婚姻矛盾期:该怎样避免婚外恋经营爱情

 hunwailian zenmeban?hunyindangzhong，keguanderendougaoqingchu，xianghuzhijiandouqitongchangtongguiyujin。jirantiaoxuanlelingyifang，jiranjiehunqianmeiyouzhengkaiyanjing，neimajiehunhouhuanshixuehaozhengzheshuangyanbizhishuangyanweihao。zaihunyinmaodunqi，liangrendexingzidoutingda，zheiyimohefeichangrongyizizhangchunaxieshierlai，yinci，zheishihouhunyinxushenzhong，dujuehunwailian。neimahunyinmaodunqigaizenyangbimianhunwailianni?

最先，不必让另一方对你太安心

 zenmejingyingaiqing?hunyinmaodunqi，lingyifanghuoxuhuiyiqizhixiazuochumouxiechugedeshier。keshiwulunruhe，doububiranglingyifangduinitaianxin。yaolejiejiarunidongranglingyifangkaolvdaonidetihui，neimalingyifangdexinjiuburongyixizhetaren。

 hunwailianzenmeban?zheixienian，dajiazhongjiandeqingganbixushiyoude，wulunfashengshenmeshishier，haiyaoranglingyifanglejie，niruguoyounaxienanti，huoxuquanbujiazhongdoushichuzaipiantandangzhong。yinci，bubiranglingyifangduinitaianxin。jiarulingyifangjiangnifangzaixinli，daziranhaipabuguanbugunidetihui，zijiwaibiandenghongjiulv。

次之，你可以把握家中的财政局实权

 doushuojingjiwuzhijuedingjianzhu，dangnibukeyibawolingyifangjiazhongdecaizhengjushiquan，neimajiumeifashangxianijianglaidehunyin。nanrenkaodezhu，zhudoudahuishangshu。ruguonimingbaizheiyidianerdeneishihou，nihaiyaogaoqingchu，jiaodadeguishuganshinizishen，jiqinizishenkeyibawodeshier。ruguonigaoqingchuzheimouxiedeneishihou，nicaihuiqueshimingbaizaiqinggandangzhongzenyangzhangchiyoudu。

再度，要明白三思而行

 zenmejingyingaiqing?jibianhelingyifangchanshenglefenqi，keshiyebubihelingyifanglengbaolizhangshijian。yaolejiehelingyifangyiqi，bingbushiyibianhuodenaxie，keshibixushiqidaiyishizhuxingguodegengqiang。

 jiranzheiyang，liangrendeshierhaiyaoxuezheyiqiyingdui。jiarunidongzheiyidianer，jiuhuigaoqingchu，zheiyibeizizuiguanjiandeshiqingjiushishuokeyigaoqingchuzishenzaiganshenme，mingbaizishenzuodeshierhuichaoguonaxiedeshijixiaoguo。sansierxing，nenggoubahuolijizhonghuazaichulidajiazhongjiandenantishang，erbingbushijiyuqidaiyubieren。

最终，给另一方适度的关怀

 jinguandajiachuzaimaodunqi，keshibiewangleshidudeguanhuailingyifang，ranglingyifanglejiedajiazhongjianjinguanyoufenqi，keshidajiazhongjianhuanshiyouqinggande。duiyufenqideyuangu，xianghujianchangyoumouxienanti。yincidajiazhongjiandenantibingbushibunengdiaohede。

 jibianxuduorenchuxianzaidajiadehunyindangzhong，zheiyineishihouhaiyaokandaiqizishendeliangzhi，jirantiaoxuanlelingyifang，haiyaoxuezheweixianghudejianglaikaolvdao。sheidehunyinbingbushiyimianshangxin，yimianpengshang，yimianwangqian?zheiyineishihouzishenbixuyaojindezhuyinyou，bubishiquziwodeganqing。