出轨婚姻 就该多做些无用功

男人婚姻出轨 我该怎么办?“情感问题无数种，但却沒有处理的统一方式。婚姻不可以招数，幸福快乐必须理解。认真比脑力劳动更专心致志，家才算是一切的归处。”一段情感中，彼此产生分歧，婚姻僵持，缘故大部分是一个喜爱谈爱，一个却爱讲道理。

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婚姻嘛，就该多做些无用功

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