厄运降临——婚外恋怎么办

 dajiaduiyuhunwaigujibuhuimosheng，yinweizheiyizhishigeremenhuati，zaizheigefuzaodeshidai，womengaizenyangkezhiziji，dang hunwailian jianglindaowomenshenshangshi，womenyougaizenmeban。zhenduihunwailianzenmeban，gairuhechulidewenti，xiaobianxianzaijiujidajiashuoshuo。

一、婚外恋怎么办

 hunwailianzenmeban，gairuhechulini？zuoweinanrendeyaozhidao，hunwailiandeneiweinvzizhendenengpeiniguoxiabanshengma？shitanianqing，piaolianghuozhewenrouquezhudingshiguoke。nikeyiweizheimeyigenvzipaojiasheyema？chenzhongdedaodeyujingjidaijiadebeihou，jieguoshitianmidema？neimedaodihunwailianzenmebangairuhechulini？

 zuoweinvrendeyaomingbai，yiwaichuxiandeneigerenbushinide。buguantashifoubinineiweiyouqian，youqingdiao，dongdetitie，keshizheigerenzhennengweinisheqiyiqieguoxiabanshengma？ruguobushi，qingfangqi。nidedaijiabinanrengengda，meilehaizi，meiyoufangzi，meiyoudiwei，suoyourendouhuibiqini，baokuoziji。

 danghunwailianchuxian，buyaoxianzebei。xianxiangxianghunyinchudewenti，zenmechuli。shiyijuelieweijieguo，haishizaidengdengjihunyinyigejihui。bijingjiushimeiyouganqing，zhongjianhaiyouhaizi、fangzi、piaozihelianggejiating。

 dangnanrenchugui，zuonvrendebuyaoqijibaihuaidizhaodisanzhe。zheiyangbulizhidexingwei，rangrenjuedekexiao。yinweizheiyangcaishizhendeshiruo。bierenhuishuonimeiyounenglizhuazhuzijidezhangfu。gengyouyixienvrenbazheiyangdeshitongdaomeiti。nixiangguomeiyou，zaidazhongmianqian，nimenbuyaolian，danzhizinvyuhedi。>> fuchuzheimeduoweihetaruciwuqing?qingganzhenduannengbunengwanhui

 nvrenhunwailian，zuonanrendebuyaoyiweiyongdahuozhebaofufangshinengjiejuewenti。yinweizheibushichulinvrenhunwailiandeyigehaodebanfa。jieguoshiyuezouyueyuan。zheiyangzuoshibazijideqizituixiangbierendehuaibao。haohaoxiangxianghepingjiejuefangshi，bijingnvrenqianguabinanrendeyaoduo。

二、婚外恋的坏处

1、yiqiezonghuiguiyupingdan，zuizhonghaishiananjingjing。

 qishihunwaiqingjiushilianggejimoderen，zaiqiadangdehuanjing，heshidefenwei，juedeyiqieyoushineimeziranshilianggerenzoudaoleyiqi。youyinweijiqing、youhuoerchenmiqizhong，wufaziba。dandangbicidexinxianganguohou，faxianxianshihaishineimehuishi，meiyouleneizhongsuoweideganjue，zheiduanganqingyouhuixiaoshi，bicihuidaogezidejiating，xiangshenmeyemeifashengguoyiyangdeshenghuo。yexuzheishidejieju，shinimingtaihao，qilizisanyexujiuzaiyichanei。

2、jiatingpolie，fashengsharenbeiju。

 yexunimenmeiyoushiquneifenxinxiangan，yizhijiuchanqizhong，weilexiangshouxinlingheroutidekuaigan，zaizijibenlaijiatingzhong，fangqiyigeqizihuozhangfudezhize，xunzhaoyiqiedeshijirangbicidanduzaiyiqi。kenidepeioubushishazi。zuizhonghunyinpolie，yiqiedoulaibujijieshi，huozheshuoyiqiedoubuyongjieshi，wulunzenyangcuodedoushini。qiziyinweiainitiaolou、shoubulechirulihun。zhangfurenshoubulelvmaozi，yinweinaonuersharen，zheiyangdeanlibibijieshi，erwomenhaizaiyicicizhongdaofuzhe。

3、rencailiangkong，zhongshenbudejietuo。

 ruguoshidanfangmiandehunwaiqing，duifangbuxiangweinierfangqizijiyuanlaidejiating，erniyouaita（ta）aidesixintadi，burenfangqi。neinijiushidisanzhele，yongyuanmeiyoumingfen，jiusuanweitayoulehaizi，haishiyaoyileiximiandezijishenghuoxiaqu，ertayezhishixiangyuanlaiyiyangouerchuxian，dannixuyaodeshizheifencijima？shagua

 ruguobicidouyoujiating，shifahouyifanglihun，erlingyifangquexuanzelejixutamendehunyin，lihundezhihuishirencailiangkong，houhuimoji。danxuanzejixuhunyindeyifang，fuqixinzhongkendingshihuiliuxiananyiyuhedeyinying，yidinghuijitamenyihoudezhengchangshenghuomaixiayinhuan。