老公嫌弃你的六个表现

　　laogongxianqinideliugebiaoxian，keyihezhangfuchuandikuaileyukongju，binghetayiqijiehunchengjia——shijieshangqitadongxidouwufadaitizheiyiqie。danshidangnidelaogongchugui，beita——duiyunilaishuozuizaihuderen——panbianshi，nikenenghuijuedeshijiebengtale。zijicengjingzuiaiderenturanzhijianyuelaiyueshengshu，rangniganjuedaobeibeipan、mimanghenaonu。

　　danshi，zaiyuairenzhiwenyiqian，nixuyaoquebaozijimeicongmangdechujielun，yifangnankan。neiyang，zenmezhidaonilaogongyouwaiyuni?jixuliulan，zhangwonidelingyibanwaiyudezhengzhao。

　　renjiguanxidutezhichuzaiyu，meigejiatingdougebuxiangtong。suirandaduoshujinggaoxinxihenyoukenengshihezijilingyibandegerenxingwei，danshitamenyekenengzhishigepianshu。hunlianwentibijiaochangjian，danwaiyuqueshiyigejishoudewenti。nidelingyibanzuochumouyigerenxingweikenenghuiyouzhengguiyiju，danshinikenengrenweitazaigenniwanbuzhongdeshoujiyouxi。

　　xialiejixiangbiaomingnidelingyibanduizijidechuguixingwei。danruguonimeiquezaozhengju，qianwanbuyaoqingyixiajielun。

　　1.他忽然认识到自己的表面：

　　tongchangqingkuangxia，jiarunidelaogongzhujianzaiyizijidebiaomian，chuanzhedabandedang，ninengganjuehenbang。danyaojinshen，youyuzheiyekenengshinizhangfuchimibiedenvrendechuqizhengzhaozhiyi。

　　nidelaogonghuiqipanyuelaiyuegenghaokan，binggaibiantadechuanzhedabanxingxiang。tahuizhujianmaiyifu，huagengduoshizhangjingziqian。

　　tajiukaishizhongshijiankang，jinliangrangzijideshentigengjiankang。ruguogandaotazhiqiancongbujianshenyundong，huoshishizhefuzhongshendun，ninengjingyadefaxianxianzaidetahaoxiangzaijianshenshanghualezheimeduoshijianhejingli。

　　biandegengjiankangbingbuyidingshiyuhunwailianxiangguan，erkenenghejinqideyixieyiliaozhenduanhuozhongshijiankangdereqingxiangguan。

　　jiaruniliuyidaonidelaogongshangbanqijianchuandegengshimao、gengtimiandi，huoxutayaojibangongshidexinlaidetongshiliuxiashenkeyinxiang。huoshi，jiarutahuranjianshenfangliwanmingduanlian，henzhuyaoshiweilejihunhouchuguimubiaolianjiugengmiaotiaoshencai，shiyinweitahenyoukenengbinimennianqing，yinershenxinggengjianti。yeyoukenengtaxiangyaojijianshenfanglirenshimouxierenliuxiashenkeyinxiang。

　　nikenenghuihuizhuyidaonidelaogongyizhizainuligenggaizishenxingxiang。takendinghuiqurantoufa，zheiyexushitayiqiancongweichangshiguodeshier。takeyichangshiyixialianbutoufa，liuhuoxiuzhihuxu，huohuangexinfaxing，huozhejianghuxuguaqilaiganjingzhengjie。tayekeyitongguochangshixindedanxiangshuilaigaibianzijiweidao。

　　2.他好像在精神上越来越远：

　　dangnidelaogongzaijingshenshangheniyuelaiyueyuanshi，zheiwangwangshitawaiyudezuikaishizhengzhaozhiyi。tahuifajuehennanjiangshijianyuqinggantourudaolianggeshenshang，yiner，nizaitarichangshenghuozhongdezhongyaoxingbianhuijiangdi。nihuizhuyidao，dajiayiqianchuangjiandeqingganlianxijijingqueshao，youyunidelaogonghenyoukenenghuibadabufenqingxudouqingzhudaodisangerendeshenshang。

　　nidelingyibanyeyoukenengduiyutadechuguigandaoxiukui。tayexugenjuduankaiyunideqingganlianluolaiyangaikuijiu。

　　nizhangfuchangshizaijingshenshanghenilakaijulidelingyigegengzhongyaodeyuanyinshi，tabuyuanwuyijianxielounidemimi。jiarunidelaogongheniganqinghenhao，dajiayehuijingchanggoutongjiaoliu，huxiangqingsunirichangrichangshenghuo。jiarunilaogongyouwaiyu，tananyizuodaozheiyidian;tahuihenduodeshiqingpobudeyimanbaohuoshuohuang。jiarutaheniweichiqingganjuli，zheijiuhaobiyidaotianranpingzhang，zuzhixielumimi。

　　yiweilaopojiansangehaizidemamajiangdeshitayuzhangfuwanhun11nianzhihou，dangfaxianlaogongyulingyigenvrenyouyituihou，bicizhijianpoliedetongguo。tajiang：“jiuwoeryan，woairenyutadehunhouchuguimubiaoxiangchuleyinianduo，wocaiyishidao。zhizhizheizhouwocaifaxian，womenzijide‘diyici’hunyinjiushizaitahunhouchuguiqineijieshu，erbushiquwofaxianlehunhouchuguiyihou。duiyuwolaogongeryan，zheiduanhunyingenggai(shenwang/wanbi?)jiushiyinweitaquedingjingshenshijieheshenshanghetadehunhouchuguimubiaofashengxingguanxi。”

　　ganqingzhongdewaiyuhuirangshouhairendexinlizhuangtaidaozhishenkedeyingxiang。tabiaoxianlefaxianzhangfuchuguidekuchu，bingbuchongshuo：“zheijiuyiweizhehunyinshenghuozaiwufadedaotongzhihuoyaoyuechuxizanglideqingkuangxiajieshu。hunyinshenghuocaibaochileyinianduo，keshishishangyijingbufucunzaile。”

　　3.他的表现明显改变：

　　jiarunilaogongyouwaiyu，zheishihourangrengandaoyalifeichangda，bingqiegezhongyaliyibanshicongduifangduinidefanyingzhongbiaodachulai。

　　weilepingheng2duanguanlian，tahuichuangzaoyizhongjushi，shinizuihouhetazhengzhi，bingbarichangshenghuofashengdeyiqiedouguaizuini。

　　nihaishihuizhuyidaotaduinideganqinghuranbianhua。nidelaogongkenengyixiazibiandekeke，jibenshangduinisuozuodemeiyijianshidouzhizhidiandian。takendinghuiainideyizhedabanhuoshuohuadefangshi，huoshirenweinizengzhongguoduohuoshenxingbuzufengyu。nizhangfuyeyoukenengduizijideliaolijiawudexingshibiaoshibuman，birushuonihuafeizaigongzuozhongdeshijianguoduo，huafeizaijiatinghuotashenshangshijiantaiduanle，gerenshourushaohuohuafeizaigongzuozhongdeqiantaiduo，shenzhiyixiesirenwenti，birushuonizeshifangfa。ruguonilaogongyouwaiyushi，tahuichangshizhaodaozaochengzailikainibingxunsuxindeganqingdezhuyaoyuanyin。

　　4.他变得神密下去：

　　tazaigenbierenyouhuihuoshiduizijidebuzhongdezhuduoxianzhuzhengzhaozhiyijiushitamendexingweiyulaiyumimi。

　　nizhangfukenenghaixuyaozaihuanjingzaoyinhendadehuanjingzhongjiedianhua，danjiarutameiyicijietingdianhuadoushizheiyangzuo，henyoukenengzheiyouyuanyinbuyuanzainiyanqianjianghua。nizhangfuhuidaodianhuashengchuanlaideneiyikeqishen，zoudaolingyigewuzihuofangwudebiededifang。takenengyehuikanzheshouji，renpingxianggebuting，dannidaochangshidanbujie。jiarutazhiqianbingfeiruci，bingqiezainiyanqianjietingdianhuahaowuwenti，neiyangtadeshiligengjiamingxian。

　　laogongxianqinideliugebiaoxian，nidelingyibanyongdaomimaguasuozhushoujishang，chuziyufeichangmingxiandeyuangu，tabuxiangrangnizhidao。takenengshuoshiweilefangzhiyixiezhongyaodeguanfangwangdianziyoujianhuoxinxi，danshizheihenkenengzhishiyigemitiandahuang。ruguotameiyousuoshouji，tahenyoukenenghuizaimeiyicichaxunshoujishishandiaotongxunjilu、duanxinhegengduoxinxi。dabufenyidongyonghuzaineicunmanlecainengshandiaozheizhongjilu。yinci，jiarunidelingyibanshandiaolezheizhongjilu，henyoukenengtazaichangshijinimanbaoyixieshiqing。

　　niyijinwu，jiuhuiguandiaodiannaoduihuakuang。jiarutakanjiannizaixingzou，tahuizaidadianhuadeshihoudisheng。

　　jiarutadianhuazhongqingshengshuohua、xiaorong，huoshishenzhiqingxingbingsichuzhangwang，neijiuyaocaiyitale。

　　shishangbozhu、wenxuejiajianlaopoxiaobingjiangdeshitafaxianzhangfuchuguidezaoyu。tajiang：“yinandeyitianzhongyudengdaole。11yue16ri。sannianqian，wobianzaishejiaopingtaishangfajuedezheixiexinxineirongheduanxinzhiyilaogong，dantaquebeidangchangbawozhuhou，chengrenzheijianshiqing。”

　　迅速提醒

　　liuyitagongxiangshebeidejudongzhuanbian。biru，waiyudeairenyexubuhuifenxiangjinitadeshouji、pingbanhuobijiben。tashenzhikenenghuizaifangqinishisuishendaizheizhongshebei，huoshibatamensuoshang。