老公出轨了 怎么办?现如今,出轨好像早已变成极其普遍的事儿。那麼在婚姻生活中,是否说越极致的老公,越多不太可能出轨呢?实际上并要不然,通常出轨概率最多的,是这三种种类的男人。
一、“我可以心疼你,但对别人都一样”
zaihunyinshenghuozhong,qianqueziworentongdelaogong,tongchanghuikaizhanquanshenxindi“wuchangshi”xintengni,youyutamenzaiqingganzhong,xiguandangzuonulizhederenwujiaose,huibatarendeyuyuegan,doukanbizishenhaiguanjian。danzuigaikanzhongdeyidianshi,tamenduisuoyouren,doushicaiyongyiyangdexintai,duinidehao,haikeyigongxiangziyuanjisuoyouren,baohanquanbudenvxing。laogongchuguilezenmeban?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?
tamenburongyiyouyuzishenbianchengjihunnanxing,jiuchuangjianqiyuyixingpengyouchupengdehuxiangdaodedixian。dangpengdaobiaocengmingan,kanshangquchuchukeliandenvrenshi,fandaohuigengfeichangrongyijiqitamenxinlideweihuyu。ernanrenyidanrongjinlaiweihulingyifanghou,bianhuiyizhixianruzaiqizhong,tahuicuorenweidiguannian,neijiushizishenbunengtuituodeyiwu。
yigeqianqueziworentongdenanren,shijishangtashiquefaanquangande。tawangwangnengzaitongyishijiannei,fenbiemishangbuyiyangzhongleidenvren,youyutamenbixuyunyonglingyifangdeyaoqiu,laikaolvzishendeaimuxurong,weiciquedingzishenshibeibixude,congzheidangzhongdedaoshiyongjiazhigan。
qianqueziworentongdenanrenmen,rutongyigequefaanquangandecunyou。zaiqingganzhongyizhichuzaibeidongjinengdeqingkuang,burongyizaiyizishenyuanyinaxie,zongshiyiweizhaoliaotarendetihui。yinci,dangnidelaogongzaihunyinshenghuozhongyizhidangzuozhe“nulizhe”derenwujiaose,hebuduoguanzhulingyifangdexinlizhutihuodong,bingbangzhutadiaojiehaozishendexintaizhuangtai,yiqiweidajiazheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo“nuli”。
二、“用托词来遮掩,本身欠缺的使命感”
shuodaozheier,yaowoxiangdaolezaichensichengchuguishijianhou,youxuduodenvrenwenguoyiyangdenanti:weihetongliyaneimapiaoliang,chensichenghaihuichugui?youyuyigenanren,bingburongyiyouyuxifuzhangdeshibushipiaoliangerchugui,yeburongyiyouyujiatinghemushifouerchugui,tashihenanrenbenshenshimingganmiqiexiangguan。
qiuzhuzhezhenzhen(biming)jiushuneiyangdezhuangkuang。tagenlaogongqubaomingcanjiapenyouhunyanshi,tadelaogongduitazhuyaobiaoxiandeguanhuaibeizhi,zaidahuoeryanqianjinzhanzheyi,zaichangdepenyoudouxiangzhenzhenkanxiangxianmujidudemuguang。pingchangzhenzhenyuepenyouyongcanguangjiegouwudeneishihou,tadelaogongyehuiquanxianpeizheta,shuotashizuoweiyigelaogongdeyiwu。
danyuzhenzhenhaoxiedepenyoudoulejie,zhenzhenzaiyingduilaogongshi,daliangdeshiwukenaihe。youyuzhenzhenlaogongyifanhuijia,bianhui“dahuiyuanxing”。zaijialidelaogong,burongyibangzhenzhenfentanyiqiejiawu,meiyiciyaojiawulaodongyiqian,tadoushizhaotuocihuijue,lingyibianyoushuozhehaotinghuahongzhezhenzhen,quecongbuyongtongyixingdongshuomingtajiangchude“ai”。
zheileizhongleidenanren,tongchangaizhaotuocilaihuijuebenshendeyiwu,zongganjuezishenneiyangzuoshimeiyoucuode,zhibixuzaiwaibianzhuyaobiaoxiandechongzuchuse,juedeneiyangjiushishuoyige“haolaogong”derenwujiaosele,yetongchangyinernengxiyinzhudaodaliangdenvren。raneryoushiminggandenanren,huishikeweichizhegaokuanbidezikongnengli,genjuzizuolaiyueshulizishendeyantanjuzhi,fanguolaidi,tongchangmeiyoushiminggandenanren,caigengfeichangrongyichugui。
三、“之前没有钱,但如今有了钱”
dangyigenanrencongbaishouqijiachuangye,daoxianrujinguoshanghaorizishehuayishizhuxing,biaomingtadezichanyejiuyuelaiyuedaliangle。yiqianjushuoguoneimeyijuhua:“nanrenyouqianjiuhuidianjizhezenyangshoudaoyingxiang,doufeichangrongyinizaiyiduanshijianneichugui。”neimakeguanshishi,queshishineiyangdema?
daizhugezhongyilv,qushoujilesuoyoudeshilijilu,fajuequeshiyou87%denanren,shizaiyouqianhou,caitiaoxuanchuguide:zhiqianmeiqian,zhidianjizhezenmezhuanqian,rujinyouleqian,jiudianjizhenengkaolvzhiqiandechongdongle;youqianhou,chupengdaodenvrenyehenduole,fajueshenpangdelaopo,yuanyuandiburutamenyoufengcai;zhiqianjiazhongqiongshi,zaijialideyingxianglijiuhennuoruo,danzaiyouqianhou,yingxiangliqueyehuanshiyiyang,yincizhiyougenjuchuguilaichengxianzishendeyingxiangli……
zaichanshudegezhongyuanyinzhong,renmenfajuedangnanrenyuelaiyueyouqianertiaoxuanchuguide,daduoshudouyunanrendezikongnenglijiqijiazhongyingxianglicunyouzhejinmideguanlian。zheileinanrenzaijialiyingxiangliyibandouhennuoruo,meiyouyujudebawoquan。yincizhiyougenjuchugui,laikaolvbenshendechongdong。
danzheiyebingbushishuo,meiyinanrenzaiyuelaiyueyouqianyihoudoushichugui,zhenduinanrenchubuchuguizheiyinanti,zheihaidelunrenerding。zuoweilaopoderenmen,nengzuodejiushishuogenjunanrendegezhongxintaizhuangtaizhuanbian,laiduizishenkaizhananshideziwofansi;lingwai,yuzishendelaogongkaizhanbixudeanshigoutongjiaoliu,jinerbuduansikaozishendehunyinshenghuo。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?
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