厄运降临——婚外恋怎么办

 dahuoerzhenduihunneichuguigusuanburongyishengshu，youyuzheishizhongshigeredianhuati，zaizheiyixinfuqizaodeshiqi，renmengairuhekefuzishen，dang hunwailian jianglindaorenmenshoushangshi，renmenyouzaban。duiyuhunwailianzenmeban，gaizenyangjiejuedenanti，wangbianrujinjiujidajiashuo。

一、婚外恋怎么办

 hunwailianzenmeban，gaizenyangjiejueni？zuoweinanshengdeyaolejie，hunwailiandezheiweinvrenqueshinengpeizheniguohoubanshengma？shitanianqing，haokanhuoshiwenrouquezhongjiushilimiandecongcongguoke。ninengweineime1genvrenpaojiasheyema？houzhongdeshehuidaodeyujingjifazhanfuchudaijiadeshenhou，jieguoshitianmeidema？neimajiujinghunwailianzenmebangaizenyangjiejueni？

 zuoweinvrendeyaogaoqingchu，chuxianyiwaichuxiandeneirenbingbushinide。wuluntashibushibinizheiweifuyou，yougediao，mingbaitiexin，danshizheiyirenzhennengjinifangqirenheguohoubanshengma？yaobushi，qingsheqi。nidefuchudaijiabinanshenggengda，meiyoulexiaohai，meiyoufangwu，meiyouyingxiangli，renherendoushibiqini，baohanzishen。

 danghunwailianchuxian，bubixianzeguai。xianxiangzhehunyinshenghuochudenanti，ruhejiejue。yaoyijuelieweijieguo，huanshizaizheixiejihunyinshenghuo1gejiyu。zhongjiujiushishuomeiyouqinggan，zhengzhongjianyeyouxiaohai、fangwu、piaozihe2gejiazhong。

 dangchuguinanren，zuonvrendebubibaotiaoruleidizhaoqingren。neiyangbulixingdegerenxingwei，jirenyizhongkebei。youyuneiyangsuanshiqueshirenrang。tarenyaoshuonimeiyougongzuonenglibawozhuzishendelaogong。gengyoumouxienvrenbaneiyangdeshitongdaoxinwenmeiti。niyaoguomeiyou，zaidajiayanqian，dajiawuchi，danzhiernvyuhechu。>> nulineimeduoweishenmetazheibanjueqing?ganqingquezhennengfouwanliu

 nvrenhunwailian，zuonanshengdebubirenweiyongdahuoshiduifufangfanengjiejuekunnan。youyuzheibingbushijiejuenvrenhunwailiande1gehaodefangfa。jieguoshiyuelaiyueyuan。neiyangzuoshibazishendeqiziyinxiangtarendehuaili。haohaodixiangzhehepingjiejuefangfa，zhongjiunvrenguanianbinanshengdeyaoduo。

二、婚外恋的弊端

1、renhedouhuiguirufawei，zuihouhuanshiananwenwen。

 wojuedehunwailianjiushishuo2gejimoderen，zaishidangdeziranhuanjing，shihedeqifen，ganjuerenheyeshineimadaziranshiliangrenzoulaidaoyikuaier。youyouyureqing、yinyouermilianzaiqizhong，bunengziba。dandangxianghudeshenmiganzhihou，fajueshijihuanshineihuishi，meileneileishuobailedejuede，zheiyiduanqingganyouhuixiaotui，xianghufanhuifenbiedejiazhong，birushuoyemeichanshengguoxiangtongdeshenghuo。huoxutashidejieju，jiushinimingtaihao，jiaporenwanghuoxujiuzaiyishunjian。

2、jiazhongliekai，chanshengkanrenbuxing。

 huoxudajiameiyousangshizheifenshenmigan，shizhongsichanzaiqizhong，yibianxiangyouneixinheroushendekuaile，zaizishenyuanbenjiazhongzhong，sheqi1geqizihuolaogongdegangweizhize，zhaoxunrenhedejihuirangxianghuduliyiqi。kenidezhixiqinshubingbushierlengzi。zuihoufuqiganqingpolie，renhedouganbujibiaoshu，yejiushishuorenhedouwuxubiaoshu，buguanzenyangcuodequanshini。qiziyinweiainitiaolouzisha、chibuxiaoquruliyi。laogongchengshoubushangdailvmao，youyuqifenerkanren，neiyangdeshilishubushengshu，errenmenhaiyaoyiciyouyiciyicuozaicuo。

3、rencailiangkong，zhongshengbuketuolikuhai。

 jiarushidanfangdehunwailian，lingyifangbuyuanjiniersheqizishenyuanxiandejiazhong，yexuyouaita（ta）aidesixintadi，burenxinsheqi。neimenijiushishuodisanzheerle，shizhongmeiyoumingyi，jishiweitayongyouxiaohai，huanshiyaomomoliuleidezishenshenghuoxialai，ertayejinjinxiangyuanxianxiangtongyoushihouchuxian，dannibixudeshineifencijixingma？shazi

 jiaruxianghuchangyoujiazhong，anfahoulingyifangliyi，erduifangquetiaoxuanlezaicitamendehunyinshenghuo，liyidezongshishirencailiangkong，zhuihuimoji。dantiaoxuanzaicihunyinshenghuodelingyifang，fufuxinlihaowuyiwenshihuiliuyouwufaquanyudeheiying，bidinghuijitazhihoudeyiqiezhengchangshenghuozhongxiaanquanyinhuan。