuiguobixusangeyaosu:mashangtingzhihunwailian、cheditiaomingkeguanshishi、zhudongjieshoujiandu。moudahunyinxiufuhexinzhuizongdiaochafajue,xiangyaoqianding"fuqizhongchengxieyi"hejieshougpsjingzhundingweijianguandewaiyufang,hunyinxiufutongguolvtigao3bei。danshiyaozhuyi,yiju《zuigaorenminfayuanguanyushiyong〈minfadian〉hunyinjiatingbiandejieshi(yi)》,zhongchengxieyizhongyouguanlihuncaichanfengedechengnuorenminfayuanyibanbuyucaixin。
3. **shouhaifangdexinlichengshounengli**:shehuixinlixueshangbakuanrongfencheng"biaocengkuanrong"he"shizhikuanrong"。qianmianyizhongjinjinxingweishangderangbu,houmianyizhongxuyaojingguomanzhangxinlizhongjian。hangzhoumouxinlixuezixunshiqiangdiao,youdulijingjitiaojian、fengfuduocaishejiaoquanzishouhaizhebijiaorongyizhenzhenzhengzhengxuehuifangxia,erguofenyilailingyibandeyifangchangshenxian"kuanrong-tiguoqu-zaikuanrong"deexingxunhuan。
### 三、复建婚姻生活的行得通途径
nanrenbeipanlehunyinhaikeyijixuxiaquma,zhenduiquedingshizhexiubudefufu,quanweijigoutiyijieduanxingkaizhan:
**diyijieduan(1-3geyue)**:kaisheanquanxingguoduqi。waiyufangxushumianxingshijiaodaiwaiyuzhenggeguocheng(danbubaokuoxingxiaoxijie),bicilinshifenchuangshui。beijingmouhunyinshenghuozhensuodelinchuangshiyanshujubiaoming,zheiyijieduanxuanyong"tehuigoutongjiaoliufa"(meitianguding30mintantaowenti)defufu,qingxubengkuijilvjianshao60%。

**dierjieduan(3-6geyue)**:zhongjianxinrenlianxi。baohanyitongchaxunyinxingliushuizhangdan、fenxiangshejiaopingtaideng。zhideguanzhudeshi,wuhanshimouzaishenli2024niancaidingzhonglieming,shanzizuzhuangjiantingshebeisuoqudedechuguizhengjuguishuyufeifaquzheng。jianyitongguohefatujingruqianshu《fuqizhiqingquanxieyi》laiguifanjianguangerenxingwei。
**disanjieduan(6-12geyue)**:guanlianzhonggou。zhelipeiyangyigexindegongtongaihaoheshejiaoquanzi。chengdoushimouxinlizhiliaohexinfajue,yitongyangchongwudexiubufufu,hunyinguanximanyilvbipingjunshugao38%。zheiyijieduanyaodingqi(rumeigejidu)kaizhanhunyinshenghuozhiliangpingjia,bimianxianruyinnixinghehao。
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