怎样踢走婚姻道上的“拦路虎”?我该怎么办

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 bixuyaozuomulang。nvxingshoushangyouzhongxiantianxingdemuqindeai，zhenduizishendelaogong，nvxingyoushinaizhihaihuibatayezuoweizishendexiaohai。wogaizenmeban?dangyingduichuxiandisanzheer，zishendelaogongyaobeiduozoudezhuangkuangshi，weidademuaihuirangnvxingchuxianerzhongtiaoxuan：yaobuzuomulang，yaobuzuomuyang。

 yibianrangxiaohaiyougexingfukuailedeyijiasankou，yaobuxiangmulangxiangtongshisibaoweizishendehunyin，bixuyaotizouzheikelanluhu。yaobuxiangmuyangxiangtongbiyizhiyanzhengyizhiyan，renzishendelaogongwufawutian，weilebaobaomomodichengshou。wojuede，yaotizoudisanzheerzheikehunyindelanluhu，bixuyaozuomulang，neimagaizenyangchaisanhunwaiqing，wanhuilaogongdexin。

 jiandao“lanluhu”，linweibujuditixiaqu。chuguilaogong、disanzheerqianghan，dangniyinerjiudanxinrouruole，neimenijiumeifabaoweinidehunyinle。youdenvxingbachuguilaogongdeyuangusuoyouguijieweiyuzishen，mingbaifanshengzijisuiranshihaode，danshinvxingbixubukeyitaibuzixin。hunwailianzenmeban?miezishenweiwu，zhangtarenzhiqiderenjueduishilianshikuaidouhaipatide，wobutizouta，tadangzhenidelu，niruhexiangqianni?

 lejiezishendelaogongyoudisanzheer，yaomingbaicaozongzhuzishendexintai，bubiyoukuyounaodiguainidelaogongaishangyoufuzhifu，gengbubishengsilijiediyisixiangbi，nineiyangzuo，nanrenfandaoganjuedisanzheerbinigengtinghua。zenyangtizouhunyindaoshangde“lanluhu”?-jiejuehunwailian

 duilaogonghaodian，duizishenhaomouxie。minsuguangweiliuchuanzheyiduanhua：“jiazhongwuxinghongqibudao，waibiancaiqipiaopiao。”zheisuanshideshangnanrenzuimeihaoyuanwangle，keshi，nibixubukeyirangnanrenyouzheileixinyuan。duinanrenshiyaohaodian，keshiyeyaoyou gedu，youshinijiangnijuedeshidejileta，queweibishitayuanyide。

 dangnifangrenta，tajiuqueshiyoujianghuimanbujianglidipanbianni，jibianchuopolechuangzhi，tayebuyidingyouxingwu，zuizhongnifandaohaihuiyouyuxiaohaidengmouxieyaosupobudeyixiangtarangbu。gengshiyouyuniduitataihao，tahuiyongyoumukongyiqiedezichan，yincitacaizouyongqilaisunhaini，taganjueniaitanibianburongyiguaita。

 yincinvxingyaoduizishenhaomouxie，duinanrenhenyidianer，jiarunishi1gechuseyouyouqipodenvxing，neiyangtayezongyouzeixinmeizeidanle。wogaizenmeban?neimanvxinggaizenyangwanliuhunhouchuguilaogong?zuixianjiushishuoyaoduizishenhao，tigaoziji。

 nvxing，tigaozijicaishiyingdaoli。buyongnizhangdeduohaokan，youyuxiangmaoshiniangtailijiujuecelede，danshiniyebubiyouyuneike“lanluhu”denianqingmaomeieryundongchangzhengxingmeirongyiyuanqutaoqiandaoge，neiyangshibumingzhide，nideyangzishipiaoliangle，kenilaogonglejieshiyongtadeqianzhengchuqude，tanengjienama?

 yinci，nideqinfentigaozijidebenzhi，jiehunhouchanzi，nvxinghuijianjiandishuaitui，zuihoubianweirenlaozhuhuang，dangnimeirihaichoumeikulian，nanrenaiyuenide“lanluhu”caiguai。hebuyunyongkongxianshijianhuazhuangmeirongyundongjianshenduanlian，meiyouwaizaiderongyan，danbuweihainiyouzhebenzhideqichanga。

 zuiguanjiandeshi，neike“lanluhu”rujinderongmaozhongjiuhuishuaitui，yexudeqichang，jianghuisuzaonideyibeizi。bujinshiyibianyaotizounihunyindaoshangde“lanluhu”caitigaoziji，doushiyibianwanmeichengxiangengchusedezishen。