老公出轨了怎么办？该怎样挽留丈夫出轨的心

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?zhangfuchugui，zheiyiyiqianwomenzhongguorenlaikanbukeraoshudebuzhengque，quesuizhixingguannianderijianduiwaikaifangyibingbushinaxiexinxiandeshile。shubuzhizhenduilaopoeryanhaowuyiwenshizhimingxingdesunhai，neimalaopogaizenyangyingduizhangfuchugui?

 nvxingshifouyikuernaosandiaosi，zuizhongyitongguiyujindefangshigaoyiduanluoyiqiandexiangai?danshineiyangqueshibutaihao，renmenbukeyizuoneiyangdebennvren，renmenyaozuogeyouzhihuixingdebennvren。cike，laopogaizenyangwanliuzhangfuchuguidexinni?

1.不可以为婚姻放纵自己

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?hunhoushenghuojinjinzijizaishenghuozhongyibufen，danbingbushisuoyou。bubizigaozidadeyibianjizhidehunyinjinxinjinyinulilesuoyoudeqinggan，zuihouhaishiqudiandiandididerentong。

 xuehaozuolaopo，haiyaoxuehaoxiangshourensheng，bubiyouyuhunhoushenghuoermituzishen。zaizishendoubuqingchuzishendaodishisheidezhuangkuangxia，hainengjixiwangyulaogongduiwobumiwang，yeyoujuedema?zhaodaozishen，zuoziji，huocheng1gezhenzhengxinxindezishen，erbubiyibianshuobailedeyuanyinmitukunkuzishen。laogongchuguilezenmeban?ai，qishibushihennan，zuizhongyaoshizishenzaizenyangyingduihejienashixiadezishensuanshizuizhidefansidenanti。

2.用心检查出現难题的缘故

 juedaduoshulaogongdewaiyujueduibushiguyiweizhizhide，zhishilingyifangneishihoudeqingganzhuangtaibixulingzheizhongtianbu，erzheileitianbuganghaoshilaopoguanniandehushi。

 laogongchuguilezenmeban?laogongyouwaiyu，laopozuixianyaoxiangzhezaizheiyiduanfuqiguanxizhongrenmenshibushizhenshidejindaolezuoweilaopoderenwujiaose。yexujiehunhouyulaogongjushaoliduo;yexujiehunhouyibiangongzuozhongyibianzhaoliaoxiaohaierxintaishangpaijilelaogong;yexujiehunhouderenwujiaosegongzuonenglishibushinvqiangnanruo?

 hunyinzuiguanjiandeyidianershihuxiangshouhou，youyulaogongruguobaituolelaopodeshouhou，tahuiganjuegudu，huiyuanyishiquziwodechongdong;jiehunhoudenanrengengbixulaopodeguanzhuhezaiyi，jiaruchangchangzaoshoulaopodepaiji，tahuiganjuexurongxinzaoshoulejudadeyanlidaji，tahuiganjueshouzuwucuo，yincitazaiyihuiwaibudeailiuzhongtihuidaoshiwuqianlidezaodonghereqing;nanrendoushiaimianzide，tanenggourenshoulaoporuanruomeijianshi，quemeifarenshoulaopozaigecengmianyaobizishenqianghankeyizuo。

 yinci，zaihunyinzhongxianghugengyingdangyouchongzudekuanronghegoutongjiaoliu，yuanyiganshouroumeideguozihaiyaomingbaizenyangmomogengyun。gaizenyangwanliuzhangfuchuguidexin-zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban

3.给他们時间和机遇

 dajiazongshuo：yihuichuguixingwei，jibaicijuebu。zhiyaoshitiandidemaonaliyoubutouhuandeni?nandaoshuozhiqiumaoyihuidetouhuanhaiyaobataqiandaowanguama?changyandao，jiachoubukewaiyang。jiranpengdaolezheiyangdeshiqing，renmenzuixianyaobaozhengdejiushishuoweichiyikebaochiqingxingdedanaohekeguandexintai。

 bubijiqiechufatahuoshiyutarentanqizheishi。nanrenquanshiaimianzide，ruguonichedibujitamenqingmiandeneishihou，tabujinbuhuiwu，fandaohuiduinigengweiyanfan。dannidexintaishiyaoshitahuijiajiukuanrong，qingjinkenengjitamendianshijianhekongjian，tahuiguanniandaozishenzuobudui。

yinweiai，ainenggoukuanrongrenhe，meigerendoubixujijihui，huoxutaqinshenjingliyiguojianghuikandegenggaoqingchu，yincicaihuijia。

4.再次创建信赖感

 jiranshierzaoyichanshengle，jiububiyixindebawozhulaogongfanguodebuzhengquemeifang，shierzaoyilaidaozheiyichengdu，neixinzaisuonanmianyouzhenzi，jibianwangzifeiboyehaowujiazhile。laogongdewaiyuzishenzaoyiyouchongzudegongzuoyali，youtazishendeluojiguanxi。

 nibixuyouyiduidongcha，qufajuetadeqinfenhezhenxinshiyi，yebixuliuluzishenxinlidetihuihebeisunhai，tahuilejienibuzaizaihuzheijianshiqing，ganghaoqidaibicikeyizhongxinxiufuqizhijiandexinyoulingxihexinlaigan。shuiqingzewuyu，shizhejiganqingjihuiba，yaoshilianggerennengzouhuilai，weilaifandaonenggengweizhangwoxianghu，aixixianghu!