出轨风波之后婚姻还能恢复如初吗

 wozaibanlushang。wohuilikainimenlianggehenzhangyiduanshijian，wohuiyizhidengzhewodejiaren。nihewoshenaizheduifang，nuligongzuo，shixianlebici。woduicigandaoyihan，danmeiyouduicuozhifen。 ☞chugui fengbozhihouhunyinhainenghuifuruchuma?chuguidehunyinhainengjixuma?ruhezhengjiuhunyinjiating?

一、出轨风波之后婚姻还能恢复如初吗

lihundeyuanyinshigoutongwenti。 shouxian，buzhongzhishihunyinpoliedebingshanyijiao。

 chuguidehunyinhainengjixuma?ruhezhengjiuhunyinjiating? shishishang，buzhongduihunyindeyingxiangshijudade，youshishenzhishihuimiexingde，yinweitazhijiepohuailehunyinzhongdechengnuo，yepohuaileqinmiguanxizhongdexinren。

 raner，buzhongzhishihunyinpoliezuijiandan、zuirongyikandaodeyuanyin。henrongyipanduansheiduisheicuo:wenzhangshizhanan，mayilishiwugudeshouhaizhe。 hunyinshibaiyouxuduofuzadeyuanyin，baokuotamengezidegexingtezheng、tamengezijiatingchushenhechengzhanglishideyingxiang、shuangfangguanxidefazhanfangshi(taikuaihuotaiman，dengdeng)shuangfangdegoutongnengli、yilianleixingdeng。

chuguikenengshijiyushangshuwentifashengde，shishuimianshangbingshandeyijiao。

 dangran，womenkeyilisuodangrandiqianzezuobideyifang，danshiruguowomenzhiguanzhu“zuobi”demingxianyuanyin，womenkenenghuihulveduihunyinzhongshijiwentidesikao。 qingjizhuxuebengqijianmeiyouxuehuashiwugude。

 qici，biaozhizheyiduanguanxijieshudehunyinxuyaoshuangfangfuchudaliangnuli，yongyuanmeiyouxingfude“gongshi”，yinweimeiduanlangmandeguanxidoushiduyiwuerde。 tuoxie、goutong、duli、chengshi、tonglixin、naixinhejiqing——zheixieshixingfuhunyindeguanjianyinsu。

 dangzheixieyinsubeipohuaishi，hunyinjiangmianlinjietideweiji。 hennanlikai，yinweiyoubiyaolikaiyiqiandeshushiqu，danbaochitongkudeguanxizuizhonghuiduishuangfangdeqingganhexintaijiankangzaochengyanzhongsunhai。

 chuguidehunyinhainengjixuma?ruhezhengjiuhunyinjiating?ruguozaiyiduanguanxizhongchuxianleyixia8gejixiang，neimeshishihourenzhentantan，yiqimianduizheiduanguanxizhongdewentile:

 1.zhiyouyigerenzainuligongzuoma?nishiweiyiyigezongshifaqizhongyaoduihua、weiguanxishedingmubiao、anpaiyuehuihejiaqiderenma?hunyinshiyizhonghuobanguanxi。suiranbuxuyaoyizhishi50: 50，danxuyaolianggerendegongtongnuli。

 2.nidejiazhiguanbeibiandile。yexutabuxihuanniheyixie“meiyoushijibangzhu”depengyoujiaowang，danzheishinizuiyukuaiderenjiguanxi。huozheniyouzongjiaoxinyang，dantachaoxiaotamen。jinguanzaihunyinzhongbaochigexingfeichangzhongyao，danshuangfangdouyinggaizunzhongbicidehexinjiazhiguan。

 3. yigehaodehunyinyiweizhetishenghejinbu，erbushijianshaohehuimie。 bushisuoyounibuxianghebanlvqinmijiechudeshiqing，danzheishihunyindezhongyaozuchengbufen。 ruguoniduibanlvdekewangwanquanxiaoshi，yexushishihouzhongxinshenshizheiduanguanxile。

 4.nibunenghenidedadangjiaoliu。buyaoqiwangnidebanlvlijienidexiangfa。 ruguonibunengbiaodanidesixiangheganqing，nidehunyinjiangyongyuanbuhuichenggong。

 raner，ruguonibunengbiaodanidezhenshiganshou，yinweinidebanlvyizhizaipipingnihuohushini，neimezheishiyigemingxiandejixiang，biaomingzaizheiduanguanxizhongchuxianleyanzhongdewenti。

 5.nizhinengxiangxiangweilai。ruguonizhinengxiangxiangnidehunyinhuiyinweiyixieyixiangbudaodeshijianergaishan，zheishiyichangzainan。 nikenenghuigandaojusangheshiwang ruguonichengrennidebanlvyongyuanbuhuigaibian，huozhenideguanxiyongyuanbuhuigaishan，nihuizaizheilidaihenzhangshijianma?

 6.nidebanlvbuxianghenidejiarenhepengyouzaiyiqi。zheishiyigezhongyaodetishi，yinweinidebanlvbubiainidejiating，danshita/tayinggaizunzhongnidejiating，dangta/taxuyaocanjianijiatingdezhongyaojuhuishi，buyaozongshibaoyuan。

ruguonidebanlvjingchangzhaojiekoubuhenidejiarenhepengyouxiangchu，neimeshishihoutaolunqianzaideyuanyinle。

 7.nidebudaonidadangdezhichi。dangnishengbinghuoyaliguodashi，nidebanlvhuiguanxinnima?dangyoukunnanhexuyaobangzhudeshihou，nishizhinengyanghuozijihaishizhinenghepengyouhejiarenjiaotan?ruguonidebanlvbuzaishinizhichituanduideguanjianchengyuan，neimenideguanxijiubuzaijiankang。

 8.hehuorenbuguanxinnidewenti。zhengchaohezhengdoushiaiqinghehunyinguanxideyibufen。 jishilianggerenhuxiangaihezunzhong，yehuiyouchayi。 zaijiankangdehunyinzhong，shuangfangdouhuishituxunzhaoqianzaidechayiyouyin，biruniweishenmechaojia?ruguonidebanlvsihubuzaihunidefenqilaizinali，huozhenimenzhijiandeshiqingshifouzhengchang，neimeshishihouzhengshizheigewentile。

aiqingyoujintou，buhuizhenximeiyiduankeyixiubudepolieguanxi aiyoujintou，guanxiyeyoujintou。

 youxierenzhinengyiqizouyihuier。youxieguanxizhishichengzhangguochengzhongcongcuowuzhongxuexidejihui。 ruguonixiangyaoyiduanchijiudehunyin，nikenengxuyaozaikaishiyuehuishizuochuzhengquedexuanze。 neixiexiwangjixuxingfuhunyinderenyinggaixiangbanfajiaqianghegonggutamendelianxi。

 suiranhejiehenrongyi，danhennanmibu。qingjizhu，zheiduanguanxijianghuijieshu，aihewenrouzhongyouyitianhuihaojin。yexuwomenhuigengjiazhenxita。