出轨的婚姻，女人如何挽回？

 chuguidehunyin，nvrenruhewanhui？dangnanrenpanbianlaopochanshenghunhouchuguishi，nvxinghuizenmeyangni?nanguo、tongchu、naonuquanshiyiqiezhengchangdexintai，keshiqianwanbieyinerersangshilizhisisuodegongzuonengli，jiqipingjingdexintaizhuangtai，zhinengneiyang，wulunzuizhongshitiaoxuanhehaohuanshiliyi，dounengzuochuzuiqiadangdefenbian。neimelaogongchuguizenmeban？

1.理智思索，恰当分辨

 shehuixuejiagaozhirenmen，shijianxiaochuji，tebieshizaiduihurande“shiqing”gengshiruci。zheishihouyaoxiangfangshefabanantifangdaoyibian，duizijishuo，wojuebuzaidangtianjiejuekunnan，zheileizishenjietiaoyifangmiannenggouqianyinidetongchu，lingyifangmianhaikeyishidudipingfunidenaonuxintai。yexuneishihounizenmeyexiangxiangchubulai，zishenzenmecainengaiguozheiyiri。keshi，yaoshijinriyiwang，mingrilailin，niyidingnengdadadedishifangyali，congxindeyitianfajuenichuhuyiliaodezhuanbian。

(1)从想像的离婚中感受如今

 henyoukeneng，tadehuranwaiyushangguolenideai，shinibuguanzenyangyemeifazaihetagongzhen，jibianzaizheishihouyebubisuibianhetaliangdifenju。suirandahuoerlinshibukeyitongmian，haiyaodaizaitadeshenpang，jiusuanbeiguolianqu，congxiangxiangdelihunzhongganshourujin。

 xiangyixiang，nizaoyihetafenlile;huoshi，zhihounimeirihuijiale，congcikanbujiantadecunyou。huoxu，neiyangdeqingjingnenggoushidupingfunidenaonu，jinizhaodaoyuanlaidejuede。jibiannijuedezishenzaoyizhuanleng，yeqianwanbietaizaodechujielun。suyushuo，“yirifuqi100tianen”。ruguonilianghaizaiyiqi，meiyigexiweidechupengchangyoujianghuixiongxiongranshaoaidehuoyan。

2.以平静的心态状态寻找出路

(1)想一想老公的优势，即便他有婚后出轨，你可否放弃他

 tangruonixiangqitadeyoushishi，chajuebuguanzenyangdoumeifafangqita，nijiuxuyaozunxunzishendexinlipanduanli。xixinxiangyixiang，jinwuzuchi，renfeishengxian，tangruonikeyiquedingzishenqueshiaita，jiuxuyaoquchushentilixing，bianyuzhengshizheifenai。 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

(2)想一想他的以往，看婚后出轨对他是不经意還是必定

 zhongjiu，dajiafufuxianyouyiduanqinggan，xiangyixiangtadeyiwang，nenggouxiezhunizuochuyandixiadefenbian。tangruonifajuetadehunhouchuguishibujingyi，shinengyuanliang，jitamenyicihuiguodejiyu;tangruoshibiding，jiuxuyaowenyiwenzishenjiujingyaoshenme，bianyuduizishendeweilaizuochuzhunbei。

(3)尽可能没有那时候沟通交流

 tongchang，sheiyebukenzaitongtengshiqudadongbahen，yiyang，bujiufushangdeniliangyebubisuibiangoutongjiaoliuyiwangdehenman。xuduo qingkuangxia，fuqijianbixufeiyuyandelianqing，tangruoniliangnengcongxingdongshanghehaoruchu，daibahenzhiyudeyirizaixianghugoutongjiaoliu，quanbudetongchudoushibianweijijizhudongdegongzuojingyan。