为何出轨的就是你，勤奋挽救的确是我?

男人婚姻出轨 我该怎么办?有许多遭遇出轨难题的来访者都是有那么一个疑虑，以至于能够说成未满，“为何出轨的是另一方，而努力勤奋挽救的确是自身呢!?”

 shijishanghunyinxingfukuaile，jiazhongxingfushimeiyihunyinnanrennvrendelixiang。nanrenhunyinchuguiwogaizenmeban?zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?

 danrichangshenghuozhong，yinweijiazhiguannian、renshengguandebuyiyang，xianghuwenhuayishu、xingqing、shenghuofangshidechabie，hunyinmaodun、jiatingjiufenwukebimian，erzheiyijingjifazhandeshehuifazhanyoutianmanleyinyou，gengtishenglehunyindeweiji。

xuduorenjuedechuguishidaozhihunyinweijidejiaodazuikuihuoshou，shijishang，zhenshiweihaihunyindetongchangshichuguishenhoudeyuangu。

 fufuhuxiangzhongshishihunyindejibenyaosu，chuguishiduihunyinguanxidetiaozhanhesunhuai，danchuguidechanshengbingbushiyiweizhefuqiguanxideliekaihehunyinguanxidejieshu。

 zhangfuchuguiduiyiqienvshiquanshibijiaoyanzhongdecijizuoyongexingshijian，zenyangyingdui，jianrenjianzhi，dandoubixubaorong、rangbuhezhihuixing。

chuguidagaifensanzhongzhuangkuang：

diyizhongshihunneichuguiweiman，xunzhaohunwaiqingpeichang;

dierzhongyaoyisunhuaihunyinweimudideebianchugui;

disanzhongshitianxinglanqing、qianquezishenjianguangongzuonengli。

chuguijiushishuoyigeshujuxinhao，tatixingnihunyinshengbingle，jiurugaoshaoshishentibingzhengdeshujuxinhaoyiyang。

zhinengtansuochuguishenhoudeyuangu，zhenzhengzuodaoxiubuhunyin，bingbimianxiangjindexiaogushifasheng。

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chuguiqueshishitadenantima?

 yixieneishihouhelaifangzhequtantao，jiujingshitaxianchudegui，huanshiliangrendehunyinguanxixianzaochenglemeibian，zheihaoxiangyuxianyoujihuanshixianyoudanyiyang，shiyigewujiedewenti。

 keshixianeryijian，yigebazhangpaibuxiang，zairenmenchupengdeshiduowanqimeibianhunyinzhizhong，zhengshilaopozailaogongchuguidegerenxingweizhongyejuyoulebibukeshaodetuidonggongxiao。

duile，zhenshizaochengtachuguide，jianghuigengshizheishihoujiqitongchudeni。

hunyinchulenanti，yiwutongchangmeiyouyifang，huanjuhuashuojiushishuolingyifangchuguiyeshinideyiwu。

 neiyangshuozhenduipengshangdenijianghuihuiganjuebuheli，dannizhinengxuehuifangxiashouhairenxintaizhuangtai，sikao、ziwofansibenshen，caikeyikeguanxingdemianduibingjijiangchulihunyinzhongcunzaidebuzu，caikeyifangzhengxintaizhuangtai，bayanbiandeweijibianchengchengcaidetupokou。

zheihaiyaobaozheng，jibubazishendangzuoshouhairen，yejiububijiangtashizuozhaoshifangquchize、maiyuan。

huoxu，ninengtanbainidenanguohebushufu，bingyanzhengdiguidingtajinzaowanbihunwailian。

shubuzhi，shierdeshiqingshitabutaikenengshuoduanhuiduan，haijianghuihuimomocengcengyiduanshijian。

 ruguonilejietaweifanduinidechengnuo，ganyuanzaidumengpian、sunhainihou，nideaihuigengtong、gengshiluo，yizhiyuhuiganjuetafenhaobuaizheni、xintengni。

jinguantaneiyangzuohuijinijuedetahencanku、wufazaixinlai，danyiduanganqingguanliandewanbikeguanxingshangeryanshibixushijiande。

zheiyineishihounijianghuiyaoshuo，“woshiyigeren，bingbushishen，weihefancuowudeshita，qinfendequeshiwo?”

keshinikeyicengxiangguoyiqianaidereqing，yuanmanfazhanqushiguodeqinggan，yizhiyubiyishengqiuzhibudedewupingengweizhengui。

nenggoushuo，zheijibenshangshiwufageshede，yincishiqingshijishangshi：“wanhuiaiqing”zheijianshiqing，nimeifajienabuchenggong。

ershijidezulanyunideguidingchanshenglefenqi，errujinjiniyigejiyu，nenggoujinichulizheiyikanqilaiwujiedenandian。

yaoshitayiqianshenainineimeduo，nizongyoufangfatahuifanhuineileilianaideqingkuangzhonglai。

 ruguoniyaomanhuaixinxindigaozhizishen，yikaohunyinweiji，xiubulehunyinzhongcunzaidebuzuhou，dajiazhongjianyidingnenggoufujianxinlai，xianghuhuigengaixi，jianglaihuigengxingfukuaile。zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?