如何挽救出轨的丈夫 防止"暴力沟通"雷区

出轨的老公 怎么挽回?如何挽救变心的丈夫?实际上许多婚恋问题都来源于彼此中间的沟通难题，两人沟通不太好得话，会出現许多难题，要挽回老公得话，一定要防止"暴力沟通"雷区。

huijuehunyinshenghuozhongde“baoligoutong”，bixufufubicizuoshenme?laogongchuguizenmeban?chuguidelaogongzenmewanhui?

一、对另一方一些个人行为未满时，先别着急着指责。

 zhangfuwanhuijiale，huijiaxintaibugao，chongzhenidenantinideguanzhuyejiuhuijialeyiliangjujianyidehua，cikeniganjuetabuzhongshini，buzaiyini，nigangkaishimaole，gezhonggeyangzhizeta，yizhiyubawangridewangshidoufanguolaishuoyibian，suihouliangkouzidezhanshijiuyichujifa。shijishangninengduoyidianxixin，yongzhenxinshiyiheguanzhuquzhangwozhangfujiujingpengdaolenaxieshier，zheimoyangdezhangwonanti，yuanyuandibiyiyanbuhejiugangkaishizhizedaolaihaoxie。

二、表述自身的念头和体会时，得用对方法。

 fuqijianduilingyifangbiaodazishendeweimanshi，tongchanghuizaibiaoshudeneishihoujiaqiangdaibang，huoshimianlizangzhendeshuo，ranglingyifangganjuezishenderengeleixingzaoshoulewuru。biruzhangfumeichiniweitatiqianzhunbeidexiaoye，xiaoyefangleyigeyelidouhuaidiao，suihoulaopojiuyaoshuo：“woneimeleisileihuorangnizuodexiaoye，nijiushizheiyangshechilangfeidiao，pingchangyoukanbudaokuaijiwozuo，rujinzheimoyangshizaishuawoma?wozhihoudouburongyirangniganle!”neiyangdehuashuochulai，sheihuitingdeshushi?biaoshuzishendebulingrenmanyi，shiyuanyilingyifangtingjinnideniantou，ranglingyifanggenggai，keshizheileishuohuafangfa，sheiquanshimeifajienade，tongchanghaihuizaochengfuqizhijiande“shijiedazhan”。

三、实际上换一种溫柔一点的方法，沟通都是能够很溫柔的。

 jianshaoduilingyifangdegaoguiding，tishengduilingyifangdexixin，daziranjiuhuibaozhengwenroudefeibaoligoutongfangfa。biruzaizhangfuganjuetaileileermeiyouchinitiqianzhunbeidexiaoyedeneishihou，ninengneiyangshuo：“laogongnixinkule，zuotianwanshangworangnizuodexiaoyeruhechishaoni?doufangsunhuaileduokeshia。”zheimoyangdejiaofa，jibiaoshulenidetihui，doumeiyouranglingyifangganjuebushufu，neiyangdegoutongbingbushihenhaome?

ruhewanjiubianxindezhangfu?yaowanhuilaogongdehua，yidingyaofangzhi"baoligoutong"leiqu。laogongchuguizenmeban?