丈夫有外遇怎么办，如何抵御第三者最有效?

老公出轨了 怎么办?在获知老公外遇的那一刻起，大部分媳妇们虽然了解一个巴掌拍不响这一大道理，但仍是会认为全是第三者的错，才让自己的时日被搅得一团糟。因此脑部出许多中对付第三者的方法，比如殴伤...但是这种作法产生的成效极有可能是老公的颜面扫地，对你更加恶感;第三者碰伤，你遭受综治的约束力，这就是你愿意的吗?

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一、老公外遇的要素

性时日不和睦。

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1.提高自身

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2. 容下和互相关心。

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3.塑造个人爱好。

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4.增加资金投入

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5.确立你的必须。

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