极思细恐的出轨征兆 他中了是多少条了?

老公出轨了 怎么办?精神出轨VS肉身出轨，许多人默认设置精气神上的叛变远远地比人体的叛变破坏力更要致命性。

 routishangdexuanxiehuoxushizhituyishidekuaile，jingshenchuguidaibiaoliangrendeguanxilianshengmingdoubeiqianyile。yiduanmeiyoushengmingdeguanxi，jiuzhinengyifufaweidequqiao，shibuzhiweiqizhikexi。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

01

大家的间距腼腆且有间距，共享的事情越来越低

 jibuhaijidebujiuzaiyiqideneishihou，lianzaocanchishenmedounengtantaoyidalun。dangtayongyouxindezongtimubiao，tagongxiangyishizhuxingxiaoshidexiaohuobandaziranyehuibianweineiren。tadexinsi、lixiang、fangan、gongzuofangmiandekunao，shengzhidehuanyue，tabingbushizangzaixinlijiushishuogentarengongxiangguobuxianggentashuole。

ruguonidelingyibanyounaxieguanjiandexinxi，nishiyidisanzhedezuizhongtingjiande，zheihuishiyigefengxiandeshujuxinhaole。

夫妻性生活品质

 jingshenchuguibutongyuroushenchugui，jibianshishengmingshangpanbianleni，routishanghuoxuyeyouhudongjiaoliu。danshizenmejiangdouhao，qingganshangdailegehe，wangrixingyingbulidehudongjiaoliudoushiyuelaiyuejixieshebeiqiefawei。

 biru，papashibuxiangyiwangyiyangjingchang，meiyouneimazijintouru，genghaoxiangzaijiaozuoyeyiban。xiangyong、qinqinbaobaozheizhongqinmidehudongjiaoliushaoleqinggan，guohoudoumeiyouwencun。

 danshilingyibanyejianghuiyouyuchuguixinyoukuijiu，zaichuangshigengweipinming。huanjuhuashuo，taguodulengmohuoshiguodujijizhudongdouzuigaizaochengliuyi。

他在有心绕开你不?

 ganlekuixinshidenanshenghuizhudonggenniweichiyidianjianju，yifangnifajueletanaxiezhenxiang。shuoduocuoduo，buyongshuojiubuhuicuo。jiarulingyibanbujingyiraokainijiangdianhua;zaochenhenzaowaichu，yelihenzaorushui，pingchangmangliugongzuozhong，jinliangbimiangennijiaowangnihaiyaoliuyile。

 biru，tazhiqianchangchanggenniliaoyiliaogongzuofangmianpengdaodeshiqing，rujinjianjiandijiuyongmeiyoushenmefeichangdeshiqingchanshenglaituiweini。yudiaodebianhuadoushiyigehenxianzhudeshujuxinhao。xiangzhetashifougangkaishixinbuzaiyan，yingduinidenantigangkaishihanhuqici。

以偏概全的谈话内容

 gaohunniderenzhinenglihuoxushizheyanjingshenchuguijiaoweixinjidediqu，liangzhezhijiangennizhengbianduiyucuo，yuqishuolijifourenleniderenzhinengli。ruguolingyibanchangchangduinideniantoubiaodatichuzhiyi， waiqu，huoxutajiushishuochangshiduinikaizhanjingqishencaozong。

 biru，nizhaotazhiwenshifouzuorilaidaoyijiacanyindianermeigaosudajia。taquejinlizhengmingcailiaotadequegennitizaoshangbaole，yilaierqu，niyegangkaishicaiyi，zishenshifouqueshinongcuole。jiertahuiguaini，meihaohaodijilaotadehua，zaochenglewujiegenzhengzhi。

02

常常不给力，在大家关系中注意力不集中

让人猜疑的关系

 jiarutayongyoujingshenchuguidelingyiban，tahuiduizheiyilingyibanbuyouzizhudebaozhuangzhegai。ruguoniwenqitashibushiyougentarenwaichu，yongcan，weihejialihuoshipengmiandejiyuyuelaiyuedile，tajiuhuibuyiweiyi“tajinjinpengyou”，“jinjinyigedepengyou”，taiguozhuzhongtamenzhongjiandedanchunxingguanxi。

特工般遮掩行踪

 zhaoxunlianrenshibushichuguinvrenxiangkenandaoer，neimazheyanchuguinanrenrutongyewuliuchengjiweixianshudetegong。jiaocheruanjiandejilu、jiaoyouruanjianjilu、tongxunjilutongtongjiejuezhengjie。zhibuguoshini，taiguozhengjiedejilu，yehuibeicongmingdenvxingkandechubudangzhichu。

忽然爱打扮

 jibianjingshenchuguigengzhongshideshineixinshangdegoutongjiaoliu，danshinitayidingyexiangzaichuguilingyibanyanqianchuchufengtou，haohaodidabanhuanshibixude。youhuiqianhaowuyiwendoushihuiyifanyiwangdixixindaban，xuanhaoyishenxingtou，penwanzishenyuanbenfangandegulongshui。liuyitashifouyouyundongjianshen，jiaojidabangenyiwangbuyiyangdedifang，huoxutashoushangqueshichuxiannantile。

jianxinzuoweinvrendediliugan

 nvrendediliugan，xuduoneishihouqueshixiangchuanshuogushizhongdeyiyangjingque。shencengcidianlaixiang，jinjinnvxingguangfanquanshijiaoweixizhi，keyifajueliangrenzhongjianchuxiandebicizhijianzhuanbian。jiashangliangrendewuhuabushuo，nanmianhuidoumingbaixianghudexin，zheiyiduanguanxicunyoufujiadeyikesuishizi，doushikanqilaifeichangxianzhu。

 neihuoxu，yongyoupanduanliyejinjinjinigengweibixuzhuyizhaodaozhijiezhengju，zaiyoushichuiyiqian，caixiangyeyoushejilingganquanshibuzuoshude。

03

寻找实锤，如何处理?

以诚相待沟通交流

 xunzhaoshichuizhijiezhengju，zishenxianbaocunhao。zaigaohaochongzudeguanniantiqianzhunbeiyihou，lizhidigenlingyibangoutongjiaoliu，lijiwenyiwenzheizenmehuishi。kanyixiatashibushizhuyaobiaoxiandedanxuzaodongbuan。jitamenjiyubiaoshu，tanyitanyouguanchuguilingyibandeshiqing。

 hepingfenshouhetanyidingbubizhigaoqiyanghaoxiangzhuodaobashoulingyifangjiuyidingxiaoyuzishendejuede。sangshilixingdehuihuafeichangrongyirangzishenshenxianbeidongjinengdechujing，zhuyaodeshiyitazuizhongsuanchushichui。ninengshuo：“qinaidede，worenweinigenbierenchangchangzaiyiqi，woshinidelingyibannineiyangzuolingwobukaixin，renmendoubuxiangzhiqianyiyangqinmiwujianle。

头脑清醒的脑子

 jinjiyidingyaodandingcongrong!dandingcongrong!dandingcongrong!guanjiandehuashuosanbian!buguantayoumuyourenkenixunzhaodezhijiezhengju，nidoububiduitadahandajiao，yikuernaosandiaosidemoyang。diaojiehaoxiqi，zaihetanyiqiangaohaochongzudeneixintiqianzhunbei。

 ruguotayaosibusongkou，neimenihaikeyituiyibubadajiazhongjiancunzaidebuzunachuqugoutongjiaoliu。wanyizhihouyougengjinyibudezhijiezhengjufanmianlingyifangchugui，bimianlingyifangfanyaoyikoushuodajiadenantizaocunyoueryoubuchuli。

梳理心绪

 zuixianzishenxianxiangzhe，daodidajiadeguanxichuxianlenaxienanti。shifouqingganzaoyilengmochulaile?shifouchanshengguonaxielingdahuoerjixinshenggehedeshiqingni?shoulideshichuidequeshixiangpipeilingyifangchuguidegerenxingweile?xiangaoqingchuzheihaoduogenanti，caikeyijinkuaijiejuejiexiaquchanshengdeshiqing。

 gengguanjiandeshi，sisuoyixianizishenshifourenshizijidetihui。shifouzishenhenmeiyouanquangan?shifoubatarendeyinyingyingshedaotashoushangleni?

求助

nihaikeyizhaokeyixinlaideqinqipengyouliaoyiliaozishendeguji，huoxudisanzhenenggengqingxilizhideguanchadaoxingshi。

 ruguojihunfajuelingyifangchugui，nenggouzhaoxunjishuzhuanyedexingshibianhulvshikaizhanzixunxiezhu，wuqiubasunhaijiangzhizuishao。jiaruhaixiangwanhuilaogong，shikeyiyouqiuyujishuzhuanyedehunyinqingganlaoshi，zhengqueyindaonixiubuguanxi。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?