那样做避免男人出轨 让一个男人死心踏地爱你一生

男人婚姻出轨 我该怎么办?一些女士会感觉，他们为这一家，为这一男人确实干了许多，但男人就是说不领情，他们不清楚男人心是否用大石头做的，为何自身干了那麼多，就是说感动不上男人呢?

 duia，nvrenchuwaigongzuozhongfanmangwan，yeyaohuijialezuoshangyiduijiawuhuo，zhaoliaoxiaohai，leidaojingpilijie，shijishangnvrenbixudeyehenshao，jiudengnanrenxiabanlehuijiale，jiandaoyiqiezhengliwentuo，daoyishengguanzhu，jiyigexiangyong。nanrenhunyinchuguiwogaizenmeban?zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?

 shubuzhirenmenquelianbushangneiyangdegandongganenhuikui，nanrentongchanghuijiajiushishuoyishengbuhangditanzaibuyishafashang，kanyixiajiucai，yiwanyouxi，yilianggexiaoshijiuyiwang。

queshimeishenmeshinenggandongnanrenma?tamendexinqueshibidashitouyingma?

 bingbushide。chengrannanrenbiaocengkanshangqudequeyoudianying，shubuzhinikaiqiletamendeqiaojiuhuifajue，libianneikexinshijishangshifenmianruan。

 haoxiangxuduohuazaipingchangdoubeitamenyayiganle，zheixieganxie、shangxi、aixi，tongtongbeitamenzangzaihenhoudelaonanrenqiaozixia，xiuyuranglingyifangjiandao。ruguoniqueshijiandaole，huishishifenlingrengandongdeshike。

“nanrenzuifeichangrongyibeinaxiegandong?”

xiabianweidahuoergongxiangyixiananrendexinsheng。

yijigandong：jienananrendefengfuxing

感动指数值：★★★

 xuduonvshizaiyouxiaohaihou，huibaoyuannanrenduixiaohaibufangzaixinshang，shuonanrentaobizeren。zheileitichupipingshijishangbushilejienanrendeshijiao。

 tamenbulejieshuqiannianlai，nanrendaziranhuibajizhongzhuyilifangdaogongzuoshang，tamenbingfeiyibianzhaoliaoxiaohaiercunyou。tamenquanxintouruzijintourugongzuo，shihenyiqiezhengchangde。

 jienananrendefengfuxingyebujinjinxianyuci。lirunanrenzaikaizhangoutongjiaoliushi，zongdianjizhejiejuekunnan，tamenxiantianxinghanyoujiejuekunnandegexingtezheng，yincinanrenyizhibuxiangyaohuashijianlailingting。

 nanrenzaipengdaokunnanshi，bingbushixiangnvrenneimaaibiaoshu，tamenxiaizhaogedongzuanru，zaisirenkongjianzhongjianjiandizhibinghehuifuqingxu。

jiarunvrennenggoujiena、lejiezheizhongfengfuxing，nanrenrongyibeigandong。

erjigandong：biaoshushangxi、xiexie

gandongzhishuzhi：★★★★

 zheiyidianduinanreneryanzhiguanzhongyao。youyunanrenzishendeshiyongjiazhidaoxiangxing，gengnengcongrenmendeshangxi、haowuyiwen、xiexiezhonghuodegandong。yongyouzheileiganenhuikui，tahuiganjuezishenzuozaihaodeshiyezuigai。

 dangtatihuidaozaizheiyiquanshijiexuduorenzheibanshangxita，tahuiduizishenmanhuaixiwang，lingwaiyehuiduizheiyishangxitaderen，aidegengjianongyu。

sanjigandong：wuchangdejianrong

gandongzhishuzhi：★★★★★

zainanrenzaodaoshibaishi，nvrenzaibianshangdejianrong，huitahuishifengandong。tahuiganjuedaozishenbeixinlai，beijianrong。

nijilita、jianrongta，jitamenshineikongjiantahuizaijiezaili。tahuiganjuezishenwuxingzhizhongchuxianxuduonengliang。

 zheileiyundongganlaiyuanyuyurenyurenzhijianzhenshiganqinglianjieshidexielixiaoyong。tabingbushiyizhongpengzhangdenengliang，tabingbushibeimangmugenfengxinlaierganjuezishenwurennengdidekonghuan。zhishineileibuguannizenyangzuo，wodoushizainipangbianjianrongnideshouhouganjue，jinizuoshierdeneishihoubuneimajiyuqiucheng。

 youyurenmenlejie，renmenbushiyigeren，renmenbuyongjiqiezainagezhenshijianxinniderendeyanqianquzhengmingcailiaonaxie。tatashishidexiangshourensheng，tihuiyuzheiyixinlainiderenganqinglianjiedexingfukuaile，neicaisuanshirenmenzuizuigaibeiaixidewupin。

sijigandong：jienarongxunanrendemingan

gandongzhishuzhi：★★★★★★

 shuqiannianlai，waibushouyuleguoduo‘nanrenyaoqiangjing’deguannian，yincizainanrenguannianli，tamenbukeyibiaoshuzishendemingan。jiusuanshiyanzangzishen、yangzhuangwanqiang、bayafensuilewangduliyan，zheicaisuanshiyigenanrengaiyoudeqingkuang。

 dandangtamenkuaibeigongzuoyaliyatashi，jiaruxuduorennengjiena、lejietamendemingan，wenrouguanaizhutamendexurongxin，nanrenqueshihuigandongdaowuyifujia。

 huoxuzheiyebuyi，youshihourenmenwuyijianzainanrenbiaoshuminganshi，guanxinlingyifangruodediqu。dandangnineiyang，jiuhuirangnanrenganjuexiuchigan。tamenhuiyishunjianguandiaoxinxian、jianqiyanshifangyuli。

 yifenzhenshidejiena，shiyineidaowaiganjuenanrenshiokde。zhenshidezuiqiangzhebingbushizhinengjianying，zhenshidezuiqiangzheshifengfuduocaide。yongyugongxiangzishenminganderen，caisuanshizhenshidezuiqiangzhe。

 neijiarunvrennengjinanrenneiyangdeganjue，nanrenbudanhuigandonggenghuiduinvrenzaochengzunjing。yuangushi，zheiyifenjienaganghaozhuyaobiaoxianchunvrenduinanrendezhimingdu。

 nvrenyixizhiganqing，jidaonanrenlejiehebanantizhengchanghua，zheiduinanrendeqingxushiyoujidafuweigongxiaode。nvrenhuijiaohuinanrenzenyangmianruanchulai，ernanrencishidegandonggengshitaganshoudao，nvrenshixiezhutahuanjieyalide，erbingbushijitamentishenggongzuoyalide。

 huoxunenggourangnanrengandongdediquyeyouxuduo，liru，zaiwaibiangujitadeqingmian;kaolvtadeyixiexinyuan;duitachongzudexinlai;tianbuyixietaershidewaishang;jiyutayishizhuxingshangbushanyudediquyixiejianrong;guanhuaitadeqinren、zunzhongtadepenyou;zaigerenaihaoshangjiyutayixieshineikongjianhesuiyi，zheizhongdounengrangnanrenganjuegandong。

erxiaojieqilai，nvrenzaochengsangegongxiaodeneishihou，zuirangnanrengandong。

 1. nvrennenggouzishenjiejuejuedaduoshudeqingxu，bubazishendeqingxuqiangyazainanrendeshoushang，bujinanrenjushu，jinanrenxuduorendebenxingdeshineikongjian。

2. dangnanrenpiqibaozaoshi，nvrenkeyijinanrendiaozhengqingxudejianrong，nenggourangnanrencongciwaidejiaoduqukankanzheiyishier。

3. nenggouhenanrenfazhanqushiyixiehezuofangan，ranglianggerenxunzhaoquanyixiangtongdian，yiqiyingduinanti、jiejuekunnan。

lingwainvrenyeyouliugerenwujiaose，huirangnanrenshifengandong。

1.抚慰者

 keyizailingyifangyouqingxudeneishihou，jiyulejiehejianrong。keyilingyifangdeqingxuzhengchanghua、pubianhua，ranglingyifangzaiyifenbeijianrongdeganjuezhong，changkuaichengxianzishendebenzhi。

 (lieju：duia，haowuyiwenhuibenkuia，niyoubingbushishen?neimeduogongzuozhongdourangniyigeren，gongzuoyalihaowuyiwenfeichangdaba?)

2.观测者

 youzhetiaochulaidegongzuonengli。zaigoutongjiaoliulinengtiaochulaizishenguanchalingyifang，lingwaiyekeyongjiaoselaitishilingyifangzhenzhengbiaoshu、zhenxinshiyiyuji。

(lieju：niganggangshengxiangyixiazibianda，shifouwojiangguonaxiejininanshoule?)

3.干涉者

 nengkeguandezaichuxiannantideneishihoujiyuyidingzhengqueyindao，qiesongqiezhuaderanglingyifangganjuejibeilejie，lingwaiyouyizhiyuyixiazisuimengliedeqingxuershiling。

(lieju：rujinqingxuneimemingxian，renmennengbunengtingyiting?huoxulveweihuanyihuan，renmenzaixiangruhejiejuekunnanhuihaoyidian。)

4.守护者

 duizishenyoujiangjie，guanailingyifangdelingwaiyebuxuzishenpengshang。ganghaozheileitiaozhannanrendeganjue，huirangnanrenganjuenvrendecunyouhenengliang。lingwaizheihaikeyijinanrenzuoyigeshifanxing，rangtamenwuxutaiguoxunzhizishen。

 (lieju：wozhidaoniqingxubutaihao，dannineiyangshuowowoyehuipengshang。baoqian，xianzaiwobixufuweiyixiazijideqingxule，nihaohaodizhaoliaoniyaozishen。)

5.探索者

 zainanrenrongxudeqiantitiaojianxia，nenggouxiezhuzhengqueyindaonanrentanxunchuqingxushenhoudeguannianhebixu。zheileiganqingshangdezhengli，ganghaoshinanrenaitaishanyude。

 (lieju：duia，neimeduoshieryazhezandoutoubuguoqile，kedouneiyangleniquehaijianchibuxieyaozuo。zenmehuishi?niparangtamenxinhanma?huanshi……qitashishenmeyuanyin?)

6.合作方

 jiazhongzhongdeyixieshi，nenggouxiezhunanrenfentan。rangnanrenganjuedaobugudu，ganjuedaoxuduorenshouhoutaxianghuyingduizheizhongshier。zheiyifenshentilixingdejianrong，yehuilingnanrenshifengandong。

 (lieju：xiaohaiyoubujinjiushinide，wojiushitamendemuqin，nizheilichoubushangshijianneimewojiuduodanfuyidianer，zheimeishierde。zhangfu，jilao～zheiyijiashiwomenliangde，nimeibixunaxieshierdouzishenkangxialai。)

 jiarunvrennengbaochizuoyousangegongxiaohegaohaozheiliugerenwujiaosedehua，nanrenyidinghuishifenshifengandongde!tamenbingbushilengkudexiaodongwu，dangtamenzheizhongguanjiandexintaizhuangtaibixudouhuodelekaolv，tamenjiusuanbuyongshuo，xinliyebidinghuiliudangzheduiniwuxiandeaiyide。

neirenmendexintaizhuangtaibixu，yezhibuguoshizheierzhong：

1.ganxingdefuwei，zhenduirenmenderentong。

2.fuxingdeshijiao，zhenduiquanqiudeguandian。

renkehetiaozhan，shizhongshirenmenxinlibixudejidazhicheng。

 dangnvrenkeyilizainanrenshenbian，jidaonanrenneiyangzhichengdeganjuedeneishihou，nanrenbudangandong，yegengjianghuixiangdajixueyiyangde，qinfenbianchenggengqiangde、duideqixihuannide——ta。zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?