出轨离婚后，这3件事不要做

 jinri，shuabaowangluojinritoutiaode，haowuyiwenjiushishuomaronghewangbaoqiangdejiatingbaolichuanyan，huoshiyeshimaodunbale。keshikanhulianwangpingjia，buguanmarongzenyanglieshi、fushang、shangxin，wangminmensuoyouyibiandaodebiaodabulianmin，naizhixuduo renjuedetashizizuozishou，rengranjiandingbuyideshiyongwangbaoqiang。-ruhe wanhui

 weishenme?huoxuyiqianmaronghewangbaoqiangdeliyiexingshijianyuanyindahuoerzaoyihenqingxile，zidaliangrenlihundazhanguaqizhiji，yizhidaojinrikuai2nianduodeshijian，wangbaoqiangjihumeiyougongbudafuguomarongdeyiqieguandianshilian，meiyoujizijibianbaiguoyiqieshier。fanshimarongxiaomei，gesanchawudebengchulai，baotiaoruleidejingongyiliangjuwangbaoqiang，jieguoyizhilvbailvzhan，jingchangtoujibulefanshiyibami，rangwangminmenjiqidichu。

 bencimarongxiaomeibeibaolijingongdeshehuiyulunchuquhou，wangminmenzongzhisheiyemeiqinyanjiandao，keshimeiyouyigejianxinshiqingshixiaobaobaogande，youyuwangbaoqiangzaidahuoerdeyanzhongjiushishuogelaoshirenderenwuguanxi，shanjierenyi、hanhoulaoshi，yige“shagen”duixifueryizhishuoyibuerderen，weishenmehuizuochudalaopodeshierlai。jiaruyou，neimadoushiyingleyijulaohua，neibianshi“xiaotuzijileyeyaoshou”，xiaobaobaoyidingshibeirejile，caixiashoude。

 yanyiquanli，fufulihunhoufanmudiyebuzaishaoshu，liruhuangyiqinghehuangyi，sidejidongrenxin，zuizhongluogetongguiyujindexiachang。sheiyounengcongzheicifengbozhonghuodeshenglini，yexusheidoumeiyou。neiyangdeshiliyeyouxuduo ，shijishang，lihunhouzhihou，jinliangbuyaozuozheisanjianshi。

1.不揭另一方的缺点，守好做人的底线。

 youdelihunhouhou，henbunengjianglingyifangzhiyusidierhoukuai，sanbohendudeyaochuan，naizhibalingyifangdexiangpianfazhihulianwangshang，yeyoubalingyifangdeyixiexiaoshihao，mimidougongbuyuzhong，yichaoguoranglingyifangganga、rugengzaihoudejuede。

 shijishangneiyangzuoderen，zuizhongbujinmeiyoukaolvdahuoerdekuishigan，fanerlingrenbuxieyigu，zhiyouduinideweirenzaochengcaiyi，yaojianxinzheiyiquanshijiehuanshishehuizhengnengliangderenduoyixie，bubibajingongbieren、zaoyaobierenzuoweizishendezhuanzhangsichuxianbai，neiyangzongshilingrenduinibieryuanzhi，juedezheigerenmeiyoudaodedixian，bunengtanchengxiangdai，zuizhongsunshangderengranshizishen。

2、不必一味注重另一方的难题，应当多思考自身。

 xiaojinghezhangpengjiushiwolejiedeyidui90houfufu，dangshibaomingcanjiatamenxiyanshi，lianggerenshanmenghaishidechangjingjiyiyouxin，renmenzheizhongbinkemenbeidadongditileisanliu，zaidahuoeryanzhongtamenliangshixinxinxiangxide“nancainvmao”，zhenshijiushishuotianciliangyuan。keshubuzhi，xiaoliangkouziwanhuncai2nianbushang，jiuxianghuzhijiankanbuguanle，zenmeshuohuayelihunle。

 qinpenghaoyoumolanlezuiyebukeyiwanliulianggerenliyidexinxin。jiuzai2019niansanyuefen，lianggerenjianjuelilehun。shubuzhi，lihunzhihou，yaoshixuduorenjixiaojingjieshaonanpengyou，meijirizhunhuang，yitantingyuanxianshizhangpengzaishenhouzuoguai。tameiyicidouxunzhaoxiaojingdexiangchumubiao，bujingyideshuoxiaojingdeyixieshuoxianhua，naizhijiayoujiacudedaoluan。

 zhidaoxiaojinglejieshiershiqinghou，baotiaoruleidiquzhaotajichulilun，tayilianwangxingdeshuo，yinweiwomeiqitahanyi，jiushishuoxiangexinxiangtuniyixia。

 zhangpengdezheileizuofaanzhoubianderendouhendichu，xuduorenhaizhuanyeququanguozhangpeng，duitashuo“yirifuqi100tianen”，yiqianneimaenai，rujinruguobuailejiuyingdangfenbiefangkaishou，zaicizhaoxunxindeqingganguichu，qingbiexianghuzhijiansichan，buranneiyangxialai，duibiciyemeiyouyichu。

 keshizhangpengquezishizhizhongjiebukaineixindezhenzi，ganjueliangrenliyiquanshixiaojingdecuo，zishenyidiannantiyemeiyou。xiaojingbuyinggaineimajiaozhener，shashibixutadixiatou，zuizhonghaiwuqingdihezishenmingquetichuliyi，rangzishenhenmeiyouqingmian。danqingganrutongshoushangdeliusha，niyuexiangjinwo，tawailiudejiuhuiyuekuai，bibushangsatuodefangkaishou，rangsuishizibansuizhefengpiaodongdaozishenxianglaidediqu。

3、不自艾自怨，减少自我认识。

 xiaomeijiushiwodeguimi，taxiangmaoxiuqi，shanjierenyi。hunhou，zaizhangfujiazhuyaobiaoxiandeshifenxianshu，zhaoliaogonggongpopo，shengyunxiaobaobao，basuoyousixudoufangjinlejiazhongshang，jinzhijinzedegoujianmeimanxingfudejiatinghunyin。

 shubuzhi，jiusuantazaoyihaojinlequanliyifu，huanshizuzhibulezhangfuchuguidecanrenkeguanshishi。tashizhongwangbudiao，zhangfuyongchizhiyibidemuguangkanjianta，“yidianshenghuolequyemeiyou，xianshuyoushenmezuoyong?”tayishunjianjiubeidadaole，congjinyihou，tadejingshenmianmaoyiluoqianzhang，hezhangfulihunzhihou，zishenchangchangfengbishizaijiazhong，bubaomingcanjiayiqiezhutihuodong，bianchengdangzhiwukuidezhainv。

 jishixuduorenjitajieshaonanpengyou，tadoutongtonghuijuepengmian。zhihouwoliangxianliao，xiangjitadakaixinjie。wentaneixindeniantou，tashuojiuganjuezhangfushuodehuahenyouxiedaoli，zishenjiushishuotingbumingbailanman，tingmeiyoushenghuolequde。xiayicizaizhaoyigenanren，nandaohaipazishenrengranzuobutaihao，zaiduliyitajiugaibenkuile。

 wogaozhita，shuonibudongwoshenghuolequ，neijinjinhuaxinnandeyijushuocibale，niganwanbuyaowangzifeibo，zaiaiqinghunyinli，zuihoubixuzhongguidaoyouyanjiangcu，yigengyifanli，zaihaodelanmanyedibuguohuijialeshifurenyizhangwenroudexiaorong，yiwantangshui，yifentiexin，zaizheixiefangmiannizuodewufatiaoti，hecuozhiyou?tinglewodehua，xiaomeishenxianlesisuo，xujiuhou，tadeshuangyanliyougangkaishishandongguangliangle，tashuowomingbaigerenyoudianzainaer，woxiangcongtoukaishizishendecuicanmingri。