婚外恋怎么办？该怎样摆脱婚外恋窘境？

 hunwailian zenmeban?henduorendoushiqidaikeyizouchuqude，danshifangshi cuowu，zuizhongbunengziba，huanshanggejiaporenwangdexiachang。jinrirenmenjidahuoerzongdelaishuozenyangbaituohunwailiandejiongjingdefangshi ，qidaizhenduichuzaihunwailiandeninaozhongdeninengyouxiezhu，lingwaiyeduizheixieduihunwailianannaibuzhudejinigegaojie。

1、要宣传材料终归包不了火

 zenmefangdisanzhe?xuduoxianzaihunwailiandenanrenhemeinv，doushizhongdaofuzhedeshuo：renmendeqingganjinjinrenmenliangrenzhongjiandeshi，renmen2gequanshiganxinqingyuande，renmen2gesheiyebuyongshuochulai，neibansheidoubuqingchule。

 huoshiyoudenanren，duishenpangdepengyouhuoshibiededenvxinghenyouhaogandu，suihouchangchangyikuaieryongcan，kandianshiju，jiushishuomeiyouxingxingwei，neiyangdenanrenjihenbuxiaxinposanzishendejiazhong，youhenbuxiaxinhuijuewaibiandenagexinxinxiangyindenvren，feichangshidangneinvrennaxieguidingyemeiyou，zhiqidailiangrenkeyizaiyiqijiuhao。

 zheishihounanrenhuidanxin：zishenzaban?jiarujianchixiaqu，huoxuzishenhuiyulaiyuxiguanxingwaibianneinvren，yulaiyubukehuoqueneinvren。hunwailianzenmeban?zishenyebenzhibuyuangenzishenrujindelaopoquliyi，zhongjiuzishenzongsuancoule1gexiangxidejia，shenghuoburuyi。keshibujianchixiaqu，zishenyehenbuxiaxin，neiyanghaode1gezhiji，queshidanyoucuoguojiuhennanyubushangle。

 zaizuoxintaifudaozhong，douhuipengdaoxiangjinneiyangdezike，tamendanxin，tamenyuyuxiongzhangdouxiangjiangu。lingwaiyegaoqingchuzuihouhuoxuhuiquandoushiqu。zhenduineiyangdeguanlian，wotongchanghuilijiduixianruzaiqizhongderenshuojiju：zhizhongguibaobulehuo。

 jinguandadaolihuoxudahuoerdougaoqingchu，keshiwohaihuizaisanshengmingzheiyikeguanshishi：zhizhongguibaobulehuo。bubiyouyiqiexincunjiaoxing。jiarurenmenkeyiduandiaozishenxincunjiaoxingzheiyinianxiang，wojuederenmendaduoshuhunwailianderendoulejiezishengairuhequbaituohunwailiande。gaizenyangbaituohunwailianjiongjing-jiejuehunwailian

2、要彻底消除潜在性的引诱

 yiqianzaizixunquanguochengzhong，pengdaoguoneiyang1geshili。yougeshiyejia，zishenkaiguo1gexiaoqiye，suihouqiyeyouyigezhigongduizishenhenjiji，zishenyejianjiandidexiaishangzheiyizhigong。zhihoutamenchangchangyikuaieryouhui。zaizhihoutamenliangrenzhongjianyejianjiandibaguanlianjitiaomingle，tamenjiushishuoxianghuxiai。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?zheiyishiyejiazishenyouqishi，xifudoushiyimingshiyejia，haiziyezaoyidudaxuele，tashibutaikenengpaoxiazheiyijiade。danshineiyangzaicihenageyuangongxialai，zishenzhenpachengshoubuleyinyou，natianhuichushashi。keshizishenyouhenbuxiaxinbaneiweizhigongjicile。

 zhongjiuzishenshi1gelaonanren，bierenshiyimingruonvzi，lijiduolebierencunhuodeciwan，neiyangtaibuhoudao。genghekuanglingyifanghuanshiyimingaizhezishendenvxing，zishenyexiaizhelingyifang，jishimeiyouxiaideguanliandoubuyingdangxiahenshoubierengongzuozhongjiduole，genghekuangyeyouxiaideguanlian。

 haijideneishihouzheiweinanrendeshenseshitongkuerdanxinde。keshiyingduineiyangdejingyu，jiaruqueshibazishen1gexiangxidejiafangdaoshouweidebuweidehua，zheiyinvxingwubidejueqingdecitui。dangduanbuduan，bishouqiluan。yongzheili，jianzhitaihaolele。jiaruyouyuliangzhiguoyibuqu，henbuxiaxinbazheiyiqianzaixingdeyinyoujichedixiaochudehua，houbianbidinghuidebuchangshi。

 jingxiaxinlaixiangzhe，shenmejiaoduizisheneryanzuiweiguanjiande，huoxu2gedouhenguanjian，keshitangruobixudeyaoyougeyusiwangpodehua，renmenwubideyaozuo1gequshe。jinguanzuochuqushedequanguochenghentongchu，guoqurenmenyehuixinbugan，keshirenmenyaoxuehaoqujiandaozishenyouzhede，haiyaoxuehaoquaixizishenyouzhede。

 yincizaihunwailianguanlianzhong，jiarurenmenqueshixiangbaituohunwailiandewoxuan，renmenwubideduizishenzaoyizishenxiaidemouyirenhenyidianer，yaochedixiaochuzheiyiqianzaixingdeyinyou。yinyoudoushizaochenghunwailiandeyuanguqiyi，bingqieshi1genanti，youyuyinyouzheiwupinyoushizishencaozongbulezishendexin，shihennengzouchuqude。

3、学好给自己的挑选承担

 richangshenghuodouhuiyouneibanyibangren，zhiqidaixiangyouzhipeiquanerbuxiangyaoxingshiquanli。yezonghuiyouneimamouxieren，zhixiangyaohuodeerbuxiangyaonuli。jiarurenmenzaiqingganli，zhixiaixiangyou，erhushiqifuchudaijia，zuihourenmenbidinghuinuligengweihouzhongdefuchudaijia。zaiyingduihunwailiandoushi，jiarurenmenzhixiangyaoquxiangyoureqingrangwomenchanshengdekaixin，eryiwangdiaoduiyuzheiyihunwailianderenjiqizishendejiazhonggaifudeyiwu。zuoweichengrenderenmen，yaoxuehaojizijidetiaoxuanchengdan。renmenwubixuehaoqingxidejieshouxianshi。

 jiarurenmentiaoxuangenwaibianzheiyirenzaiciyiqi，renmenhuoxuhuiganshouzheifenreqingyuzhuguanyiduandetianmei。lingwairenmenyejianghuisangshiyuanbenzaoyiyouzhedemouxiewupin。