出轨后选择忍耐，真的是正确做法吗

 weihewaiyuhoutiaoxuanrenshoudenvxingdoushiguodebuxingfukuaile，neiyouyuzhenduinvxingeryan，yaoquyizhizheixiebijiaominganrusi，shoukouruping，hennanhennan。keshizhenduinanshengeryan，tiaoxuandexuanzexinghenxianzhu，daduoshushikuaidaozhanluanma，lilehunshi。-ruhe wanhui

——laopochuguihoutiaoxuankuanrongdenansheng

 wozhipengdaoguoyigenanren，zailaopochuguihoumeiyoutiaoxuanliyi，rujinshiriguodeyehaifeichanghao。wocengjingtixindiaodanwenguota，zenyangrenguozheixiejiemian，raokaibierendequxiao，hainengyirujiwangditengxixifu。tawukenaiheyixiao：sheiyaowoqueshihenaitani，cengjingdewoyibianzheishichulailvyouleyigeyue，shenmeyangrendoukanbudao。

 nanshengshuotabazishendaokong，zhiwenyixiazijiyigenanti：liquta，hejienaciciwaiyu，najiagengtongchu。cankaodaanshi：liqutagengtongchu。yincitazaiyigeyueli，baquanbudehuaizhuangkuangdouxiangxiangyibian，suihouhuijiagaozhita：buliyi，renmenzhihouhaohaoguo。

 ——nanshengbinvxinggengxunsuchuliwaiyunantideyuanguweihenanshengzaiwaiyuexingshijianli，daduoshubinvxinglizhihefushangzhishuzhixiao?yishichaojinhuaheshehuifazhanyuangu，chuguinvrendegailvxiao，beijieshoududi。

 zheiyishirenmenwanbanwunaididexingbiequedian。ershitamengenglizhi，yaobubukenjienabaikongqianchuangdehunyinshenghuo，dangduanzeduan。zhongjiutamennulideliyichengbenfeigengdi，tamenmeiyounvxingneimazaihuzishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdenuli，tamenmeiyouneimazaihuxiaohaidefenpai。

——waiyuhoubuzhengquedezuofa

 xuduorenshuo，fajuewaiyuhou，yidingbukeyidachaodanao，yaofansizijidebugou，deyongwenrouhedaliangdeaiyingxianglingyifang，wanliulingyifang。naopiqizongshibalingyifangyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。zheizhonghuaqizhaleshifenduodenvxing，jieguoshenxianhenshendeheiyin，shechilangfeidaliangdeshijian，tihuidaliangdetongchu，quemeihuodebudeshanzhong。

 kanyixiazheixiezaicaogaodehunyinshenghuoli，nanaoleshijinian、ershijiniandenvxingtamensukudeneirongshisha?tamendehunyinshenghuoshishijinian，ershijinianhoucaifajuewaiyu、baolidema，caifajuetamennanshengyiyezhijianbianzaolemeiyou?

 gengbietizheixierenlesanshijinian，sishijiniandenvxing，tamendouburongyilaiqiuzhule，chufeishitamendenanshengpaoxiata。zenmehuineiyang?youyuneiyangdejiaofashibuzhengquede，taweifanlezuijichudedadaoli。anbuzhengquededadaolizuoshi，zongshirangzhuangkuangyulaiyuzao。zheidaibiao：rangnvxingweinanshengdegerenxingweidanfubuliangyingxiang。

 ——ganqingxiaojiezheixiezaiairenwaiyuhoutiaoxuanrenshouderen，yaoshimeiyouchongzudexinxinheai，shiburongyibazhihoudeshiriguohaode。hunhoushenghuo，rurenyinshui，lengnuanziru。zuizhongdemaicao，zainijijizhudongtaoshengdeshoushang，ermeiyousuoyourendetiyiheanweili，qiwanglianghaixiangquan，ninengquqiqing。ninengtiaoxuanrenshou，haikeyitiaoxuanliyi，danyidingyaolejiezijixinlideniantou，bubibeitarenshangxia。