应对婚外恋怎么办，人们咋办?

 hunwailian zenmeban?congzongtishang，yingduihunwailianyaoliuyijinshen，neirenmenzenmeyangcainengjiejuehunwailian?zuixianjinliangbuyaodianpo、zuomouxietishengqinggandegerenxingwei、jianquanbenshen，huanjuhuashuojinliangdejiuzhenggerenquedian。hunwailianbukeyijianyidiyuanlingyifangguanbulezishen，bukeyijianyidishuolingyifangjinbuzhuyinyou，yejiushishuolingyifangrenpinwentizheixie。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrendenanti，bingbushibujindeyiwu，jiaruniyaowanliu，daliangdeshiyibenshendeshijiaoqinfen。yijuzhangqixingdegongzuojingyan，xiaobianduihunwailiankaizhanlemouxieguilei，bingduiyubuyiyangleixingtiyijian。

 yi、jianyixing。zheileihunwailiantongchangshiqingganrengrancunyou，jianghuiyinweizuijindemouxienanti，zaochenglemoulingyifangdehunhouchugui。zhenduizheileihunwailian，qiwanliudenanduxishujiaodi。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?hunwailianzenmeban?ruguobushidianpo，zheileiqingkuangdefuhexingnanduxishuhuigengxiao。danshizheizhongqingkuangxiabixujinzaosikaoyuwanshanziwo，youyusuizhishijianzhuanbianjianghuihuizaochengmouxiebianhua。

 jiarudianpole，nanduxishuhuitishengxuduo，dengyuzaoyisipolianpi，cikeyaojinshen，youyuhenjianghuizaochengjinshengdeqingyifuzhidongliu，jiranqinggancunyou，dannantiyouzaoyidianpo，shidefangfashikeyixianghujingxialai，liangrenzuozhelaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliuyixiaxia，jiarubuqingchuruheyouxiaogoutongshi，tiyixunzhaojishuzhuanyehunlianjiaoyouxinlizixunshijutizhidao。yingduihunwailian，renmenzaban?-jiejuehunwailian

 er、fuzaxing。zheileihunwailianwangwangbeichengzuofuzaxing，youyuxianghuyinweizhangqixingqianquegoutongjiaoliu，benzhibuqingchulingyifangjiehunhoudeshier、niantouhuoganqingdeng。

 fuzaxingdejiaodajiannanqujueyunihuranfajuehetahenshengshu，buqingchudaodicaiyongnaxietongyixingdonghao，jibianshizixunguwen，yezhiyoucaiyongmouxieshitanxingdefangshi ，xianzhangwolingyifangdaodishiruhexiangde，youyushishenmeyuanyinzaochenglehunwailiandeng。

 zheizhongqingkuangjiarumeidianpohaixing，yeyoushijianjianjiandigaijin，jianjiandikankan，jianjiandizhuyaobiaoxian;keruguodianpo，jianghuilianzhangwodejiyuyemeiyoule。fuzaxingdehunwailian，keyiyoujishuzhuanyehunlianjiaoyouxinlizixunshijutizhidao，feichangshizaoyidianpode，zheileiqingkuangxiajiaruzishenhuganmangan，kenenghuizhishigengbijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。

 san、jiannanxing。zheileihunwailiantongchangshilingyifangduizishenzaoyichedimeileqinggan，jianghuishiyinweisunhaiguoshen，yejianghuishibianxin，huoshiqitanaxie。duiyuzheileinanti，dianposhifoudechabiebingfeitingda，tongchangduojianyuxinlainanti、zhongshinanti、waidinantideng。youguanjiannanxinghunwailiandefuhexing，qinanduxishushifenda，bujinyouyuqingganmeile，haijianghuishixianghujiandeqinshenjinglitaiguotongchu，xianghuyuanhenguoda，fuhexingzhongtongchangchangchanghuiyuanyisheqi，naizhikuaifuhexingshiyouganjuezishenfeichangbiequ，jianglingyifangtongmayidun，suihouyouhouhuimojile，xiangzaidufuhexing。

 si、wukenaihexing。zheileihunwailianranghunlianjiaoyouxinlizixunshidoufeichangwukenaihe。liangrenxianghuqinggandouzaoyibushen，bicibabamamadoubuzantong，yingduiwaidihuoshibiedezhongduonanti，naizhizaoyiliyi。

 zheizhongqingkuangtongchangquanshilingyifangbugan，huoshituranmouyitianchajuehaimeiyouxuehuifangxia，caijuecefuhexing。jiandingbuyi、quexin、jianchibuxie，zhei3dianzaifuhexingzhongshifenguanjian，danwukenaihexingdehunwailiantongchangshibenzhimeifazuodaofuhexingdaoshangdejiandingbuyi，meifazuodaoquexinzixunguwendejutizhidao，meifazuodaojixuxiaqububaoyuan。