丈夫出轨我该怎么办?做妻子的看回来

老公出轨了 怎么办?老公出轨了我该怎么办?许多妻子碰到那样的难题都手足无措，哀痛气恼，丈夫出轨我该怎么办呢?做妻子的看回来吧。

一、停，看，听，随后慎重地付诸实践

 zhangfuchuguiwogaizenmeban?dangniyongyixieshijianhaohaoxiangzhezishendehunyinshenghuo，hezishendaodiyoushenmeqidaiyubixu，jiuhuixunzhaoheshizishendecankaodaan。neimezuohuoxuyaohuashangyixieshijian，bingqiejianghuihuishifentongchu，keshizheiyiqiebixukaonizishendangzuojuece——yigeniganxinqingyuandejuece。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 youguoduodenvrenzaizuojueceshi，xiguanxingtingmingyulaogonghuobiedeyouquanweixingderen，rujinzheiyijuecejianghuishitamenzizhuzuochudediyigedajuece。

二、善待自己，更是潦倒更是要更为善待自己

 zuigaizhuzhongdeshi，yigelianzishendoubuxihuandenvren，shimeiyouquanliquhuodenanrendalianghegengweizhangjiudeaide。huoxu，woneiyangshuobingfeirangmeinvmendouquzisizili，wuluntarendeshenmedou。zhishijiaotamenyaozilian、xinxinhezishentisheng，yaodaochuxinlichangyouzishen，bingfeiyumeiwuzhidibazishenzuoweinanrendejingshenjituo。

 nvrenhunyinshenghuodebeijuyoufeichangzhanbiquanshiyoutamenbuzushandaizijierdaozhihuoshishiweihaide。feichangshidangnanrenduitalveweibiaodachuyizhongsongxiehuoshishilengdanzhiji，tahuigengweibumingbaishandaiziji。xinlihuiyuelaiyuemiwang，huigengweiquefazixin，yincipoguanposhuai，zimingqinggao，huitoutulian，jinerjiakuaizishendecuihua，tishengzishenzainanrenxinzhongzhong“yanfan”deshujuxinhao。zheibanzhijin，bianchanshengyizhongliangjihua，wuxuwaibiandedisanzhexiashou，zishenyehuibeizishenjibai。

三、充分发挥妻子的有益地形，宜以守为攻

 hewaibiandedisanzheduibi，woyizhijuedeqizibuguancongganqing、shehuifazhanhuanshicongshijianluojixingshangmianzhanjinletianshidili。yibanzhuangkuangxia，yaoshinengjishizhuazhunyouyidimao，busuibianqichenggongji，tangruoyishouweigongdehua，dabufenshinenggoushengquanzaiwode。

 pajiupazheixiechenbuzhuqi，shituqidai“yilifuren”he“yiqipoyaren”denvren，biaocengshanglaikannenggougaoshengrangyiliangju，zhaolaiyixierendekanrenao，huodehaoduogerendelianminhejianrong，shijishangtaquesangshigengweiguanjiandeyigerenyugengweiguanjiandeyigeyingxiangli，zheiyirenjiushishuotadezhangfu，zheiyiyingxianglijiushishuotazuoweiqizidehaoranhebaorong。zheibanyinao，yanzhiyoulijiubianweilebuli，ziweijiubianweilejingong，buliangyingxiangtongchangshirenweiyinsunanyicaozongde。

四、吸取经验，开始新日子

 bulunshihehaoruchu，rengshihepingfenshou，bixucongtoukaishihuiwangyixiagongzuozhongdequanguocheng，xiqujingyan。neimezuodeyichujiuqujueyu，wanghoumiankandaihaoqinghuigengjiadekeguan，manmanmingbailingyifangdesixu，zhangwolaidaolingyifangdexintaizhuangtai，biankeyibaozhengyiwentiweidaoxiang，tuidonghaoqingrizideyouhao。liangrenzaiyiqi，bubiranyaobaozhengdonglingyifang，keshiyouyiqiedegongzuozhongqiewuquefagoutongjiaoliu。

 goutongjiaoliushirenherenzhijiandegongluqiaoliang，yaoshishunchangcaikeyimiaohuidiaohedeganqingguanlian。dangtihuidaoleyiqiangerenlvlidesuoyou，bianshouhuolaidaoguanjianderenshengdaolugerenlvli，zaoshouneimedeyindao，duiweilaiderizifajuedenantikeyibaozhengfangfanyuweiran，mingbairuhebimianlaogongchuguideyixiefangfa：

 youguanhehaoruchudehaoqing，wanghoumianliangrendeguanliankeyiyulaiyuyanshi;youguanyipailiangsandehaoqing，shoushiyixiaqianhaodexinqing，jiangtamentongtongdiuqi，qubuduanzhuixunyiduanxindehaoqingba。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?