丈夫外遇但不肯离婚是什么心态

 zhangfuyoulewaiyu，gaizenmeban？shidachaodarangdakudanao？haishiyidaoliangduanhuaqingjiexian？yihuohedisanzhepingenisiwohuoyushijufen？woyiwei，zheisanzhongfangshidoubuzuqu。qishihenduozhangfuwaiyubukenlihunde，doushixiangchuquchangchangxiantoutouqibingfeishixianglihun。

一、心态差异

 bujiuqian，yiweishanliangdeqizifaxianjiehun10niandezhangfuwaiyubukenlihun，shangxinyujue，tapaodaowodepengyouneikusu：“weilebahaizifuyanghao，weilebagongposihoudao，woouxinlixueqizaotanhei，douyouxiride“huaguduo”aochenglejintiande“huanglianpo”，rujinjiahewanshixing，tazenmehaizheimemeiliangxin？ganchuzheidengquedeshi？zheijiujingshiweishenme？erqiezhangfushengyishibaiyouwaiyuqizilihundoubuken，shuodaojidongchu，qizileiliumanmian”。

 wohentongqingtadezaoyu，tayixinyiyiduidaixiangruyimodezhangfu，duidaizheigelaizhibuyidejia，huanlaidequeshizhangfudesanxineryijianyisiqian，erqieweishenmezhangfushengyishibaiyouwaiyuqizilihundouxuanzebukenli。shia，henduozuotaitaidedoubaisibudeqijie，nanrenzenmedouzheimeshengzaifuzhongbuzhifu？chizheguolide，chouzhewanlide，haidianjishaolide？

二、雄性的本能

 jiunawaiyuzheigeyihunnanrenjingchangfandecuowulaishuo，henduozuotaitaidekenengdouwufalijiezheishouxianshichuyunanrendeshenglixuqiu。ribendangdaizhemingzuojiadubianchunyishinianqiancengxieguoyibuqingaizhuanzhe《nanrenzheidongxi》，zaizheibubeiribenduzhechengzhiweinanxingzigongzhuangdechangxiaoshuzhong，dubianhualehendadepianfulaitantaonanrenzaihunyinzhongdebuzhongwenti，tarenwei：xiongxingdaochubosanzijidezhongzi，cixingjieciyunyuxiayidai，zheishiziranjiedeguilv。youyurenleiyishiziranjiechengyuan，suoyijiuqibenzhieryan，yeshiruci。fanzhihoudai，yanxuzhongzi，suoweinanrende“dayeshi”zaimouzhongyiyishangshuo，yuxiongxingdebennengyouzhemiqiedelianxi。suoyizhangfuwaiyudanbukenlihunhexiongxingdebennengyouzhemiqiedelianxi。

dangnizhangfuwaiyudanbukenlihundeshihou，nibuyaokuqi，yaoxiangbanfaxundezhengju，xunqiufalvdebangzhu。