出轨后离婚找你该怎么办呢？

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 zuoweiyigejiazhong，meiyouhaoduogeshishiquanshimeide。hunyinshenghuozhongbixujienadeshilingyifangdequexianheyouquehan。jiarunizhiyoujienalingyifangdeyoushi，ermeifahelingyifangdequexianxiangrong，neimadajiadehunyinshenghuobianhuiyaoyaoyuzhui。dangyigejiazhongfashenglenanti，tongchangshiliangrenzhongjiandenanti，yifangkekeerlingyifangyoubuyuanyigenggai。qizichuguihouliyiyueniyinggaizenmebanni?

最先，你需要搞清楚，你是不是还想和另一方在一起

 nvrenbianxingaizenmeban？jiaruniyaoxianghelingyifangzaiyiqi，neimajiuyaohaohaodihelingyifangtanyitan，wanhunzheixienianle，jibianbingbushipenyouyebushiguoluren，zuishaoyaoyounenggou yiqijiangdaolideshike。xuduofufuzaizuofufudeqingkuangxiazuobutaihao，erzaizuopengyoudeqingkuangxiaqueshifenshihe。yinci ，lingyifangjiranlaiyueni，zaoyixiangyaotuoxie，jiaruniyaoxiangwanliudajiadehunyinshenghuo，neimajiuhaohaozhangwozheiyijiyu，haohaodihelingyifangliaoyiliao，huoxudajiayeyouzaihundejianghui。

次之，不必诋毁另一方

 bubiyouyulingyifangzuocuoshiniyejiuguyidedihuilingyifang。yaolejiedajiazaoyililehun，talaiyueni，buyidingbianshiyaodaraoniderichangshenghuo。huoxutajinjinzuoweiyigedepengyouguanzhuxianibaleni?nishouzuwucuo，biaomingnihuanshishifenzaiyitade。youyujiarunizaoyihaobuyouyuhuijuelingyifang，niyejiuburongyineimedanxin。yirifuqi100tianen，jiarudoushiyouxiaohaile，jiububijinjinjijiaoneimeduo。taxiangyaohuijiajiuhuijiaba。jiarutabuyuanyihuijia，tataolunyixiani，biaomingtaduiniyeyouqinggan，qianwanbieeyuxiangxiang，erduanjueledajiazhongjianjianglaiquanbudeqidai。

再度，多听一听另一方怎么讲

 xiandizhetouderen，tongchangshitadexinyanerjiaoweihuo。yaolejiezheiyishengyinyouqueshixuduo，bingbushisheidouyouyifancuowu。xuduoqingkuangxiananshengyegenggaibushangnvrendemingyun，keshinanshengtongchanghuiweihainvrendemingyun。doushuo：jiupinwuxianqiliangmu。jiarunidelaoposhiyouyunideyuanguerwaiyu，niyinggaiyunyongzheiduanshijianhaohaodiziwofansixianiziji。jiarunimeimingbaidangdan，niyagenjiumeifadedao tarendezhongshi。youyumeiyouyigenanrendexiongjinbingbushibiequchengdade。dangnizhidaozheiyidianshi，niyejiuhuimingbaishenmeshirenzhegui。

最终，要明白跟另一方说说你的念头

 jiranlingyifanglaiyueni，neimaniyejiujiangnideyixieniantougenlingyifanggongxiangxia。dajiazhongjianhuoxubianshiyouyuqianquegoutongjiaoliucaizaochenglehunyinshenghuochuxianbuxing。zheigeshihoutalaiyueni，buguanzenyangnibixujiangnideniantougaozhilingyifang。ziranniyenenggou zhengxunxiaohaidejianyi，zhongjiuyigejiazhongbixudajiaxianghucanjiazhongtedashierdejuece。jiarunijuecebugenlingyifangzaiyiqi，jilingyifangyigelikaideliyou。jiarunijuecekuanronglingyifang，dajiajianglaihaohaodijiaowang。

 nvrenchuguigaizenmeban？renzheiyishengjiaoda debuzhengquebianshijiyangbuhuozairujin，doubuhuozaiweilai，zhishichenjinzaiyiwangbunengziba。buguanjianglaishihaoshihuai，nibixumingbai，yiwangdemeiliu。jingliguopanbianhesunhai，rengranxiangyaohuijiayuenideren，huoxuqueshicaisuanshipeizheniyishengderen。youyuxifujingliguobuzhengque，gengweimingbaishenmeshiaixi。