为何出轨男人了 却不愿离异?

老公出轨了 怎么办?每每出轨男人，女性的第一觉得全是头晕目眩，感觉“他不爱我了”。许多人到获知老公出轨以后，脑海中里瞬间就闪过一个念头：

jirantadouchuguile，zheiyiduanhunyindoumeiyoujianglaile，guoduanliyisuanleba。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 kenanrentongchangbingbushineimexiangde，danghunwaiqingpuluyihou，xuduonanrenquanshichixuzhiqian，qiuzhelaopokuanrong，huanjuhuashuojiushishuobuxiangyaoliyi。

meinvmennaonuzhe，yihuozhe，weishenmenini?nanrenneixindouhuidianjizhenaxie?

shijishangchuguinanren，doushiyouxuduozhongleide，xiabianjiuweidahuoerkaizhanfenxi：

lizhixingnanren：chuguijinjinhunyindetianbu，wokebuyuandiushibaizhimajiantiangua。

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 tangruolianqingnenggoufangzong，neimahunyingengbixujinshen，nanrennenggouchuwaigenlianrenxiangyoureqing，danyidanshenggaodaopaoqiqizidechengdu，chengbenfeizhenshitaigaole，xuduonanrendougangkaishidanqie。

chuguideguanjianhuanjiequjueyumomocengceng，jiarubeifajuele，nijiutaiwuliaolele。

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neijiuxingnanren：woqueshilejiebudui，woxianghuijia。

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dajiazongshuo“chuguizhinenglingciheyicici。”

 kequeshiyouyizhongnanren，lejiebudui，jiuqueshihouhuimojile，zheizhongrenmingbairuhejiqujiaoxun，heyongzishendeshijishanggerenxingweilaitianbu。

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neiyangdenanrenzhongguishizuiwanquande。

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shijixingnanren：hunwaiqinghenlei，haibibushangzhongguijiazhong。

 shijishangchuguidoushiyijianhenbubiandeshier，yifangmianyaofeijinxinjidimanzhelaopo，yeyaogenlianrentouhuaisongbao，yixinbukeyieryong，zhengtiandanzhanxinjing。zaijiazhongrushuiyepashuomenghuabiaolushiqing。

yikaishi，chuguiquanshitianmeicijixingde，keshijianyizhang，jiuhuiganjuelei，yidianyebuqingqingsongsong。

nanrenyidanrumengchuxingjiuhenanrenguimixinqiaodeyaochuguiyiyang，sheidoulabule。

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 hunwaiqingjinguanyoureqing，jiaorenxintiaoguosu，kenulidefuchudaijiataida，duirenshengdaoludegemingxingtaiqiang，zheigerendeyibeizijiuneimehuishi，feixiazhetengdehuanyigerenguoliangnianyeyiyangni，hainengneishihouzaixiazhetengma?

chengzhangxingnanren：zhizhijijiangsangshi，wojiulejiezishenaidenanrendaodishishei。

 dajiazuifeichangrongyifandebuzhengquejiushishuobuaixizishenshoushangzaoyiyouzhededongxi，eryizhiyaoquqipanzishensuobukeyihuodede。

 xuduodongxiyidanbianweizishende，fangfojiushiquyiqiefengcai。lejienishoushangdedongxishibixuhaihuilaide，zaochengleweixiegan，tajiuyuelaiyueshenjiabaibei，fanguolaitajiushishuomeitianzainipangbiandaizhe，nidoubuganjuetayoushizaitaizuigaiaixi。

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yincitahuitoulu，laolaodixiangyongzheiyizishenshierfudedehunyin。

 hunwaiqingwulunruhefazhanqushizaozhongwanbixuyouyigejieguo。zheijieguobingbushihunwaiqingduihunyinrangbu，jiushishuohunyinduihunwaiqingrangbu。renshengluyao，xiazhetengdeqilaowushangyihouzhongguilejiazhong，congtoukaishiguoshanghaorizizishenlejiedexiaoshenghuo，zheiyangdeshiqingzaichuguinanrenzhonggengweipubian。

 nanrenzaicizhongguidaohunyinhezongsuanzhengquerenshilehunwaiqingxiangguan，yejianghuishishehuidaodeheliangxindezaisheng，danwulunshizenmehuishi，shijishangdouyiweizhezhenanrenduishijidedixiatouheduibenshendeziwofansi。

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