男友劈腿了怎么办？放开手继续前进

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一、男人劈腿了怎么办

1、坚决不原谅

 ruheduidaipituinanyou？nengbunengyuanliang。yudaozheizhongshiqingzhihou，henduonvhaizizongshibeiguowangdetianmiyijiceyindexinsuozuoyou，zongshixiangzheruhequyuanliangduifang，zongshixiangzheshebude。bushishuonibunengxuanzeyuanliang，ershiyaokanzhibuzhiyuanliang。yaoxiangqingchu，xuanzeyuanliang，jiuyiweizheniyaobazheiduanshiqingshenshendimaizangzainidexinli，jishitongku。

2、往前走

 ruheduidaipituinanyou？buyuanliangjiuxuanzewangji。ruguozijishiyanjinglirongbudeshazideren，neimejiuqingfangqi。suiranhuixintong，suiranyiqianyouguomeihaodehuiyi。jiranduifangdouxianbuzhenxizheifenganqing，nvhaiyebuyaoguofendijiujie。wangqianzou，zonghuiyoushihezijide，genzijiyiyangzhenxiganqingdeneigeren。

3、调整心态

 nanyoupituilezenmeban？diaozhengshoushangdexinling。dangyifenganqingshiquzhihou，buguanshisheideguocuo，neixinzongshihuishangxinhuichouchang。bijingyiqianshimeihaode，yiqianyouzhezijidefuchu，youzhezijidezhenqing。danshidangzhenqingshiquzhihou，womenyaoxuehuiyingduibeishang，diaozhengzijidexinqing。meiyouleyiqiandemeihao，haiyouyantudefengjing。renbixushiqianxingde。

4、留些时间给自己

 beinanyoupituilezenmeban？buyaojiyukaishixindelianqing。zongshiyouzheyizhongshuofa：ganqingshangdeliaoshangdejiushishijianhuozhexindelianqing。henduorennanyirenshoushiqudetongkuyubeishang，bianjimangkaishixiayiduan。qishizheiwulunshiduizijihaishiduixiayigelianrendoushibugongpingde。yinweimeiyouzhenglihaoziji，zheiyangdejuedingzhishimangmude。

5、ziwofanshengshigehenzhongyaodeguocheng

 beinanyoupituilezenmeban？zijiyaoxuehuizongjieyufansheng，buyaobeipituilejiuyijuebuzhen。suiranpituishinanfangdecuo，danshiduiyuzheifenganqing，womenyeyaoxuehuifanshengyuzongjie。buguoshiguanyuhaodehaishihuaide，zheiyangduinidexiayiduanganqing，duizijideganqingdaoludoushiyouyide。manmandininenggenghaodexuehuiquaiyubeiai。

6、学会放手

 beinanyoupituilezenmeban？buyaoyinweibeipituilejiufangrenziji，yaoxuexuehuifangkai，rangzijibiandegengyouxiu。buyaoyiweidichenjinzaisheiduisheicuoli，buyaozongshizaijiujieli。guoqudeshiqing，yaoxuehuifangkai。yuqihuajingliqujiujiemeiyouyongdeshiqing，buruduohuadianshijianrangzijibiandeyouxiuqilai。gengyouxiudenicainengyujiangengyouxiudeneiyigeren。

 qinaide，jizhujiarenyongyuanshiainide，nizijiyeyaodongdeaixiziji，buyaoyinweinanrendebuzhong，erzijizhemoziji。jixuxiangqianbaguliang，meihaodemingtianhaizaiqianmiandengzheni，zhenzhengainiderenzhengzaixiangnizhaoshou。