老公出轨了如何挽救?如何做?

老公出轨了 怎么办?老公出轨了，毫无疑问绝大多数媳妇全是伤心欲绝的，但是该不该离婚一直令人犹犹豫豫，总有多种要素羁绊着，那麼，假如還是想挽回丈夫，再次衣食住行得话，咋办?一起看一下老公出轨了如何挽救吧。

一、不必和丈夫争锋相对，只是先思考个人缺点

 hunyinjingyingshibixuliangrenyiqixuexi、xianghupeihe，waiyuyeshijianghuiyouyufufuhunyinjingyingdefangshibudangzhichuerrangwenchongdingleyoufengdedan。yinci，laogongchuguile，nvxingxianbubifennu，zhishifangongzishengzishenpingchanglishibushijinlaidaoyigezuolaopodeyiwu。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 jiaruzishenpingchanglidezuofabukekao，xianwangzhangfuzhiqianbingqinfengaidiao;jiarushizhangfulanqingxiangbei，xianwenyiwenzishenxubuxuyaolihun，jiarubulihunhaiyaogujihouwaiyushiqixianghudetihui，yinci，bukeyihezhangfuchaonaodetailihai，buranyoujianghuimeiyouloutixia。

二、遇第三者激怒时别忘了对第三者说声感谢

 yixiedisanzhehoujidexiangzhuanzhengdingji，yinci，huizaishangnaoyizhiyuwukenaihedeqingkuangxiaduizhengshikaizhanjinu，zheishihou，nvxingyidingbubinaonu，yingduidisanzhedejinu，zhengshizhixuduidisanzhelimaoxingdeshuo：wozheiyiduanshijianbijiaomang，weinengfeichanghaodezhaoliaowodezhangfu，xiexienizheiyiduanshijianbangwozhixingyigezuolaopodegangweizhize。

三、平常里在公婆那边积点德，让公婆进行施加压力

 yigenengquyuegongpodeerxizaijiazhongshihuichengxianzhiguanzhongyaodeyingxiangli，youjuhuajiao‘bukansengmiankanfomian’，laogongchuguiyihou，jibianbuzaiyixifutihui，haiyaokaolvdaobabamamatihui。pingchangjidele，gongpodaziranhuizaizuijinyaoguantoutinizhanchuquzhushi。

四、以柔克刚欲擒故纵。

 disanzhehaipadejiushishuozhengshishierbujian。youyuzhengshibunaolihun，tayueduodanyoutalibulehun。rangtaposhinizhangfu，rangtaqudanghanfu，rangtajianggerenquedianpuludeyilanwuyu。meiding，zuizhongnizhangfuhuanshiganjuenigengtongqingdaligengdaqi，zhonghuijiazhong。

五、让自身的孩子缠上丈夫。

 zheierbingbushinahaizidangdangjianpai，zhishiranghaiziduohezhangfujiaowang，tahuiyeduozhaoliaozhaoliaohaizi。wulunshinanhaierhuanshinvsheng，quanshitadehaizi，xuerongyushui，burongyitaiguodudichu。jiaowangdeshijianyueda，yueduofeichangrongyixiaishangtamen，yeyueduogaoqingchuzishendejiazhongyiwuyouduoshao。

六、夫妻性生活时，多构建一些氛围

 meirifanfudefuqixingshenghuo，huirangzhangfuyanfan，zhuanhuanchuangbiandexingganmiren，baohanxingganneiyi，xingganmirenzishi、xingquyongpin、renchuyounanxingyanshiyongpindeng。

七、果断不允许丈夫出外生小孩这类念头。

 hedisanzheshengxiaohai，jiusuanshizuikaishimeiyouqinggan，zuizhongyehuiyouyuhaizi，jianjiandizaochengzhenqing。haizizheigeqiaoliang，zongshirangtamendeqingganyulaiyushen，yejianghuizaochengtazuizhongtiaoxuandisanzhebingfeidajiadehunyinshenghuo。

八、果断不允许离婚。

 jiranshibuxianglihun，nijiuguoduanbutilihundeshi。tilihundepinciyueda，yuefeichangrongyijiasuqinggandexiaoshi。ernanrendexintaiyehuibianhuahenda：jirannilihun，neimewojiuganjinzhaohaoxiajia。haowuyiwen，tilihunfandaohuibazijinanshengyinxiangdisanzhedehuaili。

九、再爱她还要搜集她们的出轨证据。

 nikeyilijigaosudajiadezhangfu，jiaruhewodisanzheshenglehaizi，yifufudeweituorenyishizhuxingzaiyiqi，jiuzuchenglezhonghunzui，haizijiuhuibianchengtawaiyudezhijiezhengju，renminfayuannengpanzhonghunzuizheruyu，jiqijingshenchuhu……neiyang，tadouhuiyouduoshaojupa。ciwai，nisixiawubisoujitawaiyudezhijiezhengju，yifangwanyi。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?