老公出轨第三者后，聪明妻子怎样挽回婚姻？

laogongchuguidisanzhehou，congmingqizizenyangwanhuihunyin？danghunyinshenghuozhongyuanpeiqizifaxianlaogongchugui，wulunshiwanhuihunyinhaishifangqihunyindouyaoxuehuiguanlihaozijideqingxu，zhiyoudangzijiguohaoshenghuole，zixinyonggaojiazhiwanhuile，caishiduinvrendezijiufangshi。

一、调整好自己的情绪

mianduidisanzhedailaideturuqilaidecuobaigan，niyidingbuganxin，fennu，duoduobiren，chongshangqujilaogongyijierguang，batadeshoujihejiajurengzaijiali。zheishiyigejiqiyuchundenvrenhuizuodeshiqing。qianwanbuyaoliyongbierendequedianrangzijibianchengyigeyuchunfengkuangdenvren。

shouxianyaozuodeshibunengdacaojingshe，shenhuxi，pingfuxinqing，ziyanziyu，pingfuqingxu。henduoshihouqingkuangbenshenbingbuhuai，zhishinidechongdongxingweirangshiqingbiandegengzao，suoyiniyaokongzhizijideqingxu，baochiyikepingchangxinqukandaizijidexinfaxian。

二、给第三者制造相爱的现象

shiqingyizhizaifazhan。dangniguanchadaonilaogongmingxianbeidisanzhewazoule，nikeyicaiquyixieshidangdexingdong。congmingdenvrenyehuishuahuazhao。keyizhaogejiekoufensanlaogongdezhuyili。

birufangreshui，rangtaxizao。tazheigeshihoukendingbuhuiyongshouji，nikeyiyongtadeshoujihedisanzheliaotian。wanshangyilaogongdemingyiyuedisanzhejianmian，ranhoushanchuxinxi，denglaogongxiwanzao，ruowuqishideyuelaogongchuqu，rangdisanzhekanchulainimenzaiyiqihenxingfu。

laogongyexiangshouledisanzhedeyuehui，takendingqihuaile，laogongzhaodisanzhebushiyinweisuoweideaiqing。dangdisanzhemomingqimiaodimaiyuanzhangfushi，zhangfuziranhuixianqita。

三、适当原谅老公

你老公会知道用手机发短信，所以你要做好直接摊牌的准备。如果他问你用过他的手机，你可以大方承认。告诉他你在维护婚姻，告诉他你不怪他，好好沟通，他会认错的。