婚姻遭遇出轨是一件坏事吗?

老公出轨了 怎么办?许多人感觉，婚姻遭遇出轨是一件坏事。针对婚姻自身 而言的确是件坏事，但针对自我发展而言，不一定是件坏事。

应对爱人出轨，有二种处理方法：

yizhongshijijizhudongchuli，lirujijixunzhaohunyinzixun;laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

lingyizhongshixiaochenchuli，lirujingchangzhengzhi，jiatinglengbaoli，yizhiyuchugui。

 zaoyuchugui，xuduorenyinerminganduoyi，meitianchagang，yuzhangfuchaonao，fandaojiakuaibazishendezhangfutuidaotarendehuaili，zuihoulunluotarenyanzhongdeduanzi。

hunyinzhongzuifengxiandexintaizhuangtaishisha?

shijuede“lianggerendouburongyibian”。

jiusuannibuyuanzhuanbian，chixubaochigangwanhunshidemoyang，lingyifangyebuyidingniruoxiwangneiban。

youyuhunyinzishen jiushishuoyigebianhuadequanguocheng，tabudanhuibian，haijianghuiyizhaonizuidanyoudefangfaqubian。

youyuhunyinjubeirangrenchengzhangdezuoyong，erxuduorangrenchengzhangdeshierchangyouyigexiangtongdian——xianrangrentongchu。

kaixinhuirangrenxiangweichixiankuang，tongchucaihuiqushirengenggai。

yuanyicongyiduancaogaohunyinzhongchengzhang，guanjianhuanjiebuqujueyugenggaitaren，erzaizenmegaibianziji。

 jiaruhuaishichanshenghou，zongshixintouxiwanglingyifanggenggai，zishenquebuzuochuyiqiejijizhudonghelidetongyixingdong，neijianzhibaibaidezaozui。

zhideyitideshi，lianggerenhaijianghuizaizheijianshiqingpingfuhou，zaidufanhuiyiqiandeluguishang，daozhixindebuzhengque。

xuduorenwanhundemudi，shiyibiandidangfengxianxing，juedeliangrenyiqiyishizhuxing，zongpayigerenshenghuotashi。

 danxuduorenquehushimeilehunyinzishen zongyoufengxianxing，tayoushihouburongyiyizhaoyuguqianxing，yeburongyigaosudajiachulenantihougairuhezuo。

yingduihunyinjianghuicunyoudefengxianxing，chengzhangjianghuishiweiyideyingduifangshi。

zaoyuhunyinweijiyouzenyang，bawozaizishenshoushangderenshengdaolu，congbuhuibeitarensuoshangxia。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?