丈夫出轨不归家，聪慧老婆那样做

男人 为什么会出轨 ?在获知老公出轨了的那一刻起，大部分老婆们虽然了解一个巴掌拍不响这一大道理，但仍是会认为全是第三者的错，才让自己的时日被搅得一团糟。

 yincinaobuchuxuduozhongduifudisanzhedefangfa，biruoushang...danshizheizhongzuofachanshengdechengxiaojiyoukenengshilaogongdeyanmiansaodi，duinigengjiaegan;nanrenweishenmehuichugui?zenmefangdisanzhe?

 disanzhepengshang，nizaoshouzongzhideyueshuli，zheijiushiniyuanyidema?huoxubingbushi，nikeyidedanshishilaogongfanhuizijishenpang，disanzhenengshixiangbaituo，hunyinshenghuojiatinggongzuoyibuyingduidisanzhedeyingzhan。zhongguigaizenmezuocainengrangzishenbamianlinglongni?

一、老公出轨了的要素

 xingshiribuhemu。shengxiaohaihoudenvxingdoushidianjizhehuadaliangdeshikequzhaoguxiaohaiquecuxindayileshenpangdenanzi，yichaoyixinanzimeifacongnishoushanghuodexingjinglidelingrenmanyi，jiuxiangquwaibianzhuixunxuanxiedezongtimubiao。

 nvxingguoduqianghan。yixienvxinghunhoujiuhuizhuyaobiaoxianchugewaideqianghan，yujiehunqianwanquanbuyiyang，zhanjuzheyijiazhizhudebuwei，budanduilaogongzhishouhuajiaoshenzhihuifangantaruanruowuneng，cuxindayilenanzideganshou。ruzaiwaibianpengdaolemingbaiqizhongzijidenvxing，feichangjiandanjiuhuizhanxianyueguile。

 gongzuo yalitaida。zaidangdaishehuifazhan，nanzidanfuqishehuifazhanjiatinggongzuodegangweizhize，bianbuyalitaida，nvxingfanhuijiayiyangshishenxinpibei，fuqijianyeyinweipibeierbuxianggoutongjiaoliu，zhangqineimejiuhuidaozhinanziqidailijingwaibiandefangshilaixuanxieqingxu。ruhediyudisanzheyouqizhao?

 disanzheshoushangyoulenimeiyoudewupin，keyixiyindaonilaogong。yinci，nikeyizhuangzuohaobuzhiqingdi，quzhangwodisanzhe，chenjibuluhenjidilejie，tayunilaogongzhongjiandelianluoqudaonayibule，gaidiaozijideqianque，duidajiajianglaidefufulianluo，gengyouquebao，nigengmingbairuhejinilaogongaizheni。

1.提高自身

 tigaozishen，jiubaokuoxialiejicengmian：youjibiedechuanyifudaban。nvxingzaifazhanshiyongjiazhicengmian，congwaiguanshejixiashouzhunshiduilede，tianzhishihedeyifukuzi，yangzhangbuduanlaizhuyaobiaoxianzijidefengcai，zaishijueshangyidinghuizhuazhulingyifangdeyanzhu。

2. 容下和互相关心

 dongdehuhuankaolvdao，rongxiabierendecuolou，neimecainenghuodebierendejingzhong、xinrenhehaogandu，jidexingshandeyitongyekeyifazhanbenrendesixiangjingjie。yitong，huoyuexingdexintaizhuangtaikeyixiyindaoyiyanggexingtezhengderenhenilaiwang，tuozhanzishendeweixinpengyouquan，yekeyiranglaogongbeinideshehuizhengnengliangganran。

3.塑造个人爱好

 yigenvxingyaoxiangfazhanzijideqichang，defangfayishipeiyanggerenaihao，ruxuemeishu，dangangqin，jianzhihua，yishuchahua，minzuwudaodeng，zheizhongzhutihuodongbudannengxiushenyangxing，yekeyirangzishengengxinxin。

4.增加资金投入

 keyirangtajinizuoyixielianglierweideshi，birujiawulaodong。nvxingainanzidefangshi haowuyiwenbingbushichengdansuoyoujiawuhuo，haowuyiwenbingbushiweitabamianlinglongdefuwu。zhishimingbaizhengqueyindaolingyifangyuniyitongzhuzhuajiawuhuo，yitongzuojiawubujinkeyipeiyangxianghuzhijiandexinyoulingxi，gengjiakeyiranglingyifangyuanliangnidejianxin，laopoyeburongyiyinweizhangqidejiawu，neixinshidiaoerduilaogongchanshengyuanhen。

5.确立你的必须。

 youderenguiruqingshangzhishangjiaoweidideneilei，duizheileirenqianwanbierangtacainiyaoganshenme，yaozhijieledangderangtalejienidebixu，biru，nikeyimaibeizi，danfensede，rangtaxiabanlemaihuiqu。yincinvxingzijiyaodongdeyoumudexingdeyingyongjiqiaoquzhengqueyindaonanzifukuan。

 guigenjiedi，hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshi，jiaruzaijiejuehunhouchuguidequanguochengzhong，nizhuanxinzhizhijianghuolifangdaoruhediyudisanzhebuweifashang，erbulejiezijishoushangdeyihuo，neimazhongguibeidiudiaotongkuderuguoni。zenmefangdisanzhe?