男人放不下第三者的表现有哪些

　　nanrenfangbuxiadisanzhedebiaoxianyounaxie，zaiganqingzhanghezhong，youshiwomenhuimianlinlingrenxinsuideyiwai——nanrenbianxinle。jishitabumingshuo，yixiewufayanshidezhuanbianhaihuiqiaoqiaodishanguo。zheizhongbianhuahaosiqianzangzaishenghuozhongdexijielidezhenxiang，jieluzhetaneixindebianhua。

　　zhenduichenjinyuzaiganqingzhongderenlaijiang，zhangwozheizhongbianhuayouweizhongyao，keyibangzhuwomenzhimianrensheng，jinxinghelidexuanze。xiamian，rangwomenyitongtansuonanrenchuguishizheixiewufazhegaidezhengzhao。

　　一、“态度的改变：从激情到冷淡的起伏”

　　dangchuneigeduizijidetitieruwei、reqingsihuodenansheng，ruoneixinmeileni，xintaihuichuxianxianzhudegaibian。

　　tabuhuixiangcongqianneiyang，duikuailehebeishangshenyoutihui。

　　zhiqian，ninapazhiyouqingqingdikesouyisheng，tazonghuimangliudilejienishentizhuangkuang，yanshenzhongquanshiyoulv;rujin，nidebingwochuangbuqi，tayexuzhishidandandishuoyiju“duohedianshui”，bianzaicimangzijideshiqing，yanshenlipingjingrushui。

　　zairichanggoutongzhong，zheixiebianhuagengjiamingxian。

　　yiwang，tazonghuiyongxinqingtingnigongxiangshenghuosuosui，jibianshizaiwuliaodehuati，tayekeyigenniliaodejinjinledao，haihuishibushidechunuanxindehuifu。

　　xianrujin，ruguonixinggaocailiedehetaxushuyitiandejinglishi，keshitabiaoxiandefuyanleshi，shuangyanbaozheshouji，ouer“ng”“a”haojisheng，sixuxianzhubuzainideshenshang。

　　congxinlixuejiaoduguancha，zheiyinweitadeqingxuguanxinzhongxindianzaoyiqianyi，duiyunidexingquhereqingdafudujiandi。

　　tabuzaibanishizuorichangshenghuozuizaihuderen，congqiandezaiyibeilengdansuotidai，zheiyangdetaidushangdejudaqifu，jiushitayiqingbieliannanyiyangaidebiaoxianzhiyi。

　　二、“沟通交流的降低：搭起无形沉默无言之墙”

　　nanrenchuguihou，henidegoutonghuizaibuzhibujuezhongjiangdi，fangfoshizailianggerenzhijianzhuqileyidaowuxingchenmowuyanzhiqiang。

　　yiqian，dajiazongliaobuwandehuati，bulunshishengengbanyetantanxin，huoshirichangdeguanxintitie，douchongmanqingyiyuwennuan。

　　danxianzai，huijiahou，tajingchangbaochichenmo，buhuizaijijikaiqihuati。

　　jiusuannizhudongzhaotaliaotian，tayezhishijianjieminglehuifu，bukenhudongjiaoliu。

　　biru，zhoumodewanshang，guoqunimennenggouyiqitaolunxiazhoudefangan，chongjingweilaideshenghuozhuangtai。

　　danshixianzai，tayaobutangzaishafashangyiyanbufadikandianshiju，yaobusuoxingduodaoxiaoshufang，shuoyaochuli，qishikenenghuizaiduobihenidegongchu。

　　ruguonichangshiyutaliaoyiliaojinqinimenzhijiandeganqing，tahuizhaogezhongjiekouraokaihuatitaolun，liru“jintianhenlei，buxiangtanzheizhong”huoshi“youshenmehaoshuode，budoushineibanma”。

　　zheileigoutongjiaoliudejiangdi，bingfeijiandandefanmanghuopijuanerzhi，fanershitadeneixinzaoyichanshengbianhua，duizijideshiqugoutongjiaoliudechongdong。

　　congrenjiguanxishijiao，hezuoshibaochiqinmiguanxidezhongyao，dangtabuhuizaixiangyaohenigoutongjiaoliu，daibiaozhetazhengshengshunimenzhijiandeganqing，zheiyeshibianxindeyigezhongyaoshujuxinhao。

　　三、“个人行为的病变：偏移耳熟能详的相处之道”

　　nanrenfangbuxiadisanzhedebiaoxianyounaxie。，nanrendexinlimeileni，xingdongshanghuichuxianchuxianyichang，pianyidajiayiqianershunengxiangdexiangchuzhidao。zhiqian，tahuijijicanyujiawuhuo，heniyiqifentanrichangshenghuodezhize。

　　liru，tahuizailibaitianheniyiqidasaoweisheng，nicaboli，tatuodiban，youshihouhaihuiwanshuayifan，chongmanzhewennuan。

　　danshixianzai，taduiyujiawuhuoyuelaiyuejiweifuyanleshi，naizhiyidianbucanjia，bazijidejiawuhuoquantuirangni，erzijiquetanzaishafashangkanshoujihuoshiwanyouxi。

　　zaimianduinipengyouhejiarencengmian，yehuiyouyixiehendabianhua。yiqian，tahuishendurongrunijiaojiquan，henidehaopengyouxiangchuyukuai，kandaizijidejiarenyeshifenjiqing。

　　danyiqingbielianhou，tajiukaishitaobihenipengyoujuhui，yigezhongliyoumeiyoucanjia。

　　dangzijidejiarendaofangshi，tabuzaixiangyiqianneiyangreqingkuandai，fanershibiaoxiandehenlengmo，naizhizhaoliyouchumen，bukengentamengongchu。

　　zheizhongzuofashangdebianhua，shuomingtaduiyudajiayiqishenghuodecanyuxingjianshao，buhuizaigaoduzhongshiheniyouguanderenyushi，jiushitayiqingbielianhouwufayanshidezhuanbian。