媳妇出轨变心了我该怎么办？

 nvrenweishenmehuichugui？meimeidajiayitijitarenwaiyu，doushihendeziyaliezui。nvrenbianxinzenmeban？beinaonuchongjixingledanaodedajia，huihuranyishikeguan，yigunaoerdejiangqingxuxuanxiedaowaiyudeyifang。keshishishang，zheizaiqizhongdesheiduidaodishisheidecuo，youshihouqueshibuhaoshuodeqingxi。

 meimeidajiayitijitarenwaiyu，doushihendeziyaliezui。beinaonuchongjixingledanaodedajia，huihuranyishikeguan，yigunaoerdejiangqingxuxuanxiedaowaiyudeyifang。keshishishang，zheizaiqizhongdesheiduidaodishisheidecuo，youshihouqueshibuhaoshuodeqingxi。yingduixifuerdewaiyu，laogonghuijuedefangcundaluan。yishijianjuederichangshenghuo、gongzuozhongshishibushunxin，simianchuge。cikedajiadaodiyingdangzenmebanni?

产生一切事儿，必须客观的思索

 nvrenbianxinzenmeban？jiaru，xintaiganledajiadezhurenjia，neimadajiabianhuishiqulizhi，beixiaojiqingxumengshangshuangyan，saizhuerduolimian，zishenjushu，yiqiexinxidoujiangzhongduan，cikedezishenbianhuizhanqizaineixindehuangdaodangzhong。fanguolai，ruguowomenkeyihexinzishendexintai，neimazaoyizhanyouleyibandeyoudian。cikedajiabixuxiang，xifuerdewaiyu，daodishizenmehuishini?youdaodishisheiyingdangchengdanguanjiandeyiwuni?jiujingshisheiduidaodishisheidecuoni……zheizhongnanti，doubixudajializhifeijinxinsiqingxi。zheijiurutongkaoshiyiqiandekaoshidagang，xianquelishijinantideyuangu，sisuoyixiazaiqizhongdeneirong，pouxizheizaiqizhongdenanti，zuizhongdedaobijiaojingquedejieguo。jinyouneiyang，caikeyihuodeqiadangdehuida，jinercaiyongxiayibudeduice。huanjuhuashuo，jianglaijushimeiyibudefazhanqushi，douzaiyukeguandesisuo。

确立是不是再次这一段婚姻生活

 shijishangni，xifuerdewaiyu，zuishaonenggoubiaomingyigenanti：liangrenzaiyixiecengmianmeifarongqiatongbu，huoshibicizaiyixiecengmianbunengmanzulingyifangdeyaoqiu。jiarushuo，liangren，yifangfazhandekuai，erlingyifangqueyuanditabuzou，neimaneiyangdexintaijulihuiladeyulaiyuzhang，gongtonghuatihuiyuelaiyuedi，qinggandepoyiyejinjinshijiandenanti。bulunshishenglixuehuanshixintaizhuangtai，dangyifangdeyaoqiuzhangqixingwufadedaokaolv，yebidinghuizaocheng waiyu。yinci dajiabixugenjupouxilaiqueli，xifuerdewaiyushiqitianxingxiangbei，huanshizhishangerzhongyuangu。jiarutaxiaidezhaohuarecao，zhanhuarecao，bukeyiananwenwendeguoshenghuo。neimakeyishuo，jibiankeyiwanliuyejinjinduanzanxingde。daishiershengxiangyiwang，youhuixiangchuntiandexiaocao——runwuwusheng。yinci ，womenyaogenjuexingshijiansuotixianchuqudeshizhi，wenyiwenzishendexinli，juecezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoshibushiyingdangzaici。

要沟通交流，要沟通交流，它是头等大事

 xifuerjiranzaoyichuguile，neimanijiuxuyaozuozuihuaidedasuan。shijishang，zaineiyangdexiankuangzhizhong，dajiachedinenggoutanchengxiangjiandekaizhangoutongjiaoliu。bicinenggoubaduixianghudexiwanghebumanyi，pingxinjingqidezhuyibiaoming。neiyangdezuofa，yinenggoulejiebicisuogan，xianghudeyaoqiuhexiwangdounenggouzhilvdemingquetichulai，jiangdilecaiyihewandao。ernenggouzaicishenshiziji，renshiziji，quelixianghuzailingyifangxinzhongzhongdeyingxianglishiruhede。sankegenjuhuihua、yudiao、xiaobiaoqinglaifenbianbiciduizheishidefanyingshuiping。yibanlaijiang，fanyingshuipingyuemenglie，yebiaomingyiqianhuxianghuanshijiaoweixinlaide，danyuzhixiangsuideshitongyangjingyingguimodesunhai。sishinenggougenjujiaotanlaipanduanzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodezuihoujieguozenyang。goutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，yaojiaodadeguanxinlingyifang，xixinlingting，neiyangdajiacainenggoudedao yaoxianglejiedejibenxinxi，jinerzuochuzuihoudejuece。

他人的建议要参照，但仍要坚持不懈做好自己

 zheigeshihou，dajiahuimianbulezhaoxunjiarenmen、xueshengmen、xiaohuobanmen、xiongdimendeyixietiyi。keyishuo，meiyigerendeqinshenjinglidoubuyiyang，cengjidegaoainongdanyebuyiyang。zaidajiaxiangzheixierenjiyubangzhudeqingkuangxia，zhenduitamendetiyi，nenggoukaizhancanzhao，dangenjunaxiedefangfaqujiejuexifuchuguizheijianshiqing，yidingyaoxinliyouyigehengliang，jianchibuxiezuohaoziji。yixiehelixingdetiyizaimouzhongyiyishangshihelide，nenggouzhaodaozuiheshizishendefangshi heguanlijuece，rangjushixiangzhezuijijizhudongdefangweifazhanqushi。zhenduiyaoxiangdejieguo，jiuzaijiandingbuyilezishendexinliyihou，yiwangwuqianba。

 nvrenweishenmehuichugui？xifuchuguile，dajiadexinliguranhuibushufuyizhenzi。youderen，jianghuihuimeifacongfumianxinxidexintaizhongjiejuechuqu，jiubixuzishendeyouxiaoshutong。jirannantizaoyizaocheng，jiuxuyaoyingyongdequmianduijiejue。genjulixingsikao，fenxiwenti，zhaodaoxifuchuguideyuangu。ranhouzaigenjugezhonggeyangfangfajiqifangshidegoutongjiaoliu，baozhengduofangweidezhangwonanti，zaiyijunantidetexingheshizhijueceshibushiwanliuzheiyiduanqinggan。lingtingzishendexiangsheng，zunxunzishendexinli，jianchibuxiezishensuozuosuogan，dajiazhongjiuhuihuizuochugengweiqiadangdetiaoxuan。