男人偏爱第三者的表现

　　nanrenpianaidisanzhedebiaoxian，ganqingconglaidoubushidanfangdejianshou，dangyifangdeneixinqiaoqiaodizhuanwei，quanbudeqingyidoushihuilunluoweikunjing。zaiganqingzhong，nvrenbianxinyibanbuhuizhiyanxianggao，ershiyongyixie“yichang”dexiaoxijieshifangxinhao。

　　zheixiexinhaohaosijiaoshi，tixingzhenansheng：nimenzhijiandeganqingzaoyimianlinposundebianyan。

　　ruonihaizaiweitalengdanzhaoliyou，weitadefuyanleshizhaojiekou，zuihouzhihuirangnishanghenleilei。

　　yixiashuyunvrenbianxinshibijiaochangjiande 12 zhongyuzhao，ruoshinifaxianqizhongsuiyi 3 zhongyishang，qingjinkuaibaochiqingxing——tadexin，zaoyibuzainideshenshang。

　　一、心态剧变：从温婉可人到冷冷冰冰

　　duizijidequefanaixin，suoshiyenengyinfazhengzhi

　　shenzaihunideren，huibanidangzuozuibifengdegangwan，kuanrongnidequedian，tiliangnidejianxin。keyidanyiqingbielian，tadewenrouhuishunjianxiaotui，suizhierlaideshiwubianwujidekekeyuchize。nijiabanjiadianyebuguisu，tabuzaiguanxintitie，fandaozhiyini“shifouzaiwaimianyouren”;niwangdiaoliunianri，tabuzaimaimengtishi，fanershifengcini“neixingenbenjiumeiyouzheigejiating”。

　　xinliyanjiushuoming，dangyigerenduilingyibanzaochengyanfanshi，danaohuiquanzidongbiandabierendequedian，zheileiziwoanshiyehuidaozhiqingxubengkui。zheishi，tanuqibuhuizaishiweilemanzunanti，gengshiweilexuanxieduiyuganqingqiangliebuman。

　　jujuejiaoliu，baniyinxiangjimodegudishenaiderenzongliaobuwandehuati，erbianxindenvrenqueyongdaochenmowuyandaqizhuanqiang。tabuzaifenxiangjinishenghuodediandiandidi，buhuizaiqingtugongzuozhongdekunrao，jiulianyanshenjiaohuidouchengweileshehua。nichangshijiejin，nvshenghuiyong“taileile”“xiangjingjing”lakaini;nixunwenyuangu，tazhihuilengdanhuifu“biekaiwanxiaole”。zheileijiatinglengbaolibenzhishangshiyizhongqingxuchoushen，tatongguoduankaigoutongjiaoliulaijianshaoduinideyilai，weiliquzuohaopudian。rutongwenxuejiamaomuchangshuo：“nvrenduibuhuizaiaideren，nenggoubiaoxiandebisheidoucanku。”

　　duiyunideyixingguanximanbuzaihu

　　fapiqishiaiqingdebennengfanying，shenzaihuniderennengbanishizuozhuanxiang。ruotahuranbuhuizaizaiyiniyuqitananshengdehudongjiaoliu，shenzhizhudongshangtanniyutaren，zheijuebushi“xinlai”，fanershi“buzaiyi”。nihenvtongshijuhuidaobanye，tabuzaixunwenxiaoxijie;nijiedaoaimeiguanxixinxi，takanledoulandekanyiyan。

　　zheixieyichangde“huoda”shenhou，zangzheyigecankudeshishi：tazhuanzhulizaojiuzhuanyidaolingyigeshenshang，duizheigeshijiewanquantibuqixingqu。

　　二、账号异常：从亲密无间到有意生疏

　　huranzhongshichuanzhedaban，xingjiyuelaiyueshenmi

　　“nvweiyuejizherong”，dangnvrenbianxinshi，zheihuanengbeizhongxinquanshi。takaishipinfanxuangouxinmaideyifu、zuojingzhizhuangrong，shenzhigaibianduonianlaidechuanzhedaban。niwenyuangu，nvshenghuiqingmiaodanxiedishuo“xianghuangexinqing”，queduizijideyinmanzhenzhenzhengzhengdongji——weilenengxiyinxindezongtimubiao。

　　yucitongshi，taxingjiyuelaiyueqifubuding。yiqiananshihuiqudeta，kaishipinfanjiabanjiadian、canyu“pengyoujucan”，naizhiyebugui。nizhiyishi，nvshenghuixugougezhongliyou，muguangyoubuganheniduiwang。zheizhongxingweideshizhi，jiushiweilechongfenliyongshijianyuxinganqinggongchu。

　　shoujichengleleiqu，gerenyinsigaoyuyiqie

　　shoujishangshixiandairenzuisimidekongjian，shenzaihuniderenyehuizhudongfenxiangjinidenglumima、gongbuweixinliaotianjilu。ruotahuranjishoujijiami，jietingdianhuashizhezheyanyan，weixinliaotianjiluyizhiqingchu，zheijueduishibianxindezuizheng。nichangshichaxun，nvshenghuixiesidilidizhizeni“buxinrenta”，quewangjilezishenzaojiusangshishinixinlaidezizhi。

　　ziliaoxianshi，78% dechuguizhekeyitongguoshanchuliaotianjilulaiwaiqushishi。dangtazhujianyufangni，biaomingdajiazhijiandexinrenyijingwanquantanta。

　　huijueqinjin，shentibennengdichu

　　nanrenpianaidisanzhedebiaoxian，xingshiaiqingdejinshucuihuaji，doushiaiqingdepulushi。shenzaihuniderenhuiqipanheniqinmi，erbianxindenvrenhuixiayishididichunijiechu。tabuzaizhudongyongbaoni，shenzhishizainikaojinshixiayishidedaotui;nidefuqishenghuoyuelaiyuefuyanleshi，tazhishisibandexianghupeihe，yanshendaizhiruzhuoshui。

　　zheileirentidekangju，laiyuanyuxinlishangdeshuyuan。zijideshentizaiduinishuo：woxinzaoyibushuyuziji。

　　三、情绪迁移：从满眼到置若罔闻

　　buhuizaizaihuniderichangshenghuo，naizhiwangdiaonidexihao

　　shenzaihunideren，huijidenixihuanchidecai、xihuanchuanyanse，huizaixiayutianjinichengsan，congnishengbingdeshihouzhengyezhaoliao。ruotahuranduiniderenshengmobuguanxin，liannideshengridoujibuzhu，biaomingtazhuanzhulizaoyizhuanyizhiqitadifang。nijiabandaolingchen，tayebuhuizaijiliuyizhandeng;niganmaodishao，tazhihuilengdandeshuo“duohedianreshui”。

　　zheizhongqinggandechoushen，shiyiqingbielianzuizhiguandezhuyaobiaoxian。tadeneixinyijingmeinideweizhi，dangranzaiyebuhuiqufuchusihao。