出轨后的婚姻该不该将就

 ☞chugui houdehunyingaibugaijiangjiu?youxierenshuozhaoyigexinggongzuozhehuozhehunwaiqingbushichugui。 youxierenrenweibeizhezijishouyindezhangfushibuzhongde。raner，yixierenyerenweihunwaixingxingweibushibuzhong，zhidaohuijiashijianhaoshi。chuguihoudehunyinzenmejixu?hunhouchuguigaibugaijiangjiu?

一、出轨后的婚姻该不该将就

chuguihoudehunyinzenmejixu?

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 dangyigerenfaxiantadebanlvzuobishi，shanghaibujinjinshiyizhongguanxi，yeshiyigerenziworenzhidebengkui。 qizibeipantahou，zhangfutongkudishuo，“wocengjingyiweiwolejiewomendehunyin，lejiebici，lejieziji。xianzai，wohuaiyiyiqie。” zheishizuobizuizaogaodeganjue tarangnihuaiyiyiqie，buzaitongyiniguoqutongyidedongxi，yebuzaixiangxinniguoquxinrendedongxi。

 zheigeshijieshangzuinanchulideshiqingshijishangshifuqizhijiandeguanxi。 congshijianweidulaikan，tashidongtaide，xuyaosuizheshijiandebianhuatianjiaxindeneirong。conggongnengjiaodulaikan，tayeshibaorongxingde。lianggerenzaipengyou、qinqi、tongchuangyimeng、linghunbanlv、funv、muziguanxizhijianzhuanhuan，zheiyiqiedouxuyaoziyouqianjinhehoutui，yaoyouqiaomiaodepinghenghemoqi。

 jingchangchuliyiduiyi、yiduiyi、shuangfangmanyidugaodeguanxi，shishishang，xuyaogaodudeziwowanshanlaikongzhi jiuxiangjibingyiyang，diaozhengshenghuofangshiyeshiyizhongshentijiaohuan。buzhongyeshihunyindejingzhong。tatixingwomenhunyinzhongdehexinxuqiuhennanzaihunyinzhongdedaomanzu，niyijingshiqulepingheng。

 ruguozheiyangdejiatingnengyiqilaidaozixunshi，zhiliaoshitongchanghuibazheichangweijibianchengyigezhuanzhedian。 daduoshushihounideguanxiyijingpolie，disanfangdecunzaizhihuibangzhunijieluwenti。

 chuguihoudehunyinzenmejixu?hunhouchuguigaibugaijiangjiu?disanfangshihunyindejingzi，shadingyuqunzhongdenianyu，shibiangededaohuosuo。 ruguoyifangzuobi，jiuhaoxiangguanxidefazhanyijingdaoleyigeguanjianjiedian。womenyinggaizhaochushanghaihebeipanbeihoudeziwoyishiyijishuangfangchengzhangdekenengxing，zheiyangguanxicainengjixufazhan。

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 xintaixuejiazongshirenweibianhuashiweiyibubiandedongxi，suoyiwomenyishengzhongbixuyuxuduorenhuoyigerenyouxuduoguanxi。 dangyiduishoubuzhongyingxiangdefufuzaibaofengyuzhongzhaodaotashi，bilishizhumingxintaizhiliaoshiaisite·peileier(esther perel)huiduitamenshuoyixiadehua:zaijintiandexifangshehui，daduoshurenyouliangdaosancihunyinhuoqinmiguanxi，eryouxierenyongyuanshiyiyangde。

 nidediyiduanguanxi(hunyin)jieshule。xianzai，niyuanyikaishidierciqinmiguanxima?zaizhongguo，dayuemeisangezhangfuzhongjiuyouyigehe7.5geqiziyoufuzadesanjiaoguanxi。 suizheweijidedaolai，huiyouyixiexuanzehewenti:woyinggaixuanzeyuanlianghaishifenkai?wonengzuoxieshenmelaijianshaoduiwojiarendeshanghai?

 buyaoqiangpozijicongmangzuochujueding，jizijishijianchulibeishang、neijiuheqitaqingxu，ranhoujibiciyigejiaoliuhelijiechuguibeihouyuanyindejihui。

 chuguihoudehunyinzenmejixu?hunhouchuguigaibugaijiangjiu?zaizuojuedingzhiqian，niyuanyizaicijinruzheizhongguanxima?zuobijishiweiji，yeshijiyu。ruguowomenchulidedang，womenkeyiyougenghaodeqinmiguanxi。

 raner，zaizheigeguochengzhong，xuyaodaliangdejinglilaipingjingnideqingxu，sikainideshangkou，mianduizhengchao，ranglijieniqingxudezixunshipeiniqumianduitamen，zhongxinkaishinidekuaileshenghuo。