老公婚外恋怎么办，媳妇该怎么办算是恰当的

 hunwailian zenmeban?dangshiquanxinquanyiyaojiageta，weidejiushishuotakeyibazishendangshangpinxiangtongdetengzhe。zheitongchangquanshimeinvmenxinlizuimeilidetonghua。wojuedezheiyiquanshijiekeyibazishendangshangpinchongnideyezhinengzishendebabamamale。

 zenmejingyingaiqing?youyuniyutamengurouxianglian。ershijiantongchangjiancelezuiqueshiqingganhezuichundeai。hunyinmaodundechixushengjitongchangposuilefeizaopaoyiyangpiaoliangxiangxiang。danglaogongyongyouhunwailian，xifuzabansuanshiqiadangde?

最先，要理智解决，考虑到大局意识

 zuoweixifu，zidawanhunneiyitianqi，jiuzhongjiuledanfuhenduojiazhongzhongdenantihekunhuo。yegengshizheileipopomamadesuoshilianchulenvxingjianjue，ganjinglisuodexingqing。danglaogongyongyouhunwailian，nihuoxuhuiganjuezishenzaoyimeilexinnianhezhichengxiangtong，keshinikeyimingbai，jinrizaidadeshieryiguoguoduanshijiandoujiangbianchengsuoshi。

 dangnineixinhenta，dangnihouhuimojizheiyihunyin，jiaruniyaolinxinidexiaohai。nijiuzhaogediqu，zhaogehaoguimihaohaojiangyijiang，kuyikuba!huoxuneiyangnenggoujinideqingxushufuyidianer。

 keshidangniganjuehunyinyeyoubaochidebixu，jiujinliangbuyaojingraotaren，qinfenzishenxiangfangfachulizheiyinanti，erbingbushipanghuangzaitongchulibunengziba。hunwailianzenmeban?laogongyongyouhunwailian，xifugaizenmebansuanshiqiadangde-jiejuehunwailian

次之，话题佛学的智慧型，涵养下自身的心身

 zenmejingyingaiqing?rendaotongchudeneishihou，jiuhuixiangqifo。fodawuyin，youyufofarangrenxuezhexuehuifangxiamouxiezhizhehekongxiang。danglaogongyongyouhunwailian，dangnixiaoburenzeluandamou，buliangyingxiangwufayuliao。xuduoyouyuhunwailianzaocheng2gejiazhongliekai，xiaohaibianchengqierdedayourenzai。

 genjuxuefo，shizherangzishendexintaizhuangtaipingjing，suihouxiangfangfazenyangjiejuehunwailiannenggoufangzhizheijianshiqingdesunhaijiangdaozuidi。zhongjiujinixiaohai，laogonghunwaiqinglingyibanyeshi1gejiazhong。

 wulunlaogonghetadehunhouchuguilingyibanzaihunzhang，keshizongyaoyougemingbairen。tianyaoxiayu，niangyaojiaren，guanbuzhude，youtaquba。keshixiangguande，haiyaolianchunengguanshoudeledegongzuonengli。xiangfangfayicizhanlinglaogong，biwanyuqianyandouguanjian。zaidu，xiangxiangxiaohai，zheijiushiniwubijianqiangdeliyou

 pengdaoshier，wulunzairuheyiduziqi，keshixiangxiangxiaohai，zheideyijiushinijianqiangdeliyou，wojuedenijibianmeiyoulaogong，yekeyixiaohaidaixialai。keshixiaohaimeilebaba，dequexingmingzhongdequehan。

 laogongyouhunwailianzheijianshiqing，shuodayeda，zhongjiutazaiganqingshangpanbianleni。shuoxiaoyexiao，yemeiaizheninaxieshier，yaoshitanengbutaoqian，zongyounvxingxiangyaogenta，niguantaneimaduoganshani?nanrenshifouzhenxinaini，jiarubuqinshenjinglimouxieshierdeshenxindexili，bufanmouxiebuzhengque，tahuoxubenzhijiubumingbaitazaiganshenme。