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laogongchuguiwogaizenmeban？jingchangyouzhengshiwen：“woganjuelaogongyouwaiyu，xubuxuyaoqucha?”womenjianyishi：bubiqucha。youyu，zaihunyinshenghuoli，chadaozhangfuchuguideshiqingmeiyouyiqieshijiyiyi。chuguidehunyinzenmeban？

zhenduizheiyijianshier，zuiguanjiandeshikanzhenidexintaizhuangtai。caiyilaogongyouwaiyu，zuizhongyaodeshi，nishibushihaijianxinta。

shijishang，chayubucha，nibixuyingduisanzhongshijinanti：

diyizhong，nichalaidaoshiqing，danzishenyoujienabushangliyi，fuqiganqingxiubuqilaihuihenjiannan。

keshi，lingyifanghenkenengyouyubeichachujiulikeguidingliyi，danniyoubuyuanli，zheiyijieguobushiniyaoxiangde。

dierzhong，nimeiyouchadaoshiqing，dannimeijianxin，haicaiyizhe，zaicicha。

zheigeshihou，niyinggaisikaoyixia，zishenpeipeibushangzheiyiduanqinggan。jiaruniduitatianmancaiyihebuxinren，liangrenhaihuinanyizaiyiqi。

disanzhong，lingyifangjianghuimeiyouwaiyu，keshizainidecaiyihecaiyizhong，liangrendeguanlianhuiyulaiyucha。

caiyilingyifang，nanshenghennanshou，danbuyuanyiliyi，tameigongzuonenglichulizheigewenti，erqueshiquzhaobiedenvxing。

zheigeshihou，nichalaidao，yemeiyiyi。youyuzheiyiwaiyujianghuishiyouyudajiaxianghudebuxinrenzaocheng de，huanjuhuashuochuguinanrenyeyoulenide“gongxian”。

yinci，jiarunibuyuanliyi，jiububiqucha。

shijishang，jishinijienaliyidoubutiyiqucha。youyuruguoniqucha，dajiadezheiyiduanguanlianzhongjiumaixiangcuihui。

假如，你猜疑，但又不可以离婚怎么办?

zheishi，niyinggaisikao：nihezhangfujiujingnaerchuxianleshenmewenti?nizijiweihehezhangfuguodeyulaiyucha?

neiyangzuo，ninenglejienanxingzenmehuiquzhaobiedenvxing?

ruguonilejienanxingzenmejianghuiwaiyushi，nizijihuiqinfenchulinihezhangfuzhongjiandenanti;ruguonijianxinlingyifangnengbianbijiaohaodeshihou，niyekeyihelingyifanghaohaodijiaowang。

keshi，dangbukeyilejie，buganxiangxinlingyifangnengbianbijiaohaodeshihou，lianggerenzhongjiandeguanlianyidinghuibeihuihuai。

yinci，dajiakandaishiqingdexijiejuedingzhelianggerenqinggandefazhanqushi。

youshi，weihaiqinggandebingbingbushishiqing，zhishiniduishiqingdexintai。

jiaru，banideaiqingbichengyige“shuibei”。

zheiyi“shuibei”jiujingshibushiqueshilaogu，niruhezhidaoni?

cike，jiukanzhenixiangbuganxiangxinle。

jiarujianxin，niyejiuhuiyiqiezhengchangdequyingyongzheiyishuibei，zaicinideaiqing，bingqiehuiweihudefeichanghao，rutongzaiganqingzhong，qinfenhelingyifanghaohaodijiaowang。

jiarunibuganxiangxin，neimejiubixuqujiance。

yikaishi，jianghuicongshoushangbashuibeishuaizaidimianshang，shuaibulan;

suihoujiucongerloushuai，shuaibulan;

zaicongsanlougangkaishishuai，shuaibulan;

zuizhongcongsilouyicengcengdedizeng。zhizhinicongqilou，nideshuibeishuaisuile，niyejiuyaoshuo：“nikankan，tabingbujiangu。”

nizhidaoshiqing，danshinideaiqingyemeile。

shuibeilaobujiangubingbuzhongyao，guanjiandejiushiniduizheiyijianshierdexintai，guanjiandejiushinijianxindeshisha?

yinci，liangzhezhijianbazijibianweikenandaoer，tananmoliannansheng，bibushangbazheizhonghuoliyongyugaijinheyunyingzishendehunyinshenghuo。

情感中，有时比实情更关键的是，你是不是还爱她?

jiaruniyaoaita，jiuhenanshengyiqiquyingduinanti，youyuqingganshihuxiangpeihede，jiarulingyifangchuxiannanti，jianghuiyeyoulenideyuangu。

chuguidehunyinzenmeban？xuduo zhengshiyaoshuo，jiarumeiqutancha，meiquguanta，meiqucaozongta，woruhezhidaotashibushishuoaiwo?tashibushiyijianshihao?zheigeshihou，nvxingguanxindeshinanshengerbushizishen。

keshi，zaiqingganzhong，nvxingguanjianyingdangguanxinzishen。

tarenyouzhipeiquanbianchengtayaoxiangdemoyang，erzishenmeizerenyizhaotarendeguannianzou，yaoshizhangwozheiyidian，niyejiunenggouyizhaozishendeniantouzuo。

yiner，nizhangfuchuguiyeba，meiwaiyuyehao，niyaoshilejie，nisuoyaoxiangdezhangfudeyangzishizenyangdejiukeyile。

qingganzhongdaliangdeshixibuxihuan，lingwaininengyouyaoqiu，danwuxusheqiu。

qingganzhongde“xiangyao”，daduoshushi：tongyi、zhencheng、zhenzheng。

tongyi，daibiaozhebuguidingshouyi，keshibuyiweizhebuqidai。

zhencheng，daibiaozheniaitabianshiyibianhetazaiyiqi，erbushiyibianshitaaishangleni。

zhenzheng，daibiaozhenibushiyibianjiancenanshengshibushizhenxinainierqunuli。

ruguonideqinggan，shitongyi、zhencheng、zhenzhengde，bianhuigengfeichangrongyihuodeyizhongai。

yinci，qingganzhong，yiqieshierbixuwenyixiaziji：woshitongyidema?

“shiqing”shiyigemeifagenggaidekeguanshishi，keshiwomenkeyigaibianxianzhuangdeyixiang。

yinci，“tajiujingaiwoma?”“tayijianshishifouzhuanyi?”“tayoumuyouwaiyu?”

这种难题的答案是什么不重要，关键的是：

niyaoxiangdeshisha?tajiushiniyaoxiangdelaogongma?tajianzhichuguilenilidekaima?dajiazhongjiandenantishisha?

qingganzhongyouguoduodebuquedingxing，nidehuolibuyinggaihuazaizhaoshiqingshang，zhishiyingdangfangdaoruhejiejuehunyinshenghuozhongdegezhonggeyangnantishang。

yinci，qinaidede，rangyiqiedeyiqiezhongguixinliba!dajiatansuoquanqiuxiangwaikan，keshi，dajiatansuoqingganxiangneikan。

kanzishen：xiangyaoma?yaoxiangnaxie?haome?zishenyaogenggaideshisha?

laogongchuguiwogaizenmeban？ruguonimingquezheizhongshiqingdeqingkuangxia，tarendezuofayebuguanjianle，neiyangjiukeyibaozhengjizijideqingganwanquandequzuotiaoxuan。