出轨能被原谅吗：出轨该不该被原谅

 xuduorenxunwendao：“waiyuyouxuduoyuangu，youneimebunengkuanrongma?”waiyushizishenzhuguanxingguannianquzuodeshi，zhaobudaoyuanbukuanrong，zhinengguoduanbukeyikuanrong!xuduorenxunwendao：“tabushiguyide，huoxujinjinyihuichuxianyiwai?”neimanijushuoguomeiyouturangceng，huanengzishenshengzhangfayuma? ☞chugui nengbeiyuanliangma?chuguigaibugaibeiyuanliang?

一、出轨能被原谅吗：出轨该不该被原谅

 chuguinengbeiyuanliangma?chuguigaibugaibeiyuanliang?xuduorenwen：“tadegongzuohenqudechenggong，takanshangquhenmei。youderenshizishenpushanglaide。”neimatarenpushanglai，jiuyingdangjinxingshoubeisuojieshouma?jiarufalvfaguishiyechenggongmeiruotianxianjiuyingdangwaiyu，neimabierenshigaikaixinhuanshigaiku?

1.暖味

 shizheizhongyouyidefanzuixintai。zaizheiyihuanjie，tawangwangbingbushiwaiyu，zhishiyouyudouhaimeishihedejihui。jinguantabuzuchengwaiyu，danzainiwaiyushihoutishengmanzuganhemanzugan。

2.幽会

 tashizheizhonghenduodetoudao，chuixiantarende“caifu”，lejietashibufade，danjiarujiaoxingxintai，zongshizaochengnizishenpeilefurenyouzhebing。

3.发生关系

 chuguinengbeiyuanliangma?chuguigaibugaibeiyuanliang?zheishiziyinmanxingduyao，wuxingzhongde“tulu”。sunhaiaidenanrenbingcuoguolebierenqingchunnianshaoderen，zheileizuijiudeyizaiguanlianzhong。

4.全部外遇全是长期性方案的

 youzhongjiaofa：“quanbudewaiyuquanshizheixiangzhangqixingfangan。”shijishang，yiyangdedadaoli，meirenhuizaiwaiyuqian1miaocaiquxiangwaiyudeshi。

5.全部的叛变全是冲动

panbiandeyuanguyouxuduo，dankanzuojizhong：huaxuewuzhi，shenglixuehejingshenshizhi。

 xuduorenshuopinjianfuqibaishiai。tamenqidaigenjupanbianlaitianbutamendehuaxuewuzhiyaoqiu，fuqishenghuodebuhemuhuobicixingxiyinzhudeyouhuolizaochengbunengmanzuwaibudebixu;lengdan，dichenhejiqingxiaosan，quanshijingshenshizhishangdechaimo，bansuiwaiyuercheng。

 shijishang，youxiaogoutong，ziwofansihehuanweisikaodabufennenggoupingfuganqingguanliandeliefeng;erzheixietiaoxuanwaiyuderen，dabufenrendouqidaigenjuzishenjuededezuihelihezuibianjiedefangfa，hulvebierendetongchu，daonianshehuidaodelailirunhuazishendequanyi。

6.全部的外遇全是寻找自我

 liangrencongdaxueshidaizhuiruqingwangwanhun。shubuzhi，yinweinanhaizidezhiyefazhanguishuyuhoujierbofadegongzuoneirong，changchanghunyinqianqichangyoubunengmanzuwuzhitiaojiandezhuangkuang。yiner，nvshengchangchangmaiyuan，cushinanhaizimeifazaierzhexianghuguanxizhonghuodeziworentong，zuizhongtiaoxuanliyi。suihouzhaodaoyigebizishenxiao6suidenvshengerhunle。

 shijishang，xuduoneishihouhuxiangxiyinzhudeshixunzhaoyuzishenleisihuoyulingyirenyoutongyangyaoqiuderen。rendetiaoxuanyibanbiaodazheiyirendaomouzhongchengdushangtixianleniduizishendehaowuyiwenheshiyongjiazhi。

7.全部外遇全是“成瘾”

chuguinengbeiyuanliangma?chuguigaibugaibeiyuanliang?youjijuminjianyanyu：gougaibule。

 yigexintaiguochengxiguanxing，xiguanyangchenghesiweixiguanmeibanfabuzaiqinshenjinglijiannanxianzudezhuangkuangxiagenggai。buguanjiniduohao，qingbazishenzuoweiyigeguanlianzhongdepingchangren。nimeiyoubibierendaliangde“duteka”。bubijiangnideqingchunnianshaoshechilangfeizaiyituoshishoushang，youyutabuzhi。

 zuoweiyigelianren，kongzhibulezishendexiashenjiubingbushiyigejigedelianren。jiaruzhengzhishiliangrendexintaibingduganran，waiyujiushishuoliangrendeganqingaizheng。dangxintaifenqishenggaodaobutaikenengdiaochudeshuipingshi，weihebingbushizhongshilingyifang，jixianghuliuchuyidianerkongjian，suihoucongtoukaishi，zhishiyaotiaoxuanwaiyuni?