如果老婆变心该原谅吗？

 nvrenchuguigaizenmeban：waiyudeyuangushiyouhenduozhongduoyangde，youjijiwaiyu，yeshiyouchuyubeidongwaiyu。nvrenbianxinshuobailejijiwaiyujiushiyiqiedewaiyuyuanguquanshibenshende，zishenduizheiyiduanhunhoushenghuobumanyi，keshilingyifangmeiyouyiqiedebuzhengque，erzishenzuochulezheiyiduanwaiyudegerenxingwei，ruguoshineiyang。

 nvrenbianxinyingbuyinggaibeikuanrongzheigewenti，xuduoqingkuangxiawomenbunengyigaierlun，zhishibixushijinantishenrufenxi。qizichuguideyuangushiduofangmiande，henkenengshizijizuodebuzuhao，hulvelexifudetihui;huoshishiwaibuhuanjingyaosudeweihaihenda，womenbunengjiyuxifugengqiangdexiangyou;yihuoshishifufubicidejiazhiguannianbuyiyangzheixie，zheizhongquanshizaocheng fuqiguanxikunjing，qizichuguideguanjianyaosu。

可是当被问起妻子出轨该不该宽容，许多男生的第一反应肯定是“不宽容”，可是在这里坚定不移的选择身后，大量的是犹豫不定。由于情感、小孩、资产这些各个领域的缘故，会让人到选择时不可以保证那麼坚决，犹豫不定。

 shijishangzaiwendaojiaruqizichuguiyingbuyinggaibeikuanrongshi，zishenxinlizaoyiyongyouyigehenquelidehuida，zaiwenxuntarendequanguochengzhong，jinjinyibianweizijidaliangdenenggou zuozheiyitiaoxuandeyuanyineryi。huasuineiyangshuo，keshizhenduiqizichuguishibushibeikuanrongzheigewenti，zaililunshangyeshiyoukefoubeikuanrongdeyuanyinhejiexian，shijishangnenggou fenxiabianhaoduogequkaizhandingyi。

一、两人的价值观念是不是彻底更改

 wulunshitanlianaihuanshiwanhun，zaiyiqideyuanyinbujinshiyouyuenai，daliangshiyouyuliangrensanguanjiaoweixiangtongyi，xingquaihao、xihaoyejiaoweileisi。yinci，jiaruzaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiaru2gerendesanguanzaoyiwanquanfashenggaibianle，neimaneiyangdehunyinshenghuoyezaoyichedideweifanledangshizaiyiqidechuxinle。

 zheigeshihouzishenjiubixushensishulvshibushibeikuanrong，qianwanbiebeiqianbanerganleyouweifanzishenxinliniantoudexuanze，yaoxunmizishenzuixinlideniantou，qukaizhan。jiazhiguannianfashengbianhua，liangrenzaiyiqiyehuifeichangdeguaiguaide，huigesanchawudezhengchao，qingganrengranhuichuxianbiedegecengmiandekunjing。yinci，liangzhezhijianneiyang，haibibushangtiaoxuanbukuanrong，xiaoxiaosasadeliyi，fanglingyifangzou。

二、外遇的原因是不是可被宽容

 waiyudeyuangushiyouhenduozhongduoyangde，youjijiwaiyu，yeshiyouchuyubeidongwaiyu。shuobailejijiwaiyujiushiyiqiedewaiyuyuanguquanshibenshende，zishenduizheiyiduanhunhoushenghuobumanyi，keshilingyifangmeiyouyiqiedebuzhengque，erzishenzuochulezheiyiduanwaiyudegerenxingwei，ruguoshineiyang，neimaneiyangdexifushibukeyibeikuanrongde，wulunyiqiantaduizishenyouduomehao，nanrenmenyeyingdangtiaoxuanliyi。

 jiaruyigenvrendexinzaoyimeiyounideshenshangle，neimatajirannengzuodiyici，jiuhuiyoushihoudedinci。shenmeshichuyubeidongwaiyu?bianshishuangfangdoubutaihao，huoshishinanxingxianwaiyu，zaocheng nvxingyibianxunzhaojunhengerwaiyu。

 ruguoshineiyangdeyizhongfangshi，neimaneiyangdewaiyujiarushuangfangdouhaizaihuxianghu，yeshinenggou zaicilaidaoyiqi，shinenggou beikuanrongde。guigenjiedi，shijishangbianshikanfenshoudeyuanyindaodishibenshen，huanshilingyifang，yihuoshishibicidoushiyou，suihouzaizuohenglianghejuece。

三、是不是也有情感寄予

 disandian，yeshigengweiguanjiandeyidian，liangrenzaiyiqishiyouyuganqing，jiaruhaizaiyixianghu，haiaizhelingyifang，jiububibeizheiyijianshisuojidao，yaorenzhenquyingxiangtamen，rangtamenzaicifanhuizishendeshenpang。jiarutiaoxuankuanrong，jiuluoluodafangdequkuanrong，bubiyizhinazheijianshiqingshuoshier，yizhidanxinzhe，jiaruzhangqixingneiyang，yehuizaocheng qingganzaidumaixiangliekai，jibianhehao，erneiyangdekuanronghaibibushangbukuanrong。

 nvrenchuguiyingbuyinggaibeikuanrong，tarendejianjieshizhongdoujinjintarende，guanjiandexuanzehaibixukanzishen，jiaruzishenkeyifangkaishou，juedemeiyoubixuzaizaici，neimajiutiaoxuanbukuanrong，xiangfan，jiuyaotabianchengyiwangba。