婚姻生活中的出轨男 劝你放过自己

出轨的老公 怎么挽回?为何我国就那么多婆媳之间难题?女人要是一完婚，就会同意的抛下自身的权利，把很多责任揽在手上，再加在的妈宝男那么多，当女人中间出現难题时，不想要去应对、去帮助。女人在旧社会婚姻生活里的所遭受的不公平，会续延到下一代，女人一直刁难女人。(这也是何必呢?)

 tashuorujinba，liulanyixiaquqishengzidenvsheng，houbuhouhuiquqishengzi?tamenyibanhuiyingquanshiburongyihouhuimojichanzi，keshiwanhunzheiyixuanzexiang，tamenxuduoquanshihouhuimojide。laogongchuguizenmeban?chuguidelaogongzenmewanhui?

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 zheileibuxing，huanshirenmende“nvyihao”menyibianliulei，yibianzishenxiechulai。yibianhaijiaoren：kuaitaolunyixia，woguoyaoyou duocan!

却忘记了，自身就是说拿着笔的人。

 youdanshennannvdenvshengjiandaohenduofenshijisutongchihunyinshenghuohuopopodegaozihou，ganjuetaibuzhenzheng、taikongbu(danneiquanshizhenshirenshenga)，ganjuehunqiankongjuzheng(youyuganjuezishendanshennannvguodetingbucuo，danxinjiehunhouyudaolebutaihaodegonggongpopohuomeiyouhunyinbushun)，wofanerganjue，shijishangniyaobubirangzishenhuodekuqing，quanshinenggouxuanzede。

丑话说前说，有自身的标准和界限

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踏入婚姻生活以前，還是先考虑好自身。

 xuduorangrenjinwoquantouhendeyayinfayangdechuguigushizhaoshudayuequanshi：yigenvrencongnianqingpiaoliangjindaojiazhongyihou，yibianjiazhongdengdaoliangbinbanbai，zhangfukanbushangjinerwaiyu。erzheiyikunvrenbazishenfangdaozuizhong，xunzhishuzuiduoquebubeiaixi。tashixiaogushilidezhaoshu，doushirichangshenghuozhonglvcichuxiandeqingjing。

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zuoyigezishenjiandaoyehuixiaidenvren，nikaixinle，nicaikeyidailaijiazhongkaixin。

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