出轨全是第三者的错吗?

01

 laogongchuguile zenmeban?nibukeyizudangtarenduiniyouganjuelaogong，keshinilaogongnenggouzudangtarenbubilaixiaita。

 zheipianyaoyinvshideshijiaolaixie，huoxudisanzhefenbuqingnanrennvren，nanshengyehuipengdaozaizheiyipituibuxinqideshiqi，xuduorenshuo：weiheyouneimeduodisanzhe?laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 wozongtingxuduowangminmadisanzhe，zeguaizheixieqianglelaogongderen：wobumingbai，weihetamenneimawuchi?tanqidisanzhe，yinweiwohuifangantamen，keshiwogenglianmintamen。

 worenweideyongzheileibufengcaidefangshidedaoganqingderenhenkeling，yinciwoduitamendelianminshengyufangan。dangnidelaogonggouhao、goushuai、gouchuse，huoxuhuiyouxuduonvxingxiaita。

 nibukeyizudangtarenlaixiai、shangxi，yizhiyulaiqiangzounidenanyou，canrendeshijijiushishuo，qingganyuanbenjiumeishenmexianlaihoudaodezhenzhi。

02

nibukeyizudangtarenduiniyouganjuenanyou，keshinilaogongnenggouzudangtarenbubilaixiaita。

 dangnijinriyaozeguaidisanzheqianglenilaogong，weishenmewobuzeguaizishenlaogongxinnianbujian、yongxiashensisuo?shuobuhaotingyidian，nandaoshuobieyiweininanyoushibeiqiangjiandema?

 bubizishenpianzijile，bubirenweitaduokelian，tashishouhairen，qitadisanzhequanshidushemengshou。shijishang，jiaodadenantiquanshizaitashoushang。nikeyiguaidisanzhe，nandaoshuotajinripiyigenihaiyaoguaiyige，pi2genihaiyaoguai2ge，quanshitarendecuo，nilaogongjiumeiyoucuoma?zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoqueshiyunyinghaolemei?

 womeiyicidouganjue，xuduoneishihouxuduonvxingxianghuzhijianrumazeguai，gaodequanqiudongluanshi，fancuowudenanshengfandaomeishiyishenqing，zheicaisuanshixiaode。yizhiyuxuduorenshidengdaisheizhenghuosheng，zaijianzhihaodejiuxing。

 liangzhezhijianyoushijianzaisisuoweihewenchongxiaikanshangshengjidan，haibibushangsisuoweihedanshangdaifengxi，zheiyifengxiyingdangruhebudeshang。conggenbenyuanyinshangchulidisanzheqinruzheiyinanti。

03

 wobuhuizeguaidisanzhe，budaibiaowojianrongtamen，budaibiaowojuededisanzhemeizuiyuanyibangtamenshuoshuohua。jinguanyixiedisanzheshixuyide，danyeshiyixiedisanzhequeshishishangdangshoupiande，renhuodehaohaodide，sheiyuanyidangdisanzhe?

zhishixiwangdahuoerzaiyiweizeguaitarendeneishihou，xianxiangzhe，jiujingjiaodadenantishizaisheishoushang。

 henduodangdisanzhehaidenghouyouyitianfuzhengderen，wozhiyouquangaozhuwei：niruhehuodeta，youyitianniyeyongdaoyiyangdefangfasangshita。zhenghuoshengyouzenyang?

 meimingmeifen，jibianzuichunshangshuoaibuaidoubuqizuoyong，jiarutaqueshiyouduoaini，weishenmelianmingyiyejibule?bubizishenpianzijile。

 zaihunyinshenghuolichuguinanrenjichudouxiangyoulaidaojiazhongjitamenchanshengdeyichu，youzenmehuisuibianyouyuyiduanlushuiqingyuanersheqijiazhong?yinxiaoshidadiushitianguadekuibenjiaoyi，sheihuizuo?disanzhewuxuqituzhuiqiuzhenqing，zhengshiyebuyongwangzifeibo。

 zaihunyinshenghuoliyudaolelaogongchugui，disanzhedecuanquan，zuixianhaiyaofangzhengxintaizhuangtai，hunyinshenghuobingbushisangerendeshier，shiliangrendeshier。zuixianyaozuodebingbushiqiannudisangerendisanzhechazu，zhishisikaoliangrendeguanlianshinaerchudecuo。

04

 conghuideniyidingyaohaijide，qianwanbuyao......qianwanbiezaigentamenxiajiaohele，bubizhengshengfu，yebubibugan，queshi!basixufangdaodisangerendeshoushangzhenshijiushishuoxuduguangyin。

 qingganzheihuishi，bingbushinijiaoweidui，tajiuyingdangjiaoweiaizheni，yebingbushitabudui，tajiulikuiyaoshouyini。tawaiyujiushishuowaiyule，jibiannimeifancuo，jieguodoushiyiyang。

 yincibubizeguaizishen，yebubizaibuduanrangzishenshenxianwuxianxunhuan：tamenheshigangkaishi?tashifouqueshiyidianyebushuoaiwole?

 chulecuolou，xiangruheguaidisanzhequanshiwushijiyiyi，meiyoujingjixiaoyideshier。cuozaoyizhucheng，jiexiaquruguobuyuansheqi，haiyaodongderuhebazheiyiduanfuqiguanxiyongzhihuixingladaozhenggui。

 baochiqingxing，zhengquerenshishiji，yeyouyidingyaobaozhengzishendezizunheqingdiao，niyeyouhendarenshengdaolu、yeyouniyongbaochiqingxingdenaoziquzhangquan。

 meishenmerenshifeiyaobuke，yemeiyoushenmeshiyidingyaoshunnideyi，renmenyaodongde，quanshijiejiushishuoyouxuduoshiershilaimolianrenmen、sunhairenmende，renmendexuedeshi，jibianpengdaoleneiyangdeshi，haiyaoqinfendezhanliqilai、yongganxiangqian，qingbiehuitouxunshi，jiqujiaoxun。

 yexuzheiyikeniyijingwangzifeibo，shouzuwucuo，keshiyaoshizhaoduifangshiyunying，disanzhedanshidoushiguowangyunyan，zhongyaojiushiniyoumuyougongzuonengliyunyinghaoliangrendeguanlian。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?